Don't Bet Your Retirement On the "Word of a Women" !!

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

Yes BrainPilot!!

Cognitive Dissonance on the part of the beta.

[,Participant 1301]

Sky-O wrote:

He is a scientist.

BrainPilot wrote:

How does a scientist do this?

meh, certain educations allow a longer prettier vagRide. Even the Professor got marooned on the island and couldn’t get off using his own educated intellect.

Sky-O, that Rogue looks good on yer!

Please entertain the changer$:
Don’t Wager your Retirement on the “Word of a Woemyn”!!
Don’t Wager your Wages on the “Hole of a Woemyn”!!

perhaps he went to Berzerkeley
or Berklee >@ Cognitive Dissonance

with joy/without hate

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

He’s not in love. He’s going broke. He should cut her off and leave. Then he can live frugally on his half and let her squander her half.

He should dump that bitch ASAP.

If he doesn’t I think he’s a spineless mangina.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

The usual thing if the women is 10 years younger is dump the guy, get half his stuff then one last dance.

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

In such a situation…I would put the house on the market, tell the wifey we are going to move somewhere else, move into an apartment and tell her it’s just temporary until we find a new house, cash out everything and cancel the credit cards, clear out the bank account, 401K, etc and high tail it to a country with no extradition treaty. Apply for residency.

To make it more difficult to trace I would travel through a number of different 3rd world countries before reaching the country with no extradition treaty.
Some countries will grant residency if you can show proof that you have X number of dollars in retirement income and available on hand. (Vanatu is one of those countries)

Vietnam has no extradition treaty with the US and is dirt cheap. Bhutan is beautiful.

Countries with No Extradition Treaty are:
Afghanistan
Algeria
Andorra
Angola
Armenia
Bahrain
Bangladesh
Belarus
Bhutan
Bosnia and Herzegovina
Brunei
Burkina Faso
Burundi
Cambodia
Cameroon
Cape Verde
the Central African Republic
Chad
China
Comoros
Dem. Republic of the Congo
Cote d’ Ivoire
Cuba
Djibouti
Equatorial Guinea
Eritrea
Ethiopia
Gabon
Guinea
Guinea-Bissau
Indonesia
Iran
Kazakhstan
Kosovo
Kuwait
Laos
Lebanon
Libya
Macedonia
Madagascar
the Maldives
Mali
the Marshall Islands
Mauritania
Micronesia
Moldova
Mongolia
Montenegro
Morocco
Mozambique
Myanmar
Namibia
Nepal
Niger
North Korea
Oman
Qatar
Russia
Rwanda
Samoa
São Tomé & Príncipe
Saudi Arabia
Senegal
Serbia
Somalia
Sudan
Syria
Taiwan
Togo
Tunisia
Uganda
Ukraine
United Arab Emirates
Uzbekistan
Vanuatu
the Vatican
Vietnam
Yemen
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The following countries have been known to refuse U.S. extradition requests, despite having treaties: Bolivia, Ecuador, Iceland, Nicaragua, Switzerland, Venezuela and Zimbabwe.

Ecuador on the average has a cost of living about 1/5 of the national average in the US.
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Better to be on the lam in a 3rd world s~~~ hole with a housekeeper and a cook and driver than to sink into abject poverty in old age and end up being divorced once the money runs out…who wants to live on the streets when they’re in their 70’s or older?

Just sayin…..

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

I feel sorry for the guy..This coming from a blue pill guy..When all his life he has been conditioned to be a white knight and he doesnt know anything else…He clings to that twisted reality because it was all he has ever known and fear keeps him there…I used to be that way…Im still in the rage mode and I can still see my stupidity…I can still feel the fear of helplessness of what to do when you were conditioned to be that way…When freedom is in your hands, it can be quite daunting what to do with it so most blue pillers just go back into the darkness and endure…Others brave into the light and denounce the fear and lies fed upon them…MGTOW opened my eyes, but it was a painful pill to swallow when you have to undo your very core and rebuild yourself again as a MAN and not a mangina….

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[DirtBikeManParticipant 535]

This is one of the main reasons that now at 51 I just will not get into a relationship. THere is just to much at stake for me. My goal to retire at 60 is not going to be endangered but some gold digging t~~~ who hasn’t saved a dime for retirement. Also a partial reason for getting a vasectomy, 51 as a daddy, i don’t f~~~ing think so cupcake.

I feel bad for him. She sounds like a lying, manipulative, entitled piece of crap. I would leave her, divide the assets and watch her burn as she blows all of her share of the assets. The outcome will be better for him in the long run.

The most important thing you can do is ask yourself, what do I really want out of life. Really think about it, and always be true to yourself. Then Do it.

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

DirtBikeMan wrote:

his is one of the main reasons that now at 51 I just will not get into a relationship. THere is just to much at stake for me. My goal to retire at 60 is not going to be endangered but some gold digging t~~~ who hasn’t saved a dime for retirement. Also a partial reason for getting a vasectomy, 51 as a daddy, i don’t f~~~ing think so cupcake.

I feel bad for him. She sounds like a lying, manipulative, entitled piece of crap. I would leave her, divide the assets and watch her burn as she blows all of her share of the assets. The outcome

Ditto
Been through 1 Divorce and it took me years to recover. Difference between now and 10 years ago, is that 10 years ago (although it really hurt me financially for retirement) it was possible to recover and still have something of a retirement: not now.

As time goes by, the stakes get raised. Eventually one reaches a point in their lives where the very thought of getting married means complete and utter financial destruction with zero chance of recovery when the inevitable divorce happens.

When you are young…you have time on your side, and you have less money to lose: not so when you get older.

In a marriage…the longer the marriage: the longer she can ask for Alimony. In my state: if the marriage is 10 years or more: she can ask for lifetime alimony.

Can you imagine still being forced to pay Alimony when your 60,70, or even 80? With the amount of alimony so high you are forced to keep working until its your time to die?

My Ex was pre-positioning herself for divorcing me and asking for lifetime Alimony (and maximizing it). I saw it coming and divorced her and caught her unprepared.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

RealityBites wrote:

Countries with No Extradition Treaty are:

Problem with most of those countries is I’d rather just give half my s~~~ away than move to them lol.

DirtBikeMan wrote:

This is one of the main reasons that now at 51 I just will not get into a relationship. THere is just to much at stake for me.

I started feeling this way in my early 30s lol. Early retirement was always a distant goal of mine so I’ve always lived a debt free lifestyle, worked hard, and saved. Once I realized that hey, I can probably do this by 40, then looked around and saw how most of the women my age were swimming in debt and were absolute financial train wrecks…its just too risky.

RealityBites wrote:

As time goes by, the stakes get raised. Eventually one reaches a point in their lives where the very thought of getting married means complete and utter financial destruction with zero chance of recovery when the inevitable divorce happens.

When you are young…you have time on your side, and you have less money to lose: not so when you get older.

Exactly. If I was married in my early 20s when I hadn’t accumulated much yet, and started popping out a few kids by my mid 20s…worst case scenario I’d have divorced at some point, lost half my s~~~(which wouldn’t be as much as I’ve been able to accumulate over the same time by staying single), but been more or less free and clear by my mid 40s when all the kids were 18+. If I got to start saving hard at 43 with no other financial obligations I could have still been 10+ years before social security age anyhow.

I’m not married in my early 20s though…add another 10 years on to that same time frame…now I’ve had 10 more years of work/wealth accumulation behind me to worry about and if I married/had kids/divorced I’d not only have a lot more on the line in terms of assets to lose, but I’d be probably paying her until my mid 50s. Suddenly that retirement at 55 or earlier is out the window and chances are I’d be stuck working into my 60s.

More or less if someone just gave me a newborn right now and said you are responsible to raise this child, it would probably only add on about 2-3 years of working before I could retire…but somehow if you also plug a divorce into that equation it instantly become +18 years at an absolute minimum. Add that to the fact that not only am I not marrying a hot, fresh, early 20 something year old, but I’m marrying a post wall 30 something year old…its simply more risk for a lesser woman…why bother?

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