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  • #2047
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    Stevewinnlinux
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    I had just one woman for a boss, about 3 years out of my 40 year work career As far as I know she never married. She was 100 percent devoted

    to her work. She was totaly obsessed with anything that came up. She had to dominate every conversation and always got in the

    last word. All her emloyees avoided her. People quit left and right including many high skill level people. Meetings were a snap as

    she did all the talking. She only lived to age 50 and died shortly after flying into a frenzy over some trivial matter that I cannot now

    recall. I suppose you could call this a casualty in the war on women under the sub heading self inflicted death. I was hardly a friend

    but probably as close to her as any. Sad and ironic, I think her story must be similar to many other women drunk on the kool Aid.

    #2108
    TheBard
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    I have never really had a female boss before. When I was teaching in Europe my regional rep was a women and so where the people in charge of the program, but I didn’t really see them much. My host mother and other co teacher were kind of like bosses i guess you said say, but none of them were ever a problem and very good to work with. You could make the argument that teaching has always been more of a women’s field so it works out better for them.

    I can see how a woman being a boss in a traditional male field could be a problem. It seems women complain more about their jobs then men so being in a high position like a boss would naturally stress them out more and that would affect the employees.

    #2442
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    NewFunnyMoney
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    I’ve known a few women over the years who have proclaimed to be “managers” or even “directors”, inevitably they more often than not have issues with inadequacy and or superiority behind closed doors. The tiger is almost always a pussycat in disguise and just wants a tummy rub. I have found that essentially some women need to exert power over men in public to feel self worth, which in itself can be a depressing thing. But you need to remember this, a toxic environment is a toxic environment. If you feel at any point that you have been given unfair, unjust or even humiliating tasks or treatment because “you’re a man” by a female. Look her straight in the eye and say “no”.

    Always take the time to invest in yourself and your own brand and above all else SAVE. Take back the power to simply have the ability to walk away from toxic females in the workplace with your hard earned pride and respect intact. Don’t be a victim, your better than that.

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    Rock St.Eddie
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    I could unleash a volume on what it’s like to work for and with women. A cauchemare of biblical proportions. I wouldn’t mind so much if they were good at their jobs, but in every situation you have 20 women parading around trying to be seen, but the real production is done by handful of men nobody ever sees. The men are producing and the women are “omg hi! how was your weekend? I had to get up at like 6 this morning so hungover I must have drank like 5 long island ice teas”.

    Shut up!

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    Thechief94
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    I had one female boss several years ago. I was one of only 2 men in the entire office. Everything was like a sewing circle, it was insane. Then I would get ridiculed for not being productive. It was the most bizarre and toxic environment I had ever been in. Needless to say, I quit after 3 months.

    I would probably never take a job working under female “management” ever again.

    #3342
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    McQueen
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    @thechief94 “Toxic” is the perfect word for it. Females in the work place are a nightmare and they provide terrible customer service.

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    TheBard
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    At my job we just got a female boss since the guy who was our boss moved up. She has only been there for a few weeks, but there isn’t any problems. Naturally she is doing a few things different, but it isn’t anything that is causing problems or making our jobs harder. It is basically her being more by the book since she is new.

    #3611
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    Soldano
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    I work in fashion, so women bosses i’ve seen quite a few.

    A majority of them are f~~~ing hitler.
    They don’t care about the job. They’re just here to assert their superiority,
    show how strong they are and constantly need to prove that you should respect their autority.

    I am not saying women are not good at their job.
    I am saying that given the least minimum amount of authority,
    a large percentage of them go WILD.

    Most impressive is how they actually hate each other.
    After reading so much about patriarchy, you would expect men to be in the key positions and women to be oppressed…
    Well women are oppressed, that’s for sure.
    Cause they want to be the only women who suceed and will do EVERYTHING they can to destroy others career, including blackmail, discrinimation based on private life or sexual things, go out with the girls and then push her to have sex with a guy only to learn on monday morning that he was the accounting manager and that she has to leave immediately.

    So when i started my job, i was like THE heterosexual guy. The one and only.
    Women kept telling me that finally the atmosphere started to be more relaxed and that when i was around everyone’s attitude changed.
    Well at least for a while, cause the tigers didn’t like it one bit and tried everything they could to dismiss me.

    My observation is quite simple : in management positions, women are all show and create a lot of problems.
    Not all of them, i’ve met quite a few really professional ones.
    But in the end they all go nuts when they hit 40.

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    Xagura Yiazmat
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    Working with females is a pain in the a**.  I don’t hate my job but working with females and having female boss is a nightmare.

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    Anonymous
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    I know a woman manager at Taco Bell. She has been manager for over 10 years. She has NEVER hired a single male employee. They are all female and she is biggest c~~~ to customers. I am shocked she has not got fired from a District Manager. I tell you, most of the girls working there don’t seem to last long either. She has a very high turn over rate. The girls working there seem so unhappy. It feels like a am jew walking into a death camp when ever I walk into that Taco Bell.

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    No Ma’am: I’ve seen that same s~~~ over and over too man. My take on it is that that bitch is extremely unhappy about some s~~~ that happened to her so she’s exacting punishment on everyone around her in return. Or, she was just born a f~~~ing c~~~. Lotta that going around…………

    #19808
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    Governor Megachris%
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    I feel like I need to chime in on a topic of this name with something that happened right as we’re here at a business lunch.

    I’m pretty much the grunt of the office. I’m here at a table with mostly women. We’re here at this Mexican restaurant, enjoying chips and dip as we wait on our food.

    I suppose I was eating too fast, because just told by the executice secretary that if I don’t stop “eating like that,” she was going to “slap me.” I look up at her as the female co-workers around us are laughing, and simply justifying it with “she’s raised 3 kids, she’s used to being like this!” I’m sorry, but I was either ready to 1) walk out, 2) tell her “go ahead and slap me. Try me, I dare you” or 3) eat the chips more “rudely”, because I thought I was being pretty danged polite this entire time. All it did was bring flashbacks to my mother bring abusive towards me, and I was dying to tell this to her. Maybe I’m overthinking this. No matter what, had I stood up for myself, I would have been fired.

     

    My best friend and I are considering starting our own business if we can ever get the funding to. Doing that would be a lot less stressful.

    #20134
    Aservant
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    Close to unanimous here that women in the work place are a disaster, especially in management.  And like some have said, I have worked with a handful that were truly professional and good at their jobs, but it is really, really rare.  Most are just like has been described, I can’t add much; they are overbearing, ostentatious, over compensate, straight bitchy and aggressive, and just plain poor at their jobs.  The few that I have known that actually added value were all traditional/conservative minded, which says a lot.  So much for “muh feminism”.

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    Keymaster
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    if I don’t stop “eating like that,” she was going to “slap me.” ……No matter what, had I stood up for myself, I would have been fired.

    There is ALWAYS a reply that puts a woman in her place and won’t get you fired. Just like “negging” will get a guy laid more than a compliment, a little creativity and certain words work wonders. You may even surprise yourself and get a promotion. Women who talk like that are so f~~~ing insecure it’s unbelievable. You can turn that around – no problem.

    POSSIBLE EXAMPLES:

    • “That could be adorable if I were into pain. Let me think about it.” (then chew louder)

    • “Careful. People will say we’re in love.”

    • “Why are you pretending I’m not expecting that?”

    • “OK but I should warn you, I get pregnant easily.”

    • “Cute. Lemme get back to you.” (then totally change the subject before she can think about it)

    • “You’re the classiest one here!”…….
    (then wait for her to take it as a compliment)
    …… “which is sort of like saying you’re the smartest Kardashian”.

    Of course that last one might get you fired, but not if all the others laugh. That one I saw recently from Triumph the insult dog. It’s all in the delivery.

    Whenenver a woman says something I don’t like and I need a few seconds to think of a response, I just smile. LOUDLY. They HATE that. Tom Cruise does that. It’s a natural reaction when he doesn’t know what to say or do, he just laughs. He acts like he knows something they don’t. He does it automatically, but it’s f~~~ing brilliant.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #21078
    Governor Megachris%
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    Funny little update on what happened that day:

    I was speaking with one of the secretaries who overheard her say that, and said she saw my facial expression after I was threatened.  The secretary said she was about ready to slap the woman herself if I didn’t!  I honestly didn’t expect to hear that!  Glad to know I’m not the only one who didn’t find it funny.

    #23556
    Peterfa
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    In my opinion, it’s not the females that bother me, it’s the Beta Males.

    #23577
    Berlihingen
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    That was one of my Red Pills. I had a rough night but in the morning my boss/business owner called me to negotiate with investors. We have been two since I knew what to say, but she knew how to (she knew English, yeah). Negotiations have been quite successful, though I felt like s~~~ but looked even worse. When partners are gone, she came up to me and hissed angrily: “This morning… have you looked in the mirror? What did I look like?”
    A strong koan, isn’t it?
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    #28530
    Giggity
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    Men are familiar with a top down structure of authority.  When s~~~ has hit the fan and decisions must be made, the top boss tells the next in command what to do and then he tells the next guy below him.  This works to the bottom of the command structure and no man questions his orders.  Eery man starts at the bottom and they work up to the highest level they can achieve.  So they totally understand what it takes to do the jobs below them.

    Women are familiar with a flat structure of authority.  They all bond, synchronize their menses and then make all decisions based on emotion and general agreement.  No woman is at the bottom and the one assigned at the top has many confidents that she talks to before making any decision.  When s~~~ has hit the fan and decisions must be made, no woman wants to make the hard decision.  So nothing gets done.  They often employ woman these days at management levels, skipping the introductory level jobs.  So woman do not understand how the decisions they make will actually get done.  I have worked for women and with women and have even had women work for me.  As long as a man was in charge of everything the business ran fine.  But I never seen a business work when a woman was in charge.

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    I’m not going to repeat what the others have said. I would never work for a woman as they are an truly insult to Hitler. I’ve found in my experience that 15 to 20% of female bosses are OK. It literally goes to their heads is all I can say like nothing else

    I’m successfully self-employed and female bosses are a prime motivator for that. My MGHOW strategy goes well beyond women as mega-corps were the other half that made me a MGHOW.

    HR departments are chock full of women. It fully explains their comical level of dysfunctionality.

    F~~~ you and the horse you rode in on mega-corps!!!

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    Giggity:

     

    That explains a lot about what happened in the apartment complex I live in.  For the past several years, up to a few weeks ago, the manager was a woman.  During her tenure, the office was run exclusively by women.  Major maintenance projects took excessively long to complete.  (In one case, what should have taken less than a month wasn’t finished until well over a year after it was started.)  It came as no surprise that nobody in the office knew what went on and, when all else failed, the blame was placed on “downtown”.

     

    It was with great joy that I learned a few days ago that the manager is no longer in charge.  By the way the memo informing us was written, she was canned.  It was a shame that it took someone so long to give her the well-deserved boot out the door.

     

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