Ex wife got engaged

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

Had a call from my ex wife yesterday to tell me that her new wallet has proposed and that she said yes. We separated 3 years ago and have been divorced for 15 months, I think he has been divorced for a year or so. Have to say this is the best news I have had in a long time, now that he is prepared to take her on 100% and pay full retail, it makes my life that little bit easier.

What amazes me is that this is a guy who has just been divorce raped and is prepared to jump straight in to another marriage with a 67% chance of failure. Those are not good odds, if they get divorced (and knowing what she is like, that is pretty much a certainty) he is going to end up never being able to retire.

She is currently 39, at 36 she decided to get back on the carousel which she did for 6 months before meeting the current wallet. I suspect that the next few years are going to be hard for her and she will be hitting the wall hard. I bet once she is 43/44 she is going to freak out about her SMV and start looking for validation again just like she did when she was with me.

And I get to sit back with the popcorn and watch this car crash happen in slow motion.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[HitmanParticipant]

you have to be glad somebody else has her as a problem now.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

Sucks to be her. I’m sure she misses you and is thinking she made a mistake, ha ha, see you later c~~~. Maybe next time she sees you, you will have a fresh hot 20 year old so she can see what a old bag she is and remember what a c~~~ she was her whole life. I glanced at your into and saw that you said she tried monkey branching back to you after she left, but you weren’t there for her LOL.

Last time she saw me I was with a much hotter, younger woman than her. She told me how much it hurt her to see us together, but she didn’t think twice about me when she was secretly messaging (and meeting) guys she met through Facebook while we were married.

I know exactly what a nasty, manipulative, lying person she is hence I know exactly how this marriage is going to go. Still, not my problem!

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[ScarberianMPTGLParticipant 3286]

Good, hope she never comes back!

I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!

[TuneoutParticipant]

Won'tGetFooledAgain wrote:

What amazes me is that this is a guy who has just been divorce raped and is prepared to jump straight in to another marriage with a 67% chance of failure. Those are not good odds, if they get divorced (and knowing what she is like, that is pretty much a certainty) he is going to end up never being able to retire.

I can ALMOST understand a second go at marriage but what I can’t wrap my head around are people who keep trying after 3,4,5,6,7,8 f~~~ing times!
You’d think eventually they’d realize that hey maybe,just maybe I’m not cut out for it.
Or is it another form of addiction perhaps? A fear of being alone/socially unacceptable – in some circles?

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[Oz-BlokeParticipant 3233]

Congratulations bloke. Were you paying alimony? If so, does this mean the alimony payments end now she has a new cash-cow? I understand many women who divorce and jump the c~~~-carousel resist moving-in with a new walking-wallet as they don’t want to kiss goodbye to the alimony payments. Eventually though, the allure of taking half of another man’s house, savings, car and 401K are too alluring to pass up.
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#ManOut

[Anonymous 42]

It’s pathetic how clingy to marriage manginas are!

1 year out and he’s already jumping back in? Oh how heartwarming fuzzy and comfortable that makes me feel THAT I’M NOT THE ONE TYING A KNOT AROUND MY NECK!

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Congratulations! The wait must had been killing you
I had the smoothest sailing in that regard – it only took her a minute
My XW managed to get proposed by 2 other guys she met within two weeks of me kicking her out. (I checked her phone records – and their numbers didn’t appear until after the breakup). And then she had an audacity to come to my house and tell me she still hasn’t decided who she’ll be with – suitor nr1, suitor nr2 or getting back with me. I told her she could cross me out.
But she was a relatively hot 25 yo Russian despite being a single mom when it happened.
Godspeed and kudos to her. Under some pressure from her sister she rejected her Chad and said yes to a hipster midget mangina. 8 month later they got married
I couldn’t be a happier man!

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Tuneout wrote:

Won’tGetFooledAgain wrote:

What amazes me is that this is a guy who has just been divorce raped and is prepared to jump straight in to another marriage with a 67% chance of failure. Those are not good odds, if they get divorced (and knowing what she is like, that is pretty much a certainty) he is going to end up never being able to retire.

I can ALMOST understand a second go at marriage but what I can’t wrap my head around are people who keep trying after 3,4,5,6,7,8 f~~~ing times!
You’d think eventually they’d realize that hey maybe,just maybe I’m not cut out for it.
Or is it another form of addiction perhaps? A fear of being alone/socially unacceptable – in some circles?

Thats exactly what it is, society has told them they are not ‘normal ‘ unless they have a partner , some guys take anything on I know two who have low confidence with women and married the most horrendous type of fat drunken women, just so they are nit alone.

It’s social conditioning that’s all ..

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

Buller100 wrote:

Thats exactly what it is, society has told them they are not ‘normal ‘ unless they have a partner , some guys take anything on I know two who have low confidence with women and married the most horrendous type of fat drunken women, just so they are nit alone.

It’s social conditioning that’s all ..

Definitely true, if a guy has low confidence with women he will settle for the first woman that comes along and gives him regular sex. I know a guy who married beneith himself looks wise purely because he has no confidence with women. We were outside a nightclub after a few drinks and looking at the women as they walked by with tattooed chads. We started talking about this and he got so angry that these guys are always with the hot women. He had been bought up to believe that you need to get married, buy a house and have 2 Children to be happy that he settled for someone that he clearly wasn’t attracted to just because she took an interest in him.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Well this is definitely cause for celebration.

I recently heard a divorced woman say OUT LOUD “I would really like to be married again” — which was very obvious woman speak for “I would really like to get paid out in divorce again”…..

But already being divorced is clearly a sign that she is a failure at marriage and family already. She had her shot. She f~~~ed it up. She’s done. And if she initiated the divorce (like damn near ALL of them do) then she should be PERMANENTLY off the market. Not even dating.

I don’t understand why more men don’t see it that way.
It’s like crazy police sirens obvious.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[OldBillParticipant]

That’s excellent news, Won’tGetFooledAgain! Congratulations!

I must ask, however, why you still answer her phone calls? Are there children involved?

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[thisistheguy123Participant 2063]

Congrats OP!

Seriously, when I saw the thread title I didn’t expect the positive post, it put a huge smile on my face.

F~~~ them both, and all…You don’t need them, but you’re right – the s~~~ show coming down the pipe is going to be VERY entertaining.

[Anonymous 0]

Happy for OP
Does this mean that when she re-marrys, your alimony payments cease but not child support?

[Anonymous 54]

Some guys have all the luck.
Anybody want to meet my ex?

Congrats Brother.

You should get to walk her down the ilse !

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Even before finding this website I used to say that the best salesperson in the world was a woman that could convince a guy to go BACK down the isle. First time, no big deal. But after you’ve been through it once, that’s a hell of a sales pitch to get you to try it again.

But, as PT Barnum said, there’s a sucker born every minute.

Congratulations to you. The funniest part is I’ll bet you she was nervous about telling you, thinking that you would be jealous. That you wouldn’t even know you would be until you heard the news. Because she has the only golden vagina on earth and you would just be realizing how your chance is now permanently gone. OK, maybe the funniest part is the hamster wheel spinning in her head when you didn’t give that response.

Order the good wine

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Tuneout wrote:

Won’tGetFooledAgain wrote:

What amazes me is that this is a guy who has just been divorce raped and is prepared to jump straight in to another marriage with a 67% chance of failure. Those are not good odds, if they get divorced (and knowing what she is like, that is pretty much a certainty) he is going to end up never being able to retire.

I can ALMOST understand a second go at marriage but what I can’t wrap my head around are people who keep trying after 3,4,5,6,7,8 f~~~ing times!
You’d think eventually they’d realize that hey maybe,just maybe I’m not cut out for it.
Or is it another form of addiction perhaps? A fear of being alone/socially unacceptable – in some circles?

I remember the whole blue pill conditioning mind set. I would look at Match.com, and think if I was divorced I could go for this one or that one etc. Thinking that maybe wifey #2 would be different blah, blah, blah. Wow, today, it’s hard for me to imagine that I ever contemplated a wifey #2, but that’s what the blue pill does best. It keeps your mind shackled to the social conditioning which imprisoned you in the first place.

Currently, there’s this almost 50 divorced single women at work that is still good looking with a nice figure that is awfully smiley, friendly, and giggly with me. She’s desperately searching for her final host to latch on to. I can truly see the DESPARATION in her eyes. HAS ANYONE ELSE NOTICED THIS WITH THESE TYPES OF LIL CUPCAKES ???

During my blue pill era, I would be actively trying for this one. Now, I look and laugh. She may find a new host, but that host won’t be me !!!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[OgreParticipant 5863]

That might be a wedding worth going to if you’re invited. If showing up with one 20 something hurt her feelings, how would she feel about 22 year old twins? It might just ruin her whole big event.

Congrats on the great news Won’tGetFooled, now all you have to do is ignore the call when she gets bored with him and wants to reignite the old passion with you.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Anonymous 54]

I meant walk her down the isle, to give away the Bride.

I wont quit my day job.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Awakened wrote:

I can truly see the DESPARATION in her eyes. HAS ANYONE ELSE NOTICED THIS WITH THESE TYPES OF LIL CUPCAKES ???

Oh yeah. We’ve had conversations about the look. It was months ago, so not surprised you didn’t see it. But hell yeah we’ve seen that look. I gave my seat at the food court in the mall to a 5-6 year kid a few months ago. I was there with my daughters and we were almost done eating. The other group had a couple of kids and they were one chair short so I gave my chair to the kid. The woman with the kids was a butt ugly land whale their with her kids and grandma. The look on her face was THE LOOK. Like a land whale that hasn’t eaten in a week stumbling upon an all-you-can eat buffet. After we walked off my oldest daughter looked at me and said “what’s wrong with her?” I just said “I know she was creeping me out.”

It’s not an attractive look.

Order the good wine

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