Divorced men please take my survey

[Handy RaySpectator 34]

JustAnotherGuy wrote:

“what do I think?”

I think you would be booted. But I just joined yesterday. However, I understand MGTOW and I believe I saw somewhere you get POINTS for booting ‘imposters’

Listen. I don’t speak for MGTOW. LAUGH! I joined this forum YESTERDAY! Paid my $5 and realized it satisfied (a big part) of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs (companionship/camaraderie) .. Forums.. Chat .. Bang! I’m in!

Am I ‘disenfranchised’? No! Disgruntled? No! Angry? No?

Unfair treatment in the COURT system? Yeah.

But, if it makes you feel better, I’m a Christian and didn’t fight back hard (at all) [1 Corinthians 6:1-11] Ex wife just had her way.

You can say it was ‘my fault’ .. I agree. But I found out the true nature of the other gender. 2 divorces. 1 after 18 years. She worked maybe 1 year in the beginning – 3 kids. When she decided she didn’t want me, (flowers etc didn’t work – I’m talking conservative fundamental baptist christian, (prison minister on the side) here.. She took the kids.. I went by the Bible and didn’t fight back.

Anecdotal. I know.

You’re analyzing a GIGANTIC bunch of Anecdotes.

Just Men. Men who found the Antidote.

– Peace. Community. Understanding. Acceptance –

Consider your SURVEY complete I’m sure.

Thanks for the advice. Considering that I’m not an imposter, I’m not worried about it. I joined this site to get more MGTOW perspective on life. I don’t need it and I was doing just fine without it. So, if I’m booted…so be it. I’m not worried about it.

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

JustAnotherGuy wrote:

I don’t feel like it is my place to do the ‘booting’ since I just joined.

Ahh, don’t you worry, there are still plenty of opportunities for that, if you really have to up your score in this regard that is …

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant 143]

PRENUP:

WORTHLESS. Go to Law School. Ask a student. Contracts/Law etc are ONLY as strong as the courts (judges in them) make them. In the matter of PreNup. Come on dude! (Mr Survey) Google it! ‘Prenup effectiveness’ … ‘Women breaking prenup’ this is 101 crap.

—–

FYI:

I’m what you guys would refer to as a MGTOW MONK. (not a religious thing BTW, even though yes I’m a Christian) I just don’t CARE.

And it isn’t ‘cuz I can’t get a girl [annoying shame meme] (.. this is for the reporter/whatever) who is lurking w/ the survey…

I STILL have that same business.. 16 years now.. You can see me on my website having my laptop at the office signed by Nolan Bushnell.. Scroll down halfway on web content solutions.com (not even trying to get link juice or anything) That is me with Nolan Bushnell Nov 2016. About a year after the divorce.

[Handy RaySpectator 34]

JustAnotherGuy wrote:

PRENUP:

WORTHLESS. Go to Law School. Ask a student. Contracts/Law etc are ONLY as strong as the courts (judges in them) make them. In the matter of PreNup. Come on dude! (Mr Survey) Google it! ‘Prenup effectiveness’ … ‘Women breaking prenup’ this is 101 crap.

—–

FYI:

I’m what you guys would refer to as a MGTOW MONK. (not a religious thing BTW, even though yes I’m a Christian) I just don’t CARE.

And it isn’t ‘cuz I can’t get a girl [annoying shame meme] (.. this is for the reporter/whatever) who is lurking w/ the survey…

I STILL have that same business.. 16 years now.. You can see me on my website having my laptop at the office signed by Nolan Bushnell.. Scroll down halfway on web content solutions.com (not even trying to get link juice or anything) That is me with Nolan Bushnell Nov 2016. About a year after the divorce.

Thanks again for sharing, kind sir. I know prenups are worthless…but there is not enough significant evidence that supports this claim…that is the reason I am doing the survey. MGTOW are all about supporting evidence, am I wrong?

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant 143]

Naw.. I don’t care 🙂 Just being silly.

This whole thread turned out to be interesting. When you guy do HIT THE RED BUTTON.. ONE THING you MIGHT do is LOCK it and change the title.. ‘When a Lurker Calls’ 🙂

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant 143]

Do you guys get a lot of ‘INVESTIGATORS’ like that?

That is kinda cool in a way isn’t it?

What I think these types don’t get is that MGTOW are VERY adept in aspects of psychology! 🙂

AS soon as I saw the first question, I thought, well, this isn’t MGTOW. We all know that answer.

Like: Question 1 – Do you feel you were treated fairly in ______________.

Hahaha.. It SHOULD have been:

Question 1 – Do you mind if I rehash pain for the next _____ minutes. Yes/No

Sorry.. I was a class clown like I’m sure many of you were. Humor heals. 🙂

[Handy RaySpectator 34]

JustAnotherGuy wrote:

Do you guys get a lot of ‘INVESTIGATORS’ like that?

That is kinda cool in a way isn’t it?

???

[Handy RaySpectator 34]

JustAnotherGuy wrote:

Do you guys get a lot of ‘INVESTIGATORS’ like that?

That is kinda cool in a way isn’t it?

What I think these types don’t get is that MGTOW are VERY adept in aspects of psychology!

AS soon as I saw the first question, I thought, well, this isn’t MGTOW. We all know that answer.

Like: Question 1 – Do you feel you were treated fairly in ______________.

Hahaha.. It SHOULD have been:

Question 1 – Do you mind if I rehash pain for the next _____ minutes. Yes/No

Sorry.. I was a class clown like I’m sure many of you were. Humor heals.

LOL

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant 143]

Handy, if you’re real. No offense.

That being said, if you’re real, you need to take a breath and learn about everything. Talk on the forums for awhile. Let people get to know you.

Nobody (people who understand Men Going Their Own Way) is EVER going to do a survey.

Think about it. You’re asking Men “Going their own way” which way they’re going and these are the paths.. 🙂

Then: “You’re not going your own way, this survey says you are ACTUALLY going THIS way.. and THAT way.. by THIS percentage.”

I have to say, it’s kinda cute.

——
Whether you’re a blogger, reporter, whatever, here is what you need to research to make a story/report/thesis or whatever. It is online. After about .. 100/150/200 hours? More? I completely had it.

Blue Pill Men
Red Pill Rage
Red Pill Men
Purple Pill Men (a few kinds)

Maybe you already know all this. I don’t mean to talk down. I haven’t slept since yesterday so I apologize in advance.

——

We AREN’T a ‘GROUP’ in the way that society conventionally handles/works/deals with.

We are a group of HUMAN BEINGS. That’s it. (glad to have you with us! Welcome to the human race!)

———–

MGTOW is not a Group. It is a PHILOSOPHY.

Imagine if GANDHI’s wife divorced him and she got custody of his sons. Gandhi WANTED to be an influence [or more of] in their lives, but the court said, sorry Gandhi, every other weekend (or never) and plus Gandhi, you’re kinda strange, so it has to be supervised.

Then the government said ___________________. WWGD?

You may think Gandhi was sitting in ‘peaceful revolution’.. (maybe)

But..

Just imagine.. If he just accepted things.

Imagine if the government just left him there and people ignored him. Do you think Gandhi would have gotten up and said.

Well crap! That didn’t work!

I need to be an ‘activist’ and gather a bunch of people and change things!

..Or /maybe/ he would have just gone about his life, doing the best he could to let people know that he had PEACE in his heart.

Not FORCING his message, but (Gandhi) saying, “It sucked. It wasn’t fair. I am CERTAINLY not going to do THAT again. I may be crazy but I’m not insane!”

Weird that ‘peace’ causes such ripples again after all these years!

I know .. It is WEIRD!

[Handy RaySpectator 34]

JustAnotherGuy wrote:

Handy, if you’re real. No offense.

That being said, if you’re real, you need to take a breath and learn about everything. Talk on the forums for awhile. Let people get to know you.

Nobody (people who understand Men Going Their Own Way) is EVER going to do a survey.

Think about it. You’re asking Men “Going their own way” which way they’re going and these are the paths..

Then: “You’re not going your own way, this survey says you are ACTUALLY going THIS way.. and THAT way.. by THIS percentage.”

I have to say, it’s kinda cute.

——
Whether you’re a blogger, reporter, whatever, here is what you need to research to make a story/report/thesis or whatever. It is online. After about .. 100/150/200 hours? More? I completely had it.

Blue Pill Men
Red Pill Rage
Red Pill Men
Purple Pill Men (a few kinds)

Maybe you already know all this. I don’t mean to talk down. I haven’t slept since yesterday so I apologize in advance.

——

We AREN’T a ‘GROUP’ in the way that society conventionally handles/works/deals with.

We are a group of HUMAN BEINGS. That’s it. (glad to have you with us! Welcome to the human race!)

———–

MGTOW is not a Group. It is a PHILOSOPHY.

Imagine if GANDHI’s wife divorced him and she got custody of his sons. Gandhi WANTED to be an influence [or more of] in their lives, but the court said, sorry Gandhi, every other weekend (or never) and plus Gandhi, you’re kinda strange, so it has to be supervised.

Then the government said ___________________. WWGD?

You may think Gandhi was sitting in ‘peaceful revolution’.. (maybe)

But..

Just imagine.. If he just accepted things.

Imagine if the government just left him there and people ignored him. Do you think Gandhi would have gotten up and said.

Well crap! That didn’t work!

I need to be an ‘activist’ and gather a bunch of people and change things!

..Or /maybe/ he would have just gone about his life, doing the best he could to let people know that he had PEACE in his heart.

Not FORCING his message, but (Gandhi) saying, “It sucked. It wasn’t fair. I am CERTAINLY not going to do THAT again. I may be crazy but I’m not insane!”

Weird that ‘peace’ causes such ripples again after all these years!

I know .. It is WEIRD!

Thanks again…whether you think I’m MGTOW or not, I don’t have to prove to you that I am. The purpose of the survey is to provide supporting evidence of my claim that prenups are garbage. That’s all.

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

Men understand that trust is earned.

Men will introduce themselves to other men when joining them.

C~~~s and manginas feel they are entitled to trust.

No f~~~ing way I am clicking on any link posted here from someone I do not trust, and who did not even adequately introduce themselves.

[Handy RaySpectator 34]

Pedal, run, row wrote:

Men understand that trust is earned.

Men will introduce themselves to other men when joining them.

C~~~s and manginas feel they are entitled to trust.

No f~~~ing way I am clicking on any link posted here from someone I do not trust, and who did not even adequately introduce themselves.

Understandable…

[Handy RaySpectator 34]

Pedal, run, row wrote:

Men understand that trust is earned.

Men will introduce themselves to other men when joining them.

C~~~s and manginas feel they are entitled to trust.

No f~~~ing way I am clicking on any link posted here from someone I do not trust, and who did not even adequately introduce themselves.

I understand about trust. However, please do yourself a favor and check the website at Norton safe web. I would give you a link for that but since you don’t trust me….

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Handy Ray wrote:

I’m trying to make a difference and make a valid argument proving why prenups are basically toilet paper.

You don’t need to.

— >> WEDDING VOWS are toilet paper, and the +72% of divorce , domestic disputes and domestic violence that is solely initiated by women is all you need to know.

Never mind the f~~~ing “pre nup”. Just listen to her.
Her wedding vows are complete bulls~~~.

•••••••

Here’s your is toilet paper.

https://archive.is/36Wnr

Forget the “pre-nup” argument. You can prove it’s all a bunch of stinking crap the minute she uses the word “love”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Handy RaySpectator 34]

Here is my introduction. /forums/topic/nice-to-meet-all-of-you/
I hope that makes some of you guys feel better.

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

Pedal, run, row wrote:

Men understand that trust is earned.

Men will introduce themselves to other men when joining them.

C~~~s and manginas feel they are entitled to trust.

No f~~~ing way I am clicking on any link posted here from someone I do not trust, and who did not even adequately introduce themselves.

As usual, I’m with RPR.

It's Time to get Wise

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Pedal, run, row wrote:

Men understand that trust is earned.

C~~~s and manginas feel they are entitled to trust.

I disagree.

RESPECT is “earned”.

TRUST must be freely given – or not – until it is abused.

We have to “trust” that another car coming in the opposite direction isn’t going to cross this painted yellow lines and kill us – every single day. We need to “trust” that some passerby isn’t going to whip out a knife and stab us on the sidewalk every single day.

And if you decide not to give that trust away, your option is to walk to work, or not leave the house. Those are the options.

But you can’t expect someone else to “earn” trust.
THAT’s what women do.

They hold their hands out for “respect” . . . . while expecting you to jump through hoops to earn her “trust”.

“How do I know I can trust you????”

“YOU DON’T. You will either trust me willingly – or you won’t.”

“You need to learn how to respect women!!!!”

“No. You need to give someone something to respect. And being born with a vagina is not NEARLY enough. So try harder. Respect is up to each individual to earn. Do you eagerly embrace criticism? Because that’s the first way to start earning respect. Only people in the big leagues can handle criticism. Can YOU?”

—

We know this , because people are far more likely to trust complete strangers than their own spouse, family, and friends etc. And why? Because they can’t hurt you. Your wife can. Your boss can. Your friends can. But complete strangers don’t usually give a s~~~.

Women will tell a hairdresser , bartender, a stranger online or sitting next to them on an airplane the most intimate details of their personal life . . . before they tell their own husband.

RESPECT is “earned”.
TRUST must be freely given – or not – until it is abused.

You don’t really have any other choice.

The best you can do is make a judgement to trust or not. But it’s not right to expect someone to earn it – because they CAN’T. How do I PROVE you can trust me? I can’t. I know you can freely decide you will or you won’t, and there’s nothing I can do about that.

Women have a completely backwards understanding of trust vs. respect. They demand respect for free without criticism . . . . . while expecting someone to earn their trust, when they ALREADY KNOW it doesn’t work like that.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 12]

Handy Ray wrote:

Of course… Nice to meet you too! My name is Handy. I have been MGTOW since 2014. I am 35. I went MGTOW after realized it’s all a lose/lose and no matter what I do with trying to be in a relationship, I’m gonna lose. I’ve never been married and I do not plan to get married. I’m Christian and I do believe you can be Christian and MGTOW at the same time (since MGTOW is not a religion). I’m sorry to offend I’m sorry if you feel that my poll is inappropriate. But, I’m trying to make a difference and make a valid argument proving why prenups are basically toilet paper. I will share the results for anyone who is interested in using it in any of their arguments.

Ignore my french but you sound like a female.
i feel i can make a difference.
i´m sorry i´m sorry i´m sorry
i´m posting a poll on something that the world already knows. please, i need more votes/attention

stick around and read the forums for a few weeks…
and you will find out that your endeavor is lost on MGTOW.

we left.
we don´t give a s~~~ any more.

[Handy RaySpectator 34]

Anonymous wrote:

Handy Ray wrote:

Of course… Nice to meet you too! My name is Handy. I have been MGTOW since 2014. I am 35. I went MGTOW after realized it’s all a lose/lose and no matter what I do with trying to be in a relationship, I’m gonna lose. I’ve never been married and I do not plan to get married. I’m Christian and I do believe you can be Christian and MGTOW at the same time (since MGTOW is not a religion). I’m sorry to offend I’m sorry if you feel that my poll is inappropriate. But, I’m trying to make a difference and make a valid argument proving why prenups are basically toilet paper. I will share the results for anyone who is interested in using it in any of their arguments.

Ignore my french but you sound like a female.
i feel i can make a difference.
i´m sorry i´m sorry i´m sorry
i´m posting a poll on something that the world already knows. please, i need more votes/attention

stick around and read the forums for a few weeks…
and you will find out that your endeavor is lost on MGTOW.

we left.
we don´t give a s~~~ any more.

If you really don’t give a s~~~, GTFO of my thread.

[Anonymous 0]

With overlord out of the way, could we now have a little look at this chap?

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