Ex C~~~'s Cuckold Tries to White Knight Me

[BalthazarParticipant 722]

How do any of you other guys deal with baby momma drama f~~~ing nonsense? i’m not particularly worked up or anything and have necessary tools to stay calm and cope with s~~~ but this situation that just happened was pretty f~~~ing ridiculous.

ex c~~~ was about two steps away from abducting my kid in the way that she chose to leave about a year ago. ex c~~~ has been with withholding my child and trying to effectively sideline me as a parent by only agreeing to minimal time. i have been sitting back, trying to build and case and put myself in the best place possible in order to petition the court. that is at hand and am just waiting for the bitch to get served. i apparently have a pretty decent case according to the lawyer and custody is pretty much guaranteed, the real fight will be over time and who gets named the primary custodian.

ex c~~~ has a new boyfriend that is brought around the kid all the time while she is continuing to sideline me. i’ve made it explicit that i wanted 50/50 the entire time. and have recently really been pushing for a conversation about it, ex c~~~ tries to ignore or deflect this conversation. ex c~~~ brings mangina cuckold to every exchange despite me requesting that this doesn’t happen. mangina cuckold stood out of the car and acted mildly threatening towards me today as the exchange became somewhat confrontational. honestly, if i could bait this dumb f~~~ into assaulting me, i wouldn’t even try to defend myself, as i could just use it against her in court later on.

does anyone deal with this type of f~~~ing nonsense?

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[HitmanParticipant]

No but I think you have it covered.

[DDJParticipant 1880]

I had to deal with it at one point. My response was very similar to the following meme.

Every woman is a slut, if you catch her on the right day.

[Anonymous 54]

Ask him how your dick tastes.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Sounds like you’re going about it the right way. I hope the courts give you a fair shake. No lady lawyers.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[Elric GreenstoneParticipant 1637]

I’ve actually been on both sides of this.

With my ex-wife, she told the new boyfriend all kinds of awful things about me . . . which happened to be the same awful things she lied about to me about her boyfriend at the time. It’s a tactic in monkey branching “oh, boo hoo, i was abyoused, so sad, buy things for me”. I had previously been aggressive with her ex-boyfriend, because I thought he was a domestic abuser or violent or ate shellfish a lot or something. It made sense at the time.

When she turned it around and used the exact same games on him using me as a catspaw, I wasn’t so much bothered by her slandering me to her ex . . . and all of her friends . . . and all of my friends. It was the realization that I had been played literally from *before* day one.

Women who complain they’ve been abused a lot are generally either full of hooey, or in some cases engender the abuse by being abusive themselves.

He’s probably been repeatedly lied to about what a terrible person you are. He probably sees himself in the position of defending her, and defending the child. The mellower you act, the more he’s going to start to wonder what the f~~~ is actually going on. Of course, he’s also a potential hostile witness against you in “family” court, which is another lovely and venomous reason she brought him along.

"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."

[Anonymous 42]

Balthazar wrote:

does anyone deal with this type of f~~~ing nonsense?

No, I’m single and childless (knock on wood). I would have some pipe thumping ni**ers go to work on the homes and convince him she’s not his type. No c~~~ would enter that hole without getting it’s neck wrung! And her car would always be in a state of disrepair or at the bottom of an abandoned quarry.

I don’t play dirty, not me!

[Sky-OParticipant 18933]

Back during my blue pill era, I seemed to lack the ability to handle things tactfully.

After a break up with an ex (no kids involved), her and I were on the phone and she decided to just give her phone to the new clown AKA beta, cuckold, mangina, chump.

A couple of my buddies were hanging at my house drinking and they always enjoyed the three ring circus sideshow that was my life at the time. When one of them realized I was on the phone with the new guy after super-slut made the hand off, my buddy knew a s~~~storm was coming and started filming me with his phone.

Which is why, I can recall word for word everything I said to him, because since then, we have watched that video a few times when drinking and have laughed our asses off.

I was still in blue pill mode and it dictated my total meltdown with the new guy.

Once she had handed the phone off to him and he started going off,I said

‘Listen mother f~~~er. You’re 32 years old, still living at your parents house and playing XBox360 on weekends while she is out banging other guys. Her f~~~ing holes were getting beat up long before you met her and they are going to keep getting smashed long after you are gone. And nobody has been inside her longer, harder and better than me. I took her clit to the next level of orgasmic evolution and got her off in ways that you can’t even think of’ (And it went on for a while with me yelling over him) Then I closed with the usual the usual, if you ever cross my path, I’ll f~~~ you up, etc – Then he hung up.

LOL

Three days later, I was mowing my front lawn and a cop car pulled up. The cop got out, walked up to me and handed me a temporary restraining order.

Filed by the cuckold, mangina, beta chump himself. He literally went into court and said he felt threatened and was afraid of me.

I skipped the court date, it was issued, then expired and she had already cheated on him and transitioned to a new guy.

Ultimately, he was a total f~~~ing pussy.

[bladeParticipant]

Never give up in yourself no matter the out come of your family court case brother . You never know what the future will bring . I wrote more but deleted it . Don’t let emotions be in control . Speak very normal with her and don’t let her see s~~~ is hurting you best you can . Feal for ya bro .

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[narrow road travelerParticipant 1680]

Elric Greenstone wrote:

I’ve actually been on both sides of this.

With my ex-wife, she told the new boyfriend all kinds of awful things about me . . . which happened to be the same awful things she lied about to me about her boyfriend at the time. It’s a tactic in monkey branching “oh, boo hoo, i was abyoused, so sad, buy things for me”. I had previously been aggressive with her ex-boyfriend, because I thought he was a domestic abuser or violent or ate shellfish a lot or something. It made sense at the time.

When she turned it around and used the exact same games on him using me as a catspaw, I wasn’t so much bothered by her slandering me to her ex . . . and all of her friends . . . and all of my friends. It was the realization that I had been played literally from *before* day one.

Women who complain they’ve been abused a lot are generally either full of hooey, or in some cases engender the abuse by being abusive themselves.

He’s probably been repeatedly lied to about what a terrible person you are. He probably sees himself in the position of defending her, and defending the child. The mellower you act, the more he’s going to start to wonder what the f~~~ is actually going on. Of course, he’s also a potential hostile witness against you in “family” court, which is another lovely and venomous reason she brought him along.

When watching documentaries, and reports 20 years ago. The abuse cases had a theme which doesn’t seem to be the case anymore.

Women who,suffered physical violence kept it very quiet. It was a source of shame for them. The male aggressor usually had a manipulative reputation.

The male abusers reported, would describe torturing the woman for various infractions. If the women left the relationship he’d find and murder her.

Those things happened and it’s been a felony for a long time. Modern women lie, and are solipsistic. They portray regular guys as beastly trolls, when they leave the relationship to make themselves feel better about being an ungrateful person.

Women who have actually been abused, and live. They move far away, and in the new place get involved with a similar man there.

The supreme art of war is to subdue the enemy without fighting. --Sun Tsu

[BalthazarParticipant 722]

Hitman wrote:

No but I think you have it covered.

thank you hitman!

DDJ wrote:

I had to deal with it at one point. My response was very similar to the following meme.

Anonymous wrote:

Ask him how your dick tastes.

haha, thanks brothers. that’s basically how i view it too. that pussy is just my second hand garbage.

i’m actually totally dismissive of the guy, it’s not even the guy that bothers me, even though he’s clearly a dumbf~~~. it’s the fact that this c~~~ is still keeping my kid away from me after almost a year and is clearly just trying to replace me.

Biggvs_Dickvs wrote:

Sounds like you’re going about it the right way. I hope the courts give you a fair shake. No lady lawyers.

i sure hope so.

Elric Greenstone wrote:

I’ve actually been on both sides of this.

He’s probably been repeatedly lied to about what a terrible person you are. He probably sees himself in the position of defending her, and defending the child. The mellower you act, the more he’s going to start to wonder what the f~~~ is actually going on. Of course, he’s also a potential hostile witness against you in “family” court, which is another lovely and venomous reason she brought him along.

i have definitely had this realization after this past evening, seeing as how the cuck was actively listening the entire time. sometimes i f~~~ single mothers but i would never under any circumstances commit to one. and even farther beyond that, trying to interject yourself into other people’s parenting relationship, especially when you’ve only been dating the c~~~ in question for several months, is absolutely f~~~ing ridiculous.

blade wrote:

Never give up in yourself no matter the out come of your family court case brother . You never know what the future will bring . I wrote more but deleted it . Don’t let emotions be in control . Speak very normal with her and don’t let her see s~~~ is hurting you best you can . Feal for ya bro .

thanks blade, i’m doing a decent job. i didn’t get hot headed at all, i was just trying to speak sternly and frankly. the c~~~ escalated it by forcibly removing the baby from my hands and by being completely dismissive of everything i was saying.

This body holding me is a reminder of my own mortality. Embrace this moment. Remember, we are eternal and all this pain is an illusion.

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