Don't Bet Your Retirement On the "Word of a Women" !!

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Over the past year or so, I have befriended a retired man. This is HIS story.
He had a long career as a Scientist, and made pretty good cash along the way. I don’t know any of the details, but he made enough to support a Wife, couple kids, and retire at around the 60 year mark with enough assets he had planned to last for decades. His beloved lil Cupcake was good at continuing her education over the years and receiving various degrees, but NEVER actually working. Does this sound familiar ??

Him being a scientist, He methodically plotted out “their” retirement, and how they were going to make their CASH last the both of them the rest of their lives. He told me that part of THEIR plan, which She AGREED to, was that HIS WIFE was supposed to put some of her degrees to WORK, that HE had PAID for, and GET A FULL TIME JOB.

In other words, since he PAID for EVERYTHING for a LIFETIME, it was NOW HER turn to PARTICIPATE in the work force and GET A JOB so THEIR retirement savings, that HE MADE, INVESTED, AND SAVED would last the REST of THEIR LIVES.

Guess what, HIS resident lil sweetie is NOT gainfully employed, and it appears that she is in NO rush to JUMP into the wonderful world of work, and it’s been more then a couple/few years since HE retired. BIG F~~~IN SURPRISES HERE !!!

He was CRYING on My SHOULDER that they are SPENDING MORE MONEY then they are supposed to be, and at this rate it will be GONE MUCH SOONER then HE HAD PLANNED.
AGAIN, BIG F~~~IN SURPRISE HERE !!!

Like so many MEN, his retirement future is becoming SERIOUSLY f~~~ed, and he has to sweat money ISSUES because HE MADE A COMMON BLUE PILL MISTAKE; HE TRUSTED THAT A WOMEN WOULD KEEP HER WORD, GET A JOB, AND CONTRIBUTE BACK JUST A PERCENTAGE OF HOW MUCH HE FINANCIALLY “INVESTED” OVER A LIFE TIME.

HE FOOLISHLY TRUSTED A WOMEN. HE HAD TO LEARN THE HARD WAY: ALL WOMEN LIE, AND MOST ARE INCREDIBLY LAZY !!!

If HE had divorced this PARASITE after the youngest kid was 18, about 10 +/- years ago, yes, he would have to give her 50% of the assets, and either alimony or a large one time payment, but HE would be so much better off financially FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE.

HE wouldn’t of HAD to BUY a retirement house for Him and His beloved which has been a LARGE additional financial drain. From what he has told me, He would have been happy buying and living in a multi-family, and HE would no longer be required to PAY for ALL of her SPENDING habits while she CONTRIBUTES ZERO, BUT SUCKS OUT MUCH.

He is a low key “average” Man, and between his low personal expenses, lower living expenses of a multi-family, rental income, and what was left of his retirement investments, after paying her off, Money Wouldn’t be a CONCERN TODAY, TOMORROW, or EVER !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 2]

Sorry to hear this all to fimilar story. They’re leaches always consuming and never contributing. What will that worm wet hole cost him? That’s all most are.

[SwimcatParticipant 3593]

If he’s only 60 his best bet would be to keep working till age 66, when can get full social security. That way he can save more and draw a larger amount. If he retires prior to 66 he’ll get a reduced amount of SS and he can only earn $ 15,000 a year before that starts to reduce. Other than that he’s stuck. Obviously she has no intention of lifting a finger to earn a penny, and to divorce her ass would cost half of his earnings plus alomony. You can bet she’s been consulting her hive on this, and maybe even a lawyer. It’s tough to give up the dream of early etirement but he needs to insure that he doesn’t end up broke 10 years from now

[Chase PesosParticipant 2136]

Terrible news, this is why I cannot even open my mouth to a woman these days. Something deep within is holding me back and I thank you all for it.

Chase a check, never chase a chick...

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Swimcat wrote:

If he’s only 60 his best bet would be to keep working till age 66, when can get full social security

This ship has sailed years ago, and it’s NOT an option.

Swimcat wrote:

to divorce her ass would cost half of his earnings plus alomony.

He’s still to BLUE to even contemplate the divorce option.

Swimcat wrote:

he needs to insure that he doesn’t end up broke 10 years from now

HE already “insured” THEY would have enough for decades. Unfortunately, it relied upon HER, and that was/is his Detrimental Error in HIS Calculations.

Unfortunately, all of his logical calculations, graphs, and financial projections DIDN’T Calculate in HIS LYING ILLOGICAL WIFE.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Sky-OParticipant 18940]

No empathy for this guy.

Because, way before he got to this point.

When he was younger and ‘scientifically mapping out & calculating’ a retirement plan:

His primary and main focus was still maintaining access to her pussy. And the retirement plan was part of a continued plan to eventually retire, and retire with pussy.

Because this guy placed a higher value on pussy than he did retirement.

And he is starting to find out a fundamental truth in life which is that you can’t have your cake and eat it too.

He wanted pussy and money in retirement.

He should have realized he would have to choose between the two. After all, he is a scientist.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again:

A woman’s ‘word’ isn’t worth the oxygen used to speak it.

Fuck this planet.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

This guy needed to grow a spine. Men just let themselves get stomped all over by women, and then have the gall to wonder why their life turned out the way it did. In the end, he has no one to blame but himself.

@awakened, I’m assuming you have been dropping doses of red pill knowledge to him along the way?

If so, then he is a huge SIMP.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22541]

For those planning retirements, don’t bother.

Even if you avoid women, alimony, child support bulls~~~, there are other problems.

The stock and bond markets are rigged against you. Read the law on banks accounts and deposits. You do not own what is in your bank account, the bank does, you just have a promise to deliver on request. Though, the banks can break that promise at any time, seize your assets in their banks, and you have no legal recourse. That is how banks get away with “bail-ins”. After all this, even you have anything to show for your work government will eventually seize anything left you have to keep happy those the government serves.

On top of that you are still legally bound to pay debts and taxes even if the banks and government seize everything you have.

And with run away inflation of currencies and continued bail-outs to the same banks that screw (or will screw) you with bail-ins, what money you have left becomes more and more worthless.

There is no way this can continue and civilization is running directly into collapse.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

MGTOW Knight wrote:

@awakened, I’m assuming you have been dropping doses of red pill knowledge to him along the way?

I can’t help but drop Red Pills as he is keenly aware of my situation, but He is still so BLUE that I don’t think HE can see how Living the Blue Pill has F~~~ed him, and will continue to do so for the Rest of His life.

Unfortunately, HE still “Loves” his lil Cupcake, and She will just continue to DRAG Him down, and I don’t think He will ever assimilate the Red Pill.

He is NOT ANY Different then ANY Other Man. If HE doesn’t willingly Seek Out the Red Pill for Himself, then it shall have No Effect.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[narwhalParticipant]

Sky-O wrote:

No empathy for this guy.
Because, way before he got to this point.
When he was younger and ‘scientifically mapping out & calculating’ a retirement plan:
His primary and main focus was still maintaining access to her pussy. And the retirement plan was part of a continued plan to eventually retire, and retire with pussy.

I don’t think that’s a fair judgment. All he did was expect his wife to keep her word. Men naturally expect women to have the same sense of honor as they do. I don’t want to start blaming men for expecting people to keep their word. She’s the one that deserves all the blame.

And I understand that men can learn from experience. You also have to understand that the choice to trust or not trust your wife is not as easy as it appears to the outside. The choice to not trust comes with heaps of guilt and judgment and quite probably divorce. So you opted to trust, knowing that it’s probably in vain, but at least you will avoid the certain negative consequences.

This reminds me of when my then wife told me she wanted to stop working and be a stay at home mom. She presented it to me as a choice, but I knew there really wasn’t much choice. If I said no, then she would label me as controlling, unsupportive, and made my life a living hell. So instead I did the math. Calculated how much less income we would have against the tax savings and child care savings. Then I gave her a budget based on how much she could spend in order for us to stay even. She agreed to the budget. Did she keep the budget? No.

I was screwed either way. Later on, she told me she wanted to go back to work, she was going to help out on the bills…but only wanted to work part time. I explained to her that wouldn’t help the bills because her income would barely cover the cost of child care. So she told I wasn’t unsupportive and made my life more hellish.

It’s funny to me now. My ex told me (really herself) that she was doing me a favor by divorcing me. I could find someone else that was a better fit for me. She was right that she was doing me a favor, but not for that reason. It gave me a chance to stop the bleeding and time to recover financially, as well giving restoring my sanity and learning never to lose it again.

Ok. Then do it.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Go a little further and say “don’t be with a woman and you will not have to worry about her being a parasite taking everything you own to prop her lifestyle up”.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Work toward the best possible outcome, but always plan for the worst. He based his calculation on the best possible scenario and his tunnel vision on early retirement blinded him to the other possibilities.

She had no record of earning a living, he counted on changing that.

He counted on his desired standard of living to meet her “needs”.

He quit before she started, irrevocably setting the plan in motion.

I would feel more sorry for him if you didn’t classify him as so deeply blue pill. What red pill man would have made the laundry list of mistakes.

I’m sorry you have to see his decline, but he actually set himself up to fail based on assumptions that a scientist wouldn’t ever make in his work.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Awakened,

I feel sorry for your friend. It appears that he is being played. And what happens when his loving wife blows through all of the money? I wouldn’t be surprised if she left him penniless while she moves on to the next wallet.

One of my friends went through something similar.
I advised him to drastically downsize. He moved into a small trailer in a trailer park. He got rid of his cable television and instead got an antenna.
He got rid of his cellphones. He stopped all unnecessary spending.
His wife got the message.
The wife finally got a job so she could buy a new car and pay for a cellphone. I suspect it’s just a matter of time before she moves on (good riddance). Good luck with your friend.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Awakened wrote:

He is NOT ANY Different then ANY Other Man. If HE doesn’t willingly Seek Out the Red Pill for Himself, then it shall have No Effect.

That my friend is so true. Some blue pill men don’t have the eyes to see the truth, and inevitably they will live in ignorance until death. You are doing God’s work my friend. I drop red pill knowledge to my old high school friends, and some are receptive. Some are a lost cause, but I’ll continue to do my part.

In the end, you can only provide them the knowledge. It is up to them to seek/apply it.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[Bob DylanParticipant 1352]

A wise man once said:
Hope should never be stored in a leaky vessel

(vessel has many meanings, one of which: “a person regarded as a holder or receiver of something, especially something nonmaterial:
a vessel of grace; a vessel of wrath.”)

..it ain't me babe...it ain't me you're looking for, babe...

[Sky-OParticipant 18940]

Like you said regarding retirement finances:

‘He was CRYING on my shoulder’

Ol’ Beta Scientist wasn’t crying when he was getting pussy all those years before retirement.

Back then, he was the man. Pounding away and firing off loads into his pseudo unicorn that apparently had such a good pussy that he was willing to continue to pay more for it by paying for her multiple degrees.

I’m sorry. But it’s time for Sky-0 to go rogue:

That guy knew EXACTLY what the implied, non-stated deal was from day one.

And now that he is older, with dramatically reduced testosterone levels, the Viagra doesn’t seem to be working as well and her pussy doesn’t smell as good as it use to –

He has found a calculator and is concerned about retirement finances.

N-Pleeeeeeeeeez!!

No empathy & no compassion coming from over here.

He got what he signed up for. That’s just physics.

I could check in with you guys next week and talk about how my plan to build my own space pod out of styrofoam, duct tape, caulking, in a cardboard box with an Atari 2600 controller didn’t get me into orbit. And how I wound up in my backyard inside of it attempting to communicate with mission control with a comm link I made from telephone wire, tin foil, etc.

Attempting that would never change the fact that it was never going to be possible to begin with.

So, in the end: Beta was unable to keep pussy AND money. He got one without the other. And that is how it works. He was a scientist. A dry erase board and some basic algebra computations on it decades ago would have yielded the answer he wanted.

X (pussy) + Y (money) = Y – Z (cost of pussy)

Peace,

Sky-0

[joetechParticipant]

My little cupcake just couldn’t accept that I was retiring. She wasn’t finished shopping yet! Thank God we weren’t married. The only way to do it right is to do it without a woman. My second wife retired a few years ago and they got themselves a giant motorhome. They work as campground hosts, but their first year they were in North Dakota in the winter time. Not my idea of fun. Better him than me. I’m sure they go wherever she says. Thank God She left ME.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Sky-OParticipant 18940]

And meanwhile in other news.

My 71 year old uncle (retired real estate broker) had a 28 year old girlfriend when he was 57 years old.

He now gets to hang out every other weekend with his 14 year old daughter. And the court requirements have him ordered to start paying for her college expenses in four years.

He has been gradually shifting as many assets as possible into a trust fund managed by an attorney so that he appears broke in 48 months.

This insanity never ends!!!

They are all money whores.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I’m retired. If my loving cupcake told me she didn’t want to work and we couldn’t make our projected income then I’d get another job.

Sucks to be him.

He’s married but who says he get’s laid?

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

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