Dealing with Female Family Members

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

Doc wrote:

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

Young daughter; she isn’t under the same equation, yet. Once a woman, AWALT. It isn’t anything personal, it’s what all women do, to varying degree.

I agree but I remain hopeful I can alter her mind-set. She has two older brothers. Fingers crossed.

Just wait until she leaves home and/or starts getting involved with guys. My sister was a really happy Nice Girl and she had a good little figure, then she got involved with a worse guy, left home, got married and had a child, had another 2 homes with that guy, got divorced, got another 2 homes in-between guys, then got involved with a complete waste-of-space guy, got another 3 homes with that guy, and she is now a complete land-whale jekyll-and-hyde bitch. All I could do is stand back, watch her destroy her own life, and protect the rest of my family; she wouldn’t listen to me, she threw all of my help back in my face, and she took my nephew away from his proper family (because she valued a potential new boyfriend over the advice/help/well-being of her own family and the best interests of her own child) – so I have had to remove myself from her and her toxic life, because I could not allow myself to be dragged in to all of that and get dragged down by it.

Enjoy your daughter whilst she is relatively innocent/sweet, un-affected by the desire to reproduce, and not involved with guys in any romantic/sexual sense. Girls nowadays start with the whole boy-friend thing as young as 12, so they are not sweet/innocent for long…

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

I have one sister and two brothers. I haven’t spoken to her in over a decade. Nor do I plan to.

[Savage WillParticipant 181]

sjt1975 wrote:

I too have a nightmare sister. She has made poor choices in her life, which she naturally blames everybody else for, and she pretends to be ‘haaaaappppyy’, but she triggers real easy.

my sister who is a year older than me keeps bugging me whenever she gets the chance.She does it in a subtle way, so that i wouldnt be able to explain it to people. She’s all in to murder my character. Ever since she spread rumours about me to enough people to tune my attitude(and i left home for 2 years and now im back), she’s been triggering me a lot. I’m working on something now. She’s a feminist and she knows how well I’m gonna do in life. You may read between the lines.

sjt1975 wrote:

to try and manipulate my mother to get her own way in things (and generally succeeds, but they know that I am not happy with my mother allowing my sister to manipulate her, just so that she can get to see her own grand-child; my mother is not strong enough to call my sister out on that s~~~ and she keeps nagging-away at my father when she should be directing her anger/nagging at my sister). It just all goes to show me how calculating/manipulating women really are, even against each other, even within the same family unit.

I’m not sure if my mother is being manipulated by my sister or she’s in on it too. She stunts my mental growth. lots of situations like that in the past. idk whether thats intentional or not.
Btw, my parents got divorced when i was 8. my sis is a year older than me. I was living with my mom and sister for 13 yrs. theyre back together now. The way life changed after they got back together has been a drag. Theyre trying to feminize the household. Especially my sister. I hope he gets a divorce. I love my mom but ive got plenty of reasons to doubt her. My dad might believe me if i speak the truth about my sister. Just waiting for an opportunity. gotta move fast when things get started.
The worst part about dealing with my sister is not having the right words to explain the s~~~ to my dad. The reason could be the fact that women are generally seen as harmless especially in the region i live in. I gotta let my dad know the truth about women. especially during these times. He’s purple-pilled in my book. My dad’s smart. Just wish he wasn’t so busy with his work. All the free time he gets, my mom is almost always by his side.
I have a feeling something is gonna happen soon.

Don't fucking tell me it's nighttime when the sun is clearly shining in the sky.

[MonkParticipant 16978]

Sky-O wrote:

His 71 year old mother was standing in the kitchen crying.That just how my bipolar buddy deals with his mom.

That is vile.

[Back in BlackParticipant 1732]

I can appreciate your situation. My family is very dysfunctional. I have two older sisters. I know their natures and keep clear, firm boundaries. I love them both but know it is completely useless to try to engage with them in a way I would with a man (my brother for example).

In short, detach with love.

"Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word. Consider how a young girl will toy day after day with a child, dance with it and sing to it; and then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.” Quote from Arthur Shopenhauer, 17th century philosopher

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

Back in Black wrote:

My family is very dys-functional. I have two older sisters. I know their natures and keep clear, firm boundaries. I love them both, but know it is completely useless to try to engage with them in a way that I would with a man. In short, detach with love.

This is what I have done with my sister; I have detached from her. She always keeps acting as if none of the hurt that she caused in the past had ever happened. I keep my boundaries very firm with her. She sometimes tries to manipulate me, even via my parents, but I call her out on it and I don’t let her. She hates the fact that I am so calm/direct in my behaviour, that I remember all of her crap behaviour from the past, and that I call her out on her crap.

NON-FAMILY RELATED COMMENT:
I only do what I want to do, if it is convenient for me. You have to be firm with bitches. Women have only ever been ‘nice’ to me whenever they wanted something from me (advice, help), so whenever a woman is trying to be nice to me now, or talks to me in that ‘I Want Your Help’ tone now, my guard goes right up, because I know that she is just going to ask me for something, but I know that she will do nothing for me in return, since women never have done anything for me in return in the past. Women are just users, parasites, consuming the Good Man’s resources for their own benefit. It would have been nice if just one girl did something for me or gave me a token of her appreciation, but no girl ever has, because they do not care, once they get what they want from you. Once they get what they want from the Nice Guy (which is not his c~~~, only his resources), they go off to find/f~~~ some Chad, so the Nice Guy always gets the s~~~ty end of the stick. Well, I’m not going to be any bitch’s Beta Resource/Wallet…

[DocParticipant]

Stealth wrote:

DocDJ wrote:

My mother once told my ex wife – ‘I understsnd why you want to leave him’. WTF WTFFFFF

My ex even said she thought what my mother said was cruel.

And my mother wonders why I don’t speak to her.

Same situation here.

No contact for both.

Women. I shake my head at All of them.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[Bloody HeartlandParticipant 693]

Twist wrote:

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you hit the nail on the head.

"I have the fury of my own momentum." "With this ring I thee wed. Fire walk with me."

[Remove me!Participant]

Your sister seems to be a narcissistic, and maybe a psychopath. She needs to see a very good psychiatrist.

Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.

[DocParticipant]

sjt1975 wrote:

DocDJ wrote:

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

Young daughter; she isn’t under the same equation, yet. Once a woman, AWALT. It isn’t anything personal, it’s what all women do, to varying degree.

I agree but I remain hopeful I can alter her mind-set. She has two older brothers. Fingers crossed.

Just wait until she leaves home and/or starts getting involved with guys. My sister was a really happy Nice Girl and she had a good little figure, then she got involved with a worse guy, left home, got married and had a child, had another 2 homes with that guy, got divorced, got another 2 homes in-between guys, then got involved with a complete waste-of-space guy, got another 3 homes with that guy, and she is now a complete land-whale jekyll-and-hyde bitch. All I could do is stand back, watch her destroy her own life, and protect the rest of my family; she wouldn’t listen to me, she threw all of my help back in my face, and she took my nephew away from his proper family (because she valued a potential new boyfriend over the advice/help/well-being of her own family and the best interests of her own child) – so I have had to remove myself from her and her toxic life, because I could not allow myself to be dragged in to all of that and get dragged down by it.

Enjoy your daughter whilst she is relatively innocent/sweet, un-affected by the desire to reproduce, and not involved with guys in any romantic/sexual sense. Girls nowadays start with the whole boy-friend thing as young as 12, so they are not sweet/innocent for long…

I wish you were wrong but I know deep down you are right.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

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