Fell in love & done the right thing

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Interesting story. Now that you talk about it, Im not sure how I would have handled this.

• Actually “liking” her is an aphrodisiac for me. It adds to it and is more necessary now then a time when I would have sex with her whether I truly liked her or not. But I also know that If I do like her, I would probably proceed.

• Not-liking her is also important. I don’t care how attractive she is, if I don’t like her, it’s not happening. Identifying “the wrong girl” early is just as essential.

I’m not surprised that she ended up pouting over it and I have been there quite a few times i.e. with a girl I worked closely with – but refused to get involved with – based on that alone.

I wouldn’t have said “I will never marry” because it wasn’t a marriage proposal, but I also know that taking the bait and telling her AFTER the bang is something she will resent you for. “He just wanted me for sex” and all that nonsense.

• She makes herself available and totally interested…

• You don’t go with it, add a disclaimer to be clear, and she says “that’s OK, it’s just fun.”….. setting you up for being an asshole later if you don’t want to see her again or get married eventually.

• You DO go with it and don’t add a disclaimer and now you’re an asshole.

This is an example of her treating you like an asshole no matter what you do.
And that’s reason enough to walk.

Want to be just her friend? You’re an asshole.
F~~~ her but don’t want to marry? You’re an asshole.
Marry, and 7 years later you’re a huge asshole + she wants your house.

Something wrong with the math, ladies and women need to sort themselves out. The day I figured out that women will treat you like an asshole – no matter what you do – is the day I stopped giving them what they want. They did that to themselves.

Stargazer wrote:

Welcome to our world, ladies.

Stargazer wrote:

The fact that saying you’d like to be her friend would be universally recognized as a dick move even though you actually mean it just goes to show how frequently this phrase is used by women who do not. That in itself is truly sad.

( I’m nodding )

I would also add to above…. there have been times when I was VERY interested – just not “tonight” – for whatever reason (work on my mind) and I would pass on “sex right now”, and they would react to that like a full-out “means never”.

Not giving them what they want IN THAT MOMENT is also an indicator you’re dealing with fickle. The girl that wants it RIGHT NOW — and doesn’t get it RIGHT NOW — won’t want you next week.

Based on that, that’s full reason to not proceed either. It doesn’t matter what you do, if you didn’t give her what she wants “right now”, you’re an asshole. F~~~ that s~~~.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 2]

Congratulation man,awesome job!She was after more than just a fling.But you avoided the trap. “The man who is not a slave to chase women is a powerful man indeed.”

[sidecarParticipant 35862]

Keymaster wrote:

The day I figured out that women will treat you like an asshole – no matter what you do – is the day I stopped giving them what they want.

Same here. It’s also the day I stopped giving any f~~~s what women think about me. And making sure they know it. That drops the floor right out from under them.

See a man’s opinion is his own, and to hell with what anyone else thinks. But a woman’s opinion is more “socially dependent”. Her opinion of you only holds weight, even in her own mind, if it matters to you. They need you to care, and once you don’t they have absolutely nothing.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

sidecar wrote:

You never, ever win by giving women what they want.

ILiveAgain-

Well played.

I agree with sidecar- you never win by giving a lady what she wants.

Sometimes a woman will sleep with a man to make plundering his assets a little easier.

You dodged a bullet. Her true nature certainly was displayed. Again, good job.

[Anonymous 18]

ILiveAgain wrote:

I loved her for the person she was and the fun time we had … but that was it.

I can sense a lot of lurking females cringing at the thought of males doing just what they (women) have so dishonestly professed themselves: Men thinking with their big brains!

Ouch. Man.

She won’t be able to finger herself for a while thinking: “What is wrong with miiiiiii?”

sidecar wrote:

Her opinion of you only holds weight, even in her own mind, if it matters to you.

Very deep brother. +1000

[AFTParticipant 2726]

Women have forever been granted the presumption of sugar and spice and all things nice, but we actually see privileged and entitled immature cows now they cannot handle the tables being turned upon them.
You should try friend-zoning a land whale after they get a date under false pretenses, the best case scenario is they disappear never to be heard of again.
Seems to me you got the best case scenario, job well done

When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

[Anonymous 42]

Put yourself in ILA’s shoes, here’s the captain of an Airliner looking all captainish, in places like Hethrow, Amsterdam, Frankfurt, admits the finest pussy mankind has to offer, and what’s he do? “Nope, none of them are good enough for me, I’m ILA worship my every command or I’m gone, I’m the captain, f~~~ you!”.

ILA, You’re my hero!!! Smothered in available pussy and you still have the fortitude to “just say no”.

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

My congratulations.

How was her face when you rejected her? 🙂
After I was wounded with a knife, and she also fired me, by my ex Swedish HR chief and partner, and I returned in Italy, I developed a fetish for arousing women then rejecting them. It didn’t last so much, less than an year, but since then I still have such idea every time I have the chance of having sex with a woman: “I could get more pleasure by having sex with her or by rejecting her?”. The very same question comed in to my mind when I had sex for the first time with my ex wife, and even when I had sex with my actual partner.
Their reaction is priceless, better than sex, but I’m most times too weak to reject them.

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[NeutronParticipant 321]

Dude, you mean you didn’t know that WOMEN CAN NEVER BE FRIEND-ZONED, ONLY MEN? Shame on you!

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