Distrustful wife

[GrizzlyParticipant 42]

“It is only prudent never to place complete confidence in that by which we have even once been deceived.”
–Rene Descartes

Found this on the forums earlier. Helps me when I think “she’ll change” or anything concerning her that starts with “maybe…”

[Western TigerParticipant 20]

Thanks for all the replies guys, some great advice there.

My strategy is thus: Build up my wealth stash in secret- gold, silver, cash reserves- and keep it in a Safebox. This process has already began. 10 years from now- our youngest child is only 1 year old- I’ll be home and dry. 10 years is ok. And then its goodnight vienna.

This episode has been a blessing (aren’t they always?). Say less, be less familiar with her, keep my s~~~ private (inc keeping my phone and laptop away from her jealous mits), be firmer with her, take back control. All good lessons which men the world over show know when handling these strange creatures.

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

Take it from someone who has a lying wife who has lied about finances for 20 years. I always thought she learned her lesson and would trust her again.

I was a dumbass always trusting her and then getting burned again, and again… and again.

Then I woke up and never trusted her another day.

Stick to your plan and stockpile. 10 years is a long time. I decided to leave 10 years ago and I’m still here and I’ve wasted that time and wished I’d left instead of staying. 10 years down the drain.

I hope you make better choices than I have.

Good Luck

[Western TigerParticipant 20]

Finally today she admitted her lies.

Regarding the issue of divorce, I’ve heard a few guys on this forum speak of the importance of being the first one to make the move. Whats the reasons for that?

[Maximus AureliusParticipant 351]

To protect what assets you want to keep or minimize what she takes from you! And how much you may in the end be forced to pay her…

Meditating on the Wisdom & Truths of Man, Isn't just a Philosophy, but a Calling......Be willing to be Called a Man!

[Western TigerParticipant 20]

Maximus Aurelius wrote:

To protect what assets you want to keep or minimize what she takes from you! And how much you may in the end be forced to pay her…

Do judges give preference to the man if he files for divorce first?

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