Do You Still Go Out? Are You Becoming Detached From People?

[Fundamental_manParticipant 209]

Odd coincidence, @eric Lauder. Let us hope KM is on top of this.

[Anonymous 1]

I still go out but am getting more and more selective and limiting my time with toxic people best I can. I have always been introverted. Growing up in a rural area and being an only child.

I have little patience for small talk. Most people I run into talk a lot but say next to nothing. And are unable to debate many topics. I do love the look I got when they ask me about politics. Give both sides hammers and have them beat each other to death and then shoot the winner.

[OneLaneOnlyPlsParticipant 1747]

This is a good thread. I do go out, I am doing my own thing.

Weekdays are pretty basic. I go to work and then gym afterwards 3/5 days.

Weekends its shopping, gym, beach, coastal walk, errands, during the day. Evenings cinema out, or home with PS4 and movies.

Am becoming detached from making any effort to talk to people unless I have to really. I no longer seek out dialogue or any goals relating to women.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Eric Lauder wrote:

I’m beginning to suspect that this account is a certain British journalist with which I had a very short relationship about 20 years ago when I was having an holiday in Ibiza.
The use of the words “PUA mode” like I do could be even a coincidence in itself, but there are too many coincidences (including the reference to “The Name of the Rose” since we watched the movie together, in Spanish), it really seems her, also because she already published few articles that are basically inspired to the statements in my signature, and I know that she’s regularly checking mgtow.com as source of inspiration.
There’s a myriad of details, I’m not going to address the most personal ones, but just take the intro:

Eric Lauder wrote:

The only thing that can confirm my suspects is the ISP address: if it’s from UK, then my suspects are largely confirmed, it couldn’t be another coincidence.

Wow. Fascinating.

The OP’s IP is indeed located in Croatia — according to Geo IP locator.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

I walk among the crowds. In many instances I keep my head down and pretend I’m a wisp of vapour. I like people watching.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

Keymaster wrote:

Eric Lauder wrote:

I’m beginning to suspect that this account is a certain British journalist with which I had a very short relationship about 20 years ago when I was having an holiday in Ibiza.
The use of the words “PUA mode” like I do could be even a coincidence in itself, but there are too many coincidences (including the reference to “The Name of the Rose” since we watched the movie together, in Spanish), it really seems her, also because she already published few articles that are basically inspired to the statements in my signature, and I know that she’s regularly checking mgtow.com as source of inspiration.
There’s a myriad of details, I’m not going to address the most personal ones, but just take the intro:

Eric Lauder wrote:

The only thing that can confirm my suspects is the ISP address: if it’s from UK, then my suspects are largely confirmed, it couldn’t be another coincidence.

Wow. Fascinating.

The OP’s IP is indeed located in Croatia — according to Geo IP locator.

Then I’m probably in a paranoid phase, or just a moron 😀

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[GrumpyParticipant]

Q1. Do You Still Go Out?
Rarely for “social” reasons. I have a selection of people who I socialize with, and that is enough for both them and myself. I know, understand, and accept that I am a “social” misfit under most conditions. I am usually the quietest and most guarded of the bunch until one of them take up that role, which allows me to be “one” of the crowd instead of a spectre.

Q2. Are You Becoming Detached From People?
Coincidentally, I had this conversation for almost 6 hours last night around a fire with some brothers of mine. I found it remarkable what I learned from a small group of us tired, used up, injured, old men (guard dogs) staring silently into a fire with out own thoughts for the last hour.
I am not becoming detached, I have pretty much always been on the forward fringe away from “people” most of my life. One can not become detached from something one has not been allowed to be attached to.
My “education” and experiences from a very very young age set me apart from “regular people”, and taught me, without illusions, what I was/am worth in there eyes.
I reciprocate in kind.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

Yes Heraclius, i do feel very detached from people, especially women, lately i’ve become very detached from blue pill males, because i realize i’m in a very small minority of men, as shocking as it is, this isn’t Japan, and the majority of males are still neck-high in ignorance.

Here’s the good news though, it’s nothing to worry about, i’ve felt a need to be alone since i was a young boy, long before i knew anything about female nature. It’s not a bad thing to be detached from people and live inside your own world.

Also i understand what you mean when you talk about being around women, our biological instincts start to kick in, even when we psychologically don’t want them to, it’s almost like tourettes, we can’t control the instinct, so it’s best to physically stay away from them.

[OneLaneOnlyPlsParticipant 1747]

Eric Lauder wrote:

Then I’m probably in a paranoid phase, or just a moron

She could be using a VPN connection, so it still could be her

[ManBearPigParticipant 103]

I’m new here, but felt the need to respond as I’m a bit of an outlier and have a unique take on this. The answer is yes, and no.

I’m what you would call an “extroverted introvert”. As such, I live in a downtown area of a large city. I have essentially no close friends or interpersonal relationships, but I love being around people and simply observing.

I also love going out and doing things alone. Let me tell you, this did not come naturally. Ten years ago you would have never, ever, ever seen me sitting by myself at a table in a nice restaurant that is filled with couples, families, and groups of people. I don’t even give it a second thought anymore. If I want to eat somewhere, I go. I don’t give a f~~~ if anyone stares at me or feels sad for me for being alone or whatever.

I go to baseball games all the time by myself. I sit in one spot for a while, then go get a beer and sit somewhere else, then I might walk around and find a cool place to stand and watch the game, then I’ll go get some food. Basically, I do whatever the hell I want at the game and I don’t have to worry about anyone else. If I want to show up in the 3rd inning and decide to leave in the 6th inning, so be it.

Sometimes a movie comes out I want to see, and so I go get myself a tub of popcorn and a big soda and I enjoy the movie by myself. Big deal.

The funny thing is, as I got more and more confident about being out alone, that confidence shows in my body language. It isn’t even awkward anymore and I’m somewhat approachable to people. I meet random people all the time… like just about every day. We meet, we talk for a little while, and then they are out of my lives forever. Just the way I like it.

My advice to you is… learn how to be comfortable doing things by yourself. I’m telling you, it’s going to SUCK at first. At least it did for me. But I was not going to allow myself to be locked in my house every day just because I was afraid of being alone everywhere I went. It has taken me years to get to this point, but I’ll go anywhere alone now if it’s something I want to experience and I now prefer doing things alone. When I have to attend a baseball game with someone else, it’s almost disappointing. “S~~~, now I have to worry about their needs and wants.”

The absolute most liberating thing I ever taught myself is how to feel confident being out alone. If you can teach yourself this skill, I promise that you’ll experience a whole new level of freedom that you’re missing out on. It’s amazing, and it’s the very reason I moved downtown. There’s so much to do here and I can do it all by myself!

Not only that, but people doing stuff alone in the city is pretty normal. Nobody even really notices it. Plus, there is always someone even more weird than me right around the corner.

I don’t know how close you live to a major city, or if you even like the city atmosphere, but if you want to try going places alone start there. Go to easy places first like coffee shops or the library or go walk around a park by yourself and just enjoy the peacefulness of being able to do whatever you want without having to worry about anyone else.

So yes, I am absolutely detached from personal and close relationships, but I also socialize just about every day by having short interactions with strangers. It’s working out beautifully for me and it has enabled me to live a fun life outside of the walls of my home.

The main thing is to just be you. If being detached from people makes you happy, then so be it! Keep on keepin’ on.

[HeracliusParticipant 57]

Eric Lauder wrote:

Keymaster wrote:

Eric Lauder wrote:

I’m beginning to suspect that this account is a certain British journalist with which I had a very short relationship about 20 years ago when I was having an holiday in Ibiza.
The use of the words “PUA mode” like I do could be even a coincidence in itself, but there are too many coincidences (including the reference to “The Name of the Rose” since we watched the movie together, in Spanish), it really seems her, also because she already published few articles that are basically inspired to the statements in my signature, and I know that she’s regularly checking mgtow.com as source of inspiration.
There’s a myriad of details, I’m not going to address the most personal ones, but just take the intro:

Eric Lauder wrote:

The only thing that can confirm my suspects is the ISP address: if it’s from UK, then my suspects are largely confirmed, it couldn’t be another coincidence.

Wow. Fascinating.

The OP’s IP is indeed located in Croatia — according to Geo IP locator.

Then I’m probably in a paranoid phase, or just a moron

Haven’t been on the forum for the last few days. I lol’d hard at the detective work. Almost got me believeing I might be your gf. Everything fits perfecty lol. It’s cool that you know your Byzantine history. Heraclius stood out for me as a particular badass. He represents my ambitious side. The Name Of The Rose character (can’t remember his name atm) is my profile phoot because he’s essentially a super-intelligent (MGTOW) monk. Those two together form the ideal I’m striving for.

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