Dear Lord – There Are Others?!?

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

ManBearPig wrote:

This is a very distracting place for those still taking the blue pill – gorgeous scantily clad intoxicated women EVERYWHERE, but it’s of no distraction to me.

Yeah. Been there done that. They are the most superficial women on the planet. Entitlement levels are off the charts.

Did you make it to the OTL tournament on Fiesta Island? Must see at least once.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[ManBearPigParticipant 103]

No I didn’t make it to that and in fact I didn’t know it existed until one day I was driving to Pacific Beach and saw a giant blog of RV’s and trailers over there. I had to look up what it was all about. I’d like to see it next year for sure!

[SandalsParticipant 4253]

ManBearPig wrote:

My real name is Mike

ManBearPig wrote:

I’m all for verifying I’m a male, but I’m not like most guys, so I don’t know how “male” my response will sound. But heck, if you’re giving me an excuse to talk about myself why not?

You do not need to verify you are male. Women don’t write like you. They don’t have the capacity to write like a man.

[ManBearPigParticipant 103]

Sandals wrote:

ManBearPig wrote:

My real name is Mike

ManBearPig wrote:

I’m all for verifying I’m a male, but I’m not like most guys, so I don’t know how “male” my response will sound. But heck, if you’re giving me an excuse to talk about myself why not?

You do not need to verify you are male. Women don’t write like you. They don’t have the capacity to write like a man.

Phew! Glad I passed the test! 😀

[LEO THE WISEParticipant 249]

ManBearPig, welcome to MGTOW.

I woke up nearly 4 years ago now. Well I always felt as well Like a “natural” MGTOW not really knowing there was a community, video , shared information between men going around on the same topics
I had an epiphany confirming all my thoughts it was a blessing : You are not alone, even if you go your own way.

I propose you to check my youtube channel : I created the content specifically for newcomers in MGTOW to try to give back to the community (see in my signature). Channel is small but growing and I have prepared dozens of topics to treat regarding men going their own way.

Regards,
LEO THE WISE : giving to all men their needed uprise !

Leo the wise : Giving to all men their needed uprise My MGTOW YOUTUBE channel, first vid : https://youtu.be/Xt-tJgVUGuI

[Toxic BirdParticipant 23]

Good evening ManBearPig,

there is something about your introduction that particularly resonated with me; it is what your trainer said:
“the solitude that comes with truck driving will either teach you to love yourself or hate yourself.”

After high school I went on my first own vacation. I went to a country where I did not not speak the language (only absolute basics, nowhere near being able to hold even a simple conversation), I was never there before, I was all alone, I was there for more than 2 months, organised all by myself. And on top of that: I went hiking in the forests, away from civilisation, depending on myself and my equipment alone. People used to ask me if I am not scared or so, if I would not want to do it with a friend. And I said no. It was about being alone. I wanted to get away from family and friends, the life I had (even though it was at a point of a change). Simply… being by myself… I did not even bring a music player or a book or so in order to be FORCED to deal with my thoughts.

Coming back to what your trainer said: I do not say it as your trainer said it (soliute will either teach you to love or hate yourself), I say that you will find out how much you can actually stand yourself and tolerate yourself. That trip was difficult in different ways, but all in all it was one of the best experiences I ever made and I learned so much from it.

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[RandallParticipant 32]

Welcome Brother. You are not alone.

[AstroParticipant 2045]

Welcome to the MGTOW Lounge. I can relate to many things you said. I was also a trucker but now drive a bus. I went Monk before I found about MGTOW on You Tube, it’s pretty common. I had a bad case of Red Pill Rage when I came here but these guys have helped me get through it (or at least I think I have). The Zoom conferences we have are even better and I even found a local MGTOW I meet up with.

[Anonymous 3]

I gotta do a Zoom conference. Tried to get on once but something went wrong. Next one.
MGTOW

[CurmudgeonParticipant 64]

Welcome ManBearPig!
Read the forums and absorb the wisdom of several men who’ve dealt with this gynocentric society in their work, career, and families. You have the chance of avoiding the mistakes of many. 1. Marriage is the primary cause of divorce. 2. Don’t expect justice in family court (if you ignore #1). 3. Divorce misery is associated with financial/emotional turmoil (again if #1 is ignored). Also, violence (substance abuse, homocide, suicide) is frequently associated with #1.
Finding your work/career niche, explore your spiritual life, learn to enjoy solitude/meditation/prayer are all helpful IMHO.
I’ve had my education,career,marriage,children, and horrid divorce with associated child extortion payments. Glad to be retired and enjoy grandkids these days. Grace and Peace

Proverbs 21:191599 Geneva Bible (GNV)
19 It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and angry woman.

No Bills No Boss No Bitch

[HReardenParticipant 86]

Wow! What a great story – that sounds like a hard decision, but I really appreciate hearing how well you came out with an opportunity. I am grateful to have heard your story!

[GregB0Participant]

ManBearPig wrote:

I’ve never needed much of a support system in my life.

But now you have brothers for those moments where you have questions or doubts. There are many levels of experience, opinions and knowledge available to members via MGTOW. Continue to enjoy your time getting acquainted with everyone and theirs posts, and we very much look forward to your future threads.

ManBearPig wrote:

a sheet has been pulled off of a world that’s been here all along, I just couldn’t see it before.

Like most things in life, experience and socialization prepare us for the world we exist within. Given that public exposure of MGTOW has been very recent, it is not widely know, hence your need for in-depth research to find it. While MGTOW Men have been around for centuries, their MGTOW motivations were overlooked or disregarded until recently.

ManBearPig wrote:

The reason I did that is simply because I wanted to. I love to drive, I

This is the primary reason for MGTOW, Men Going Their Own Way. Everything else is secondary to that. You will find many forum posts the digress away from this point, but this is the foundation of our Brotherhood.
That and the belief that No F**KS are Given for anything written. Like it or leave it, it is just a thing.

ManBearPig wrote:

“the solitude that comes with truck driving will either teach you to love yourself or hate yourself.”

This quote is FANTASTIC and a great endorsement for reflection of all types.

ManBearPig wrote:

I hope this post isn’t coming off as me being some pretentious dick bragging about how perfect my life is and how MGTOW I am – that’s not my intent especially as someone who is completely new to this community.

You have been honest and have posted a great introduction. Thank you for doing so by the way. Remember, NFG. Welcome to the MGTOW Brotherhood and enjoy your stay.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[MGTOW NinjaParticipant 34]

What’s up? Are there any Teen Mgtows here? Just wondering, but to let y’all know DO NOT listen to your blue pill friends and continue to load yourselves with knowledge (ie red pills) & focus on your goals and hobbies. Be good with your life! ☺️

GH0ST

[Anonymous 3]

Charity begins at home. I only do those things which are in my own best interests.
Be good to yourself. Enjoy the freedom that comes with being MGTOW.
LG – life is good

[EscapedMentalPatientParticipant 1489]

Hello, brother.

I really enjoyed reading your introduction; you didn’t come across as a “dick bragging about their perfect life”, sir. On the contrary, your descriptiveness and humility about arriving at the MGTOW junction was eloquent and very satisfying to read.

It is always a positive feeling to see a fellow take charge of his life, follow his gut and pursue/enjoy his version of success.

Welcome aboard mate; may this site and the subsequent personal growth which will inherently bloom here, broaden your horizons, sir.

Cheers.

[SolitudeParticipant 116]

ManBearPig wrote:

“the solitude that comes with truck driving will either teach you to love yourself or hate yourself.”

Couldn’t agree more about this, man. I think many relationships have been born out of, or persist for, men being uncomfortable with being alone. A great deal of freedom arises when you can be happy both surrounded others and when utterly alone.

“The more powerful and original a mind, the more it will incline towards the religion of solitude.” ― Aldous Huxley

[2icebittenParticipant 147]

Welcome home.

My mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive; and to do so with some passion, some compassion, some humor, and some style. - Maya Angelou

[Caffeinated LibertyParticipant 2]

Good to hear you are living out what I like to call, “The Dream”. It’s When all of your beliefs line up with your lifestyle.

[WraithParticipant 242]

Welcome, ManBearPig. Your post is an excellent response to people who ask why MGTOW need a group and don’t just walk away if we’re so unhappy. Many of us haven’t seen any other place with like-minded red-pill men. When we first found MGTOW, we appreciated knowing that it’s not just us. The sense of brotherhood is helpful. By availing ourselves to each other’s experience and wisdom, we get better at protecting our autonomy from those who would try to manipulate us into living for the The Damsel.

[BeenThereDoneThatParticipant 1]

Welcome. I wish things had turned out so well for me. I suppose that I fell into the trap of falling for someone whom I hadn’t had to talk into it when I think about it.
Yes, there are others – many others. Even the people in a so-called “happy relationship” always seem to be looking for ways out of it.

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