Don't Get Butt Hurt and Leave MGTOW

[53ClicksUpParticipant 1345]

This is just a note to let the new guys know not to throw in the MGTOW towel too soon if you feel abused on here.

First off, let me just say that this is an amazing gathering of men here on these MGTOW forums. Collectively they span the world’s total spectrum of manly skills, technical knowledge and life experiences. I know that without a doubt, any challenge a “lone man” may encounter during the course his lifetime will absolutely be more easily overcome with the advice and help of our MGTOW brothers.

You new guys should also know that many MGTOW do enjoy screwing with each other by posting derisive and inflammatory comments on here. I don’t engage in this behavior myself because I consider it wasted energy. However, a number of guys on here do this for pure sport, and we are all occasionally on the receiving end of it from time to time.

I view it in the same light as the ribbing I would receive from my motorcycle riding buddies, that happen to be present when I do something completely f~~~ing stupid while on my bike. Say for instance, dumping my motorcycle while stopped at a red light and leaning in to chat with some bikini clad girl not even half my age sitting in the car next to me.

Embarrassing? Sure as hell is! But I know the I deserve the gaff-awing and verbal abuse in those instances and I quickly get over it. Therefore, I would also expect nothing less from the men on this site should I post something ridiculous on here.

All I’m saying is if you find yourself on the receiving end of what seems like an attack, don’t take it to heart. I know that the vast majority of the time, that guy typing on his keyboard on the other end of the connection is laughing while doing so, with no real malice intended.

Just remember that most of us on here are real men. Many of us are older, and we’ve seen a lot of s~~~ during our time here on earth. Meanwhile many of you new younger guys that come on here, are still in the “blue-pill-mangina” stage, trying to navigate your way thru life and figure out what the hell MGTOW is all about.

So if you find yourself jumped on by a few of the guys on here, don’t get butt hurt and leave never to return. You will be missing out on something important that could have a major and positive impact on your life.

Knowledge is power and our collective MGTOW knowledge is all knowing and all powerful. Do we hate women? No, we’re all just happier and wealthier when they are not directly involved in our daily lives. But we are men…. and men give each other s~~~ from time to time. It’s kind of a crude, off-handed, clumsily wielded social instructional tool. Take it and learn from it and/or fight back if you want. In the end we are all really on the same side.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

If you have an opinion and you express it on any forum someone is always going to give you s~~~ at some point or tell you they think you are talking bollocks.

But who cares.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Anonymous 42]

[IRuleMeParticipant]

It’sallbs wrote:

If you have an opinion and you express it on any forum someone is always going to give you s~~~ at some point or tell you they think you are talking bollocks.

But who cares.

You’re talking bollocks mate. 😉

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

It’sallbs wrote:

If you have an opinion and you express it on any forum, someone is always going to give you s~~~ at some point or tell you they think you are talking bollocks.

But who cares.

Exactly. Just say your piece. Not everybody will agree with you. If they don’t like it, they can just ‘suck it up’, as the Americans say. When a place is not being ran by common-sense/fairness, it is time to leave that place.

[GoodKid44Participant 1524]

Well said.

I can’t speak for others on here. We all came from different learning curves and experiences. But I can say that the more I delve into why I’m where I’m at in my current setup, I realize that the real education begins right now, and I only have myself to blame for not getting after it better/faster/stronger.

Being red pilled basically put me back at square one. I’m in kindergarten again in terms of understanding the facts of life. And though it’s def a blow to my ego, I get that for someone like myself to progress in life, I need to find my own humility and use it as the torch that is going guide me out of this dark tunnel, towards the light (enlightenment).

Sure, use this forum to your advantage. Some guys find belittling others on here to be their strong suit and maybe that’s what makes them feel better. Hell, I’ve probably done it myself and have certainly been on the receiving end.

Just know that you gotta have thick skin. Share what youre comfortable sharing on here, but know that it may be met with resistance, and others may use it against you down the line.

Going mgtow is a choice but some guys will carry that bitterness they had in their blue pill days with them for ever. We’re all operating on different time lines, and there’s nothing wrong with that.

I don’t have any answers to reaching nirvana, but I can say that going mgtow has helped point me in the right direction, and sharing insights on a forum like this has gotten me to face some demons.

Still have a long way to go, but I can say in all honesty that mgtow has pointed me in the right direction to becoming a student of life.

Couple things I’m really pumped about and look forward to…
I started reading again, have list of books that keeps growing. I aim to keep that appetite for reading/learning going until I reach death’s door.

I also, once I get settled in with my new work schedule, plan on going and networking again with people in businesses and ideas I have an interest in.

That’s what this forum is for me. A journal that gets my blood flowing for the endless possibilities that lie ahead, while understanding how to avoid the pit falls we men are encountering today.

But yeah, why get caught up in the small things (in fighting and petty bickering etc) when true mgtow know that none of that garbage even matters.

MGTOW or not, boosting up your quality of life (spirituality/physically/mentally) is the only thing that’s ever mattered. We simply get that women and a gynocentric system can do nothing for us and our path to happiness.

I hope i can keep using this platform as a mouth piece to bounce ideas or gripes off with other like minded men. I mean, if anything we can at least all agree that we’re here to express our right to say what ever the hell we want. Freedom of speech by men has been brutally attacked, and at least we see that now.

We may never agree on what the true definition of a mgtow is, but at least we all stand on the same side of what freedom truly means.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

IRuleMe wrote:

It’sallbs wrote:

If you have an opinion and you express it on any forum someone is always going to give you s~~~ at some point or tell you they think you are talking bollocks.

But who cares.

You’re talking bollocks mate.

hahahahahaha

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Don’t listen to him.

Leave this MGTOW bulls~~~, there is plenty of women out there, you should go and f~~~ as many as you can, that what a real men wold do.

Like Jordan Peterson say “MGTOW are a bunch of pathetic weasels”.

Be an alpha men, the incels of MGTOW disagree with you because they are bitter and angry, they can get laid, what a bunch of losers, leave this place immediately.

Do you wanna be like me? I’m a total sociopath, RUNNNNN. Go to the bar, approach women, is a matter of numbers.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

sjt1975 wrote:

It’sallbs wrote:

If you have an opinion and you express it on any forum, someone is always going to give you s~~~ at some point or tell you they think you are talking bollocks.

But who cares.

Exactly. Just say your piece. Not everybody will agree with you. If they don’t like it, they can just ‘suck it up’, as the Americans say. When a place is not being ran by common-sense/fairness, it is time to leave that place.

Well correct.

It’s like the conspiracies a significant number of people agree with all of what I say , a lot of people agree with 90% and an encouragingly ever smaller number of people start talking about tin foil hats.

But who cares I know I speak the truth and so do a lot of other people.

Those who give me s~~~ I don’t hate them I just worry about them because we were all brainwashed from birth…and it is really sad to see sometimes.

As much s~~~ as some give me in a way I like them for it because I would hate this place to become a safe space.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

Well put 53ClicksUp.

I left the site for a while as a number of people were p~~~ing me off, but quickly realised that NFG applies universally not just for women, and there was no point in losing the GREAT benefits of this site because of trolls or guys just having a bit of fun.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[Anonymous 18]

The forums must have substantially changed since I signed up if new members feel like throwing in the towel due to behavior of seasoned members here.

When I signed up, there was nothing but positive feedback and sharing of their own personal blue pilled past experiences.

I have yet to see someone being berated for their introduction, which is almost always a positive step to begin with on here. Most men would be more receptive to a man willing to share his journey.

Those that come here and start to suggest where MGTOW is not going right, or NAWALT is going to find some resistance. In that case these new members throwing in a towel is not a bad thing.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Good advice 53. I have seen it happen many times.

[Anonymous 54]

53.
You dropped your Bike at a stop light?

Oh man….

Hahhajah

[Branched offParticipant 10974]

I think it would be a good idea to have some sort of article to this effect as a sticky in the introductions forum.

Some guys get given a hard time there and then start to argue back. Then they argue on other fora, then they leave in a huff.

I was nervous when I posted an introduction. I lurked for a long time before I joined and then I lurked for about a year. I knew I am not exactly a perfect fit here. I came expecting a tough hazing and so what I got was actually an anti-climax and all was well.

I think men joining a new group need to be prepared for other men (sometimes the ones who you are not going to be friends with anyway) to give them a bit of a hazing and see what they are made of. Some of your corners will get knocked off and some of your quirks will get accepted as part of your character.

Just smile through it. Its just a male initiation thing. Once through it you will be on the inside.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[Anonymous 54]

Branched off wrote:

I think it would be a good idea to have some sort of article to this effect as a sticky in the introductions forum.

Some guys get given a hard time there and then start to argue back. Then they argue on other fora, then they leave in a huff.

I was nervous when I posted an introduction. I lurked for a long time before I joined and then I lurked for about a year. I knew I am not exactly a perfect fit here. I came expecting a tough hazing and so what I got was actually an anti-climax and all was well.

I think men joining a new group need to be prepared for other men (sometimes the ones who you are not going to be friends with anyway) to give them a bit of a hazing and see what they are made of. Some of your corners will get knocked off and some of your quirks will get accepted as part of your character.

Just smile through it. Its just a male initiation thing. Once through it you will be on the inside.

I recently moved. I was out front last night, and my nighbor walked over and introduced him self. Here in the South(US) thats just normal behavior.
Ive never seen one Man on here that made an HONEST introduction get a hard time.
Its when guys bulls~~~, or embelish that others will sense bs, and call them out.
I dont like hazeing ritualls. Thats childish crap.

When guys make no intro, and start with some weird ass topic, then they run into trouble.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Some of us take it on the chin all the time—I just laugh it off and punch back—twice as hard! But its all good!

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

Branched off wrote:

I was nervous when I posted an introduction.

I had previously watched a lot of MGTOW Videos, which confirmed everything that I had concluded about society/women, before I decided to join the Forums here, when I had virtually resolved things in my mind. I decided to post my own introduction and I was nervous as well; it seemed correct to post an introduction to myself first, before posting other things on the Forums here, since it was an established environment and especially since there was an Introductions Forum specifically. I thought that the guys on the Forums here would think that I was childish and naive, because of me being in my 40s, a virgin, and only just having worked things out for myself (at that time) and having decided to Red Pill myself. But I got good advice and a welcome from the guys on the Forums here. The Forums here felt like home and they still feel like home. Obviously, some guys are more blunt than others, and you cannot agree with everyone on everything, but that is to be expected with people.

My Introduction:
/forums/topic/hello-and-some-advice-requested/
I had never had so much support shown towards me, so much truth told to me, and so many responses to anything that I have ever done in my life, as I have had from that single topic posting on the Introductions Forum. It was like the flood-gates were opening… my mail-box was never so full in all my life, from all of the topic reply notifications! It was just un-believeable!

[Anonymous 54]

sjt1975 got a good responce, because he was Honest.
It never fails.

I was nervous when I made my intro.

But its a very good chance to practice an important life skill!

[bladeParticipant]

Have white knighted for a number of bros on here and ones that have left .

If guys f~~~ up on zoom doesnt mean that f~~~up is carried onto the site because if it does it will scare young c~~~s from going on zoom .

Alot of young guys especially if they have been raised by a single mum will display same victimhood mentality and other female traits .

But f~~~ if people cant take a bit of digital dv /joke/prank/ this world is f~~~ed .

If ya have a hassle drop it on the titty twister .

Something positive is when s~~~ goes down we remain as one . Things will get rough as time rolls on

Love all you bastards

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[SkeptiskParticipant 3679]

Branched off wrote:

I think it would be a good idea to have some sort of article to this effect as a sticky in the introductions forum.

Some guys get given a hard time there and then start to argue back. Then they argue on other fora, then they leave in a huff.

I was nervous when I posted an introduction. I lurked for a long time before I joined and then I lurked for about a year. I knew I am not exactly a perfect fit here. I came expecting a tough hazing and so what I got was actually an anti-climax and all was well.

I think men joining a new group need to be prepared for other men (sometimes the ones who you are not going to be friends with anyway) to give them a bit of a hazing and see what they are made of. Some of your corners will get knocked off and some of your quirks will get accepted as part of your character.

Just smile through it. Its just a male initiation thing. Once through it you will be on the inside.

I browsed a year before I signed up, and I was a bit nervous as well. Didn’t make an introductory, as I started to spill some beans about my life in posts. Hoping they weren’t viewed as “weird ass”.

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Anyway (getting on a tangent here), when people talk about “safe space”, what they mean is “safe” from facts. In this regard, we’re out in the open and accepting reality for what it is, so there’s no “safe space” here. The other word for the “safe space” is echo-chamber. I’ve read what the morons in main stream media claims when talking about echo-chambers outside their “safe space” lunacy. But they never seem to realize that they’re just projecting their own bulls~~~ onto others.

So, the last place on Earth to find an echo-chamber would be here, as no two men will agree on everything and verbal banter breaks out frequently – as it should.

"Expecting to find a decent woman on a dating site is like dumpster diving and expecting to come out with a gourmet meal." Won'tGetFooledAgain

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