Easter Sunday Interrogation

[xanthineParticipant 4903]

It’sallbs wrote:

Don’t go next year, cut them off completely.

Agreed. Blatantly rude to you, and dishonest. She doesn’t give a f~~~ about your mental health, she just can’t to stand to see a man happy and free from the tyranny of women…like all the other bitter old crones. Her and the rest of her bitter friends can eat alone with each other next year, I am sure they will enjoy the company.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

BritGHOW wrote:

You handled it a lot better than I would have done, some c~~~ tried to tell my mother I need to see a head shrinker she’d get her answer in short order and a lot less diplomatically. Tell your mother in no uncertain terms that if the old crone is there next year you won’t be and why, let her figure out what’s more important to her.

Yep. I would of said, mind your own business. When I announced my divorce, most said good riddance. I’m so glad they all spoke up prior to marriage.

[Parker (Freedom Fighter)Participant 99]

I can understand your situation, my brother!

I have been in similar situations in the past.

I am lucky as I don’t have any family around to pester me and pressure me into marriage. When I do get together with friends and friends who are married, I have learned to only get together with folks who genuinely accept me and positively affirm me for who I am, without trying to change me. But, that has not come without years of being in situations like yours. Needless to say I don’t hang around many women at all. Women are always trying to change the guy. No matter what he does, it is not right according to the woman.

Keep up the good fight, my brother!

[LionOnTheLooseParticipant 1315]

Tempting as the “f~~~ you” approach is, I don’t think there’s any shame in being a bit more manipulative about the whole situation. Tell her what she wants to hear if there’s something in it for you. Cash? Inheritance? Sure, bring it on. I don’t give a s~~~ anymore, and if you can support your MGTOW life with cash from relatives then talk crap to them, who gives a s~~~. But then I’m pretty dark triad and you might be a nicer guy.

There aren't holes in your pockets. It's called marriage.

[WraithParticipant 242]

I’ve reached a level of intolerance for that kind of meddling that my answers would have made her holiday more unpleasant than she was making mine:

Anonymous wrote:

1) Why did I get a divorce.

She filed, because she said …

2) why was I not in a relationship with a view to re marrying?

Because I just got divorced and need time to process things. I’m going to do that on my schedule and will decide my own destination.

3) If no women available locally, she knew quite a few divorcees she could introduce me to.

Marriage is intensely personal, and I don’t welcome matchmaking.

4) why was I still riding motorbikes at my age?

[BOOM! This would probably set me off more than the other questions.] That’s an awfully stuffy view of motorcycles. Men of all ages – as well as some women – ride motorcycles. It’s a hobby that many people enjoy. I ride safely, and I can assure you that I’ve heard and dismissed whatever reservations you might have about it. More to the point, I think, I’m not the kind of person who felt compelled on his 35th birthday to throw away his jeans and spend the rest of his life behind a tie tack. Maybe that isn’t exactly what you meant, but it sure is how you’re coming across.

5) to my mother ” he needs to see someone professional to get his mind sorted out”

It’s my life, and my disagreement with your uptight expectations about who men are supposed to be doesn’t make me dysfunctional. I know how to maintain my sanity, which is why I’m leaving now. Maybe it isn’t too late to salvage my Easter.

[MonkParticipant 16985]

Normally I ghost, giving no or vague answers, but as this was a domestic setting, I would have been much blunter.

[Anonymous 12]

Jesus i would have had a hard time accepting this kind of behavior and judgement.
“So what are you saying, i should marry a nosey, indiscreet, judgemental overbearing Kunt like you, auntie? And then get taken my bike away, a bike that gives me more pleasure as all you kunts ever could – combined?”

[Anonymous 1]

The day I get my bikes taken from me they will have to prise the throttle grips from my cold dead fingers.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

I feel so fortunate to have found limitless excuses to stay away from such interrogations.

I spent Easter being invited to dinner at a friend’s house. Refreshing conversation with a young brother who can speak with refreshing candor.

The guy is 22 and I deeply admire how much more insight he has than most men of 42 ! A few weeks ago, I overheard him explain to a friend of his why “Bros before Hoes” and couldn’t stop grinning when he expanded upon why over our dinner.

I’ve tried to get him here, I know he has started lurking. Please, if you are reading it, come to the party ! Log in, get an account, you would be welcomed.

Frank V.

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