Don't Want Involvement but Seem Apathetic About Sex. What's the Point of Life?

[Eyes Wide OpenSpectator 47]

I know, I know. MGTOW is about being your own man. Not letting women rule you. Not being a blue pill chump. I get it. That is why I am here.

BUT…is it also giving into to not being successful with women and calling it quits in that department? Am I supposed to feel better about not getting any because I now have a label?

A lot of you guys seem totally okay living a sexless life.

I used to be pretty outgoing when I was in my late 20s/early 30s. Six years ago I experienced a tragedy I would not wish on my worst enemy. I will never get over it. I don’t want to get over it. I lost all I interest in everything. My life was turned upside down. And I was already suffering depression to begin with. My GP said I have PTSD.

I finally got a decent job six months ago. Hours are good. But I have no interest in anything other than going home, showering, and then drinking vodka while watching my shows.

I live in NYC but do not go anywhere. Money is tight but I have no interest in doing anything.

No woman would want that. They want to go out and have you spend money on them.

I have no hobbies. I just don’t care anymore! And yes I am lonely. But I learned a long time ago when I was with a girlfriend who bored the s~~~ out of me that you can be lonelier when you are with someone else.

I know some of you are sky divers and hunters and all that macho s~~~, which is great if it brings you joy, but I don’t have any of those interests. Movies and Broadway and everything show biz were my forte – now, who cares?

I want sex. Doesn’t have to be every day but I like pussy. Am I in the right place? Do I need a higher dose of red pill? I am not feeling any better.

[Anonymous 54]

Imho.
Seperate depression from sex, women and all the rest.

That must be dealt with on its own.

I dont tell other guys what to do.Takeing a risk for sex is their buisness.

[Anonymous 3]

There are a lot of members on here that go for sex.

The only real “rule” is don’t get married. Don’t be a blue pill simp, mangina or white knight.

My take is do whatever you think is best for you, but as a man you are accountable for whatever it is you do. Don’t jump in without looking, and take whatever reasonable precautions there are, no the risks, and don’t whine or complain afterwards whatever winds up happening.

Don’t talk about chasing women, do it and live it. I’ve never met a man that is successful with women that talked about it. When you are successful at something, you don’t have to spend all your time obsessing how to do it and trying to convince other people to do it or that you’re good at it. You just let it be and speak only when it’s relevant, rather than forced.

That’s my take. Good luck.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

I got my gardens and also cooking with stuff from my gardens.

I have my guns for target practice at the range and crossbows, longbows and compound bows for shooting at stuff at my house.

I have model trains to play with and models to glue together and paint, along with an acoustic guitar, a classical guitar and an electric guitar.

I always have some sort of house project going on: electrical, plumbing, drywall, tiling, painting, making a secret room in the house.

I build my own computers and play games on them: stuff like Fallout 4, Far Cry 4, Battlefield 4, Civilization 3, L4D2.

I don’t watch much TV, the only shows I follow are “Game of Thrones” and “The Walking Dead”.

I find plenty of stuff to do when I’m not banging the gf on weekends.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Bloody HeartlandParticipant 693]

I don’t like to tell others how to live. As an atheist and ultimately nihilist, I suppose much of my philosophy is that it holds true that nothing matters and that there is no point. Some may find that depressing, but it’s just the way I see the world as it is today.

However, that doesn’t necessarily mean nothing matters to me in the moment. I realize that there can still be subjective value when lacking in any objective value, and it is more freeing knowing it’s up to you how much stock you put into a particular interest.

I’m not much into macho stuff myself; always been more into art, even if I do have some contention with the really pretentious preachy stuff. You mentioned movies – what’s got you disinterested? I’ll admit it’s a bit difficult to feel motivated when I know I’m not the best artist and likely won’t draw much attention, but then I simply like the act of expressing my ideas regardless of external validation.

All that said, I’m significantly younger, so perhaps I will change my mind later in life. Won’t pretend depression never hinders my hobbies. I will say, be careful whatever you do with women. I’ve accepted celibacy, sex is a normal craving everyone has – it is the revelation that all love turns to “sick love” in our gynocentric society that has deterred me from trying anymore.

"I have the fury of my own momentum." "With this ring I thee wed. Fire walk with me."

[Anonymous 14]

Eyes Wide Open wrote:

A lot of you guys seem totally okay living a sexless life.

Yep. For me I still have women chase me now and then, so it happens from time to time, but I do no chasing, and if that means one day no sex, f~~~ it, I don’t care.

Eyes Wide Open wrote:

I finally got a decent job six months ago. Hours are good. But I have no interest in anything other than going home, showering, and then drinking vodka while watching my shows.

Sounds awesome, throw in some video games and a bong and you will be living the good life, just like me.

Eyes Wide Open wrote:

I want sex. Doesn’t have to be every day but I like pussy.

Pay for it or chase it, either way you are going to pay for it.

[Eyes Wide OpenSpectator 47]

I find plenty of stuff to do when I’m not banging the gf on weekends.

You had to get that in, right? I’ll remember that when on my eighth vodka tonight.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22546]

I am calling tuna here.

Multiple close-time posts from newbie obseessed with what men think about sex with women. Asking about feelings. Read the structure of his posts and it sounds like a woman writing this.

It sounds like “researching” us. For whatever reasons, I don’t really care.

Saying a lot of stuff in the way she thinks we want to hear “mgtow men talk” and giving advice the way women “give” advice.

Something smells fishy to me. I’m reading it and it just isn’t right to me.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Eyes Wide OpenSpectator 47]

Don’t talk about chasing women, do it and live it. I’ve never met a man that is successful with women that talked about it. When you are successful at something, you don’t have to spend all your time obsessing how to do it and trying to convince other people to do it or that you’re good at it.

That’s the point – I’m not good at it!!!

[Anonymous 14]

Eyes Wide Open wrote:

I find plenty of stuff to do when I’m not banging the gf on weekends.

You had to get that in, right? I’ll remember that when on my eighth vodka tonight.

Society has you well conditioned, your depression stems from feeling like a loser due to no sex. You are your own worst enemy. Reclaim your life for yourself and go no f~~~s given, sex or no sex.

All your posts so far indicate that you equate life and success in life by how much you are getting laid… Pathetic. Have a look in the mirror for once.

[Eyes Wide OpenSpectator 47]

I am calling tuna here.

Excuse me for having a slow day at work and thinking I finally had a forum to vent my frustrations with like minded guys.

I shall observe MGTOW rule of spacing out my postings going forward.

[Anonymous 14]

Eyes Wide Open wrote:

I am calling tuna here.

Excuse me for having a slow day at work and thinking I finally had a forum to vent my frustrations with like minded guys.

We are not like minded. Once again, you view success and the meaning of life to be judged by sex and how often you get laid.

You are Blue Pill as f~~~.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Eyes Wide Open wrote:

BUT…is it also giving into to not being successful with women

I hate that term and every goddam PUA should be taken into the woods and taught a lesson for using it.

“Success with women” can f~~~ off. Women are such a goddam huge liability now, a man is INFINITELY more “successful” and better rewarded for avoiding the wrong one.

That’s a fact.

What the f~~~ does a woman bring to the table that qualifies as “success”? A simple sex act, a possible pregnancy and/or an STD? Don’t make me multi-laugh. It’s even worse when other men (like the OP) a led to believe they are NOT “successful” with women. Nobody needs to be putting “success with women” into your head. It’s bulls~~~.

Eyes Wide Open wrote:

A lot of you guys seem totally okay living a sexless life.

Its’ too available to any man for it to even be an issue. F~~~ if you need to. Simple as that. Sex if it’s free is OK by me, but I don’t give a s~~~ about pursuing it. I’m BUSY.

Sex – or no sex – is not even exclusive to MGTOW!!!
You know who’s living a sexless life against their will???….

Boyfriends and husbands.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[TrailbossParticipant 1844]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

I am calling tuna here.

Multiple close-time posts from newbie obseessed with what men think about sex with women. Asking about feelings. Read the structure of his posts and it sounds like a woman writing this.

It sounds like “researching” us. For whatever reasons, I don’t really care.

Saying a lot of stuff in the way she thinks we want to hear “mgtow men talk” and giving advice the way women “give” advice.

Something smells fishy to me. I’m reading it and it just isn’t right to me.

Bingo! Way to obsessed with it. If your for real, and you got knocked down by life: Stop being a pussy and chasing/dreaming about pussy and get the f~~~ back up and live. But I doubt it…it’s tuna.

An educated, armed populace cannot be enslaved.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Being successful with women? Wtf do that even mean?

Do you get a diploma after you get to 1000 pussy count? Is there a special competition in alimpics?

You wanna know what’s the point of life? PLASTIC, YOU ARE HERE TO MAKE PLASTIC, BECOUSE EARTH WANTED PLASTIC.

You are here becouse mom and dad f~~~ed unprotected, there is nothing special about life, that disgrace that happened to you DOESNT MEAN S~~~ TO ANYONE BUT YOU.

Your only purpose in this life is to live as you wish and die with no regrets, or with a lot of regrets becouse death doesn’t give a f~~~.

Women are just people, sex is just a brain and physical exersice, depression is just your brain doing some mambo Jambo with your neurotransmitters, nothing else.

Is all bulls~~~, life is a huge joke, all you have to do is have sense of humor and laugh at it.

Well, they cut both my legs, I can’t walk but, on the good side, now my dick is bigger than my legs, ba dum thish…

Learn to not give a f~~~ and life will become easy, then you won’t have any desire to have sex, becouse that’s giving a f~~~. Hahahaha.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Anonymous 54]

Eyes Wide Open wrote:

I find plenty of stuff to do when I’m not banging the gf on weekends.

You had to get that in, right? I’ll remember that when on my eighth vodka tonight.

I will say this out of experience.
Alcohol and greif/ depression are a bad combination.

[Eyes Wide OpenSpectator 47]

We are not like minded. Once again, you view success and the meaning of life to be judged by sex and how often you get laid.

You are blue pill as f~~~.

If we’re able to respond (I reached my posting quota) I would suggest you go find a parking meter and violate it.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Eyes Wide Open wrote:

If we’re able to respond (I reached my posting quota)

Nobody is limited to a posting quota. You’re a participant or not. There is no cap on the replies you can make. But please take a moment and read my comment above. I think you’ll find it makes sense.

It’s a MINOR adjustment in attitude & outlook. And it makes a big difference.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 14]

Eyes Wide Open wrote:

We are not like minded. Once again, you view success and the meaning of life to be judged by sex and how often you get laid.

You are blue pill as f~~~.

If we’re able to respond (I reached my posting quota) I would suggest you go find a parking meter and violate it.

I feel honored knowing you used your last bullet for me.

[Anonymous 54]

Eyes Wide Open wrote:

We are not like minded. Once again, you view success and the meaning of life to be judged by sex and how often you get laid.

You are blue pill as f~~~.

If we’re able to respond (I reached my posting quota) I would suggest you go find a parking meter and violate it.

Hey thats clever! Keep that brain working!

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