Dating Sites: Roll Call (male vs Female)

[BokehParticipant 65]

My last foray/research on dating sites is this: it’s a scam for guys. Women ride for free, men have to pay extra, somehow, to have any chance at getting matched or contacted.

Dating sites are wish factories for women. Half of them are simply to prop up a woman’s ego – they put up profiles to check their desirability, but have no intentions of meeting anyone, as they’re in relationships. Bored at work? Start an account at a dating site.

Tinder was a thing, but it’s over. And, you’re forced into the Facebook ecosystem, which is repugnant. If you’re under 30, you can still get easy sex there. After that…it gets ugly, fast. My age group, 50, is a desolate wasteland of fat old women who aren’t looking for a hookup, they want Prince Charming – and his castle, and treasury. Sorry you skipped contributing to your 401k, princess – but you’re not skimming off mine.

The rest of them slowly sank under a flood of fake Russian profiles, Skype scams, and god knows what else. Plenty O’ Fish seemed to be intent on hooking me up with transvestites. Even the “adult” sites are full of women, looking for Mr. Right – hon, you’re on a hookup site, get your demanding ass off of it, we’re not here looking for dreamcatchers and soulmates.

I’ve given up on dating. I will never go on another date, the rest of my life, and I’m pretty f~~~ing comfortable with the idea. Sure, I’m still good looking enough at 50 to land a 30-something, but honestly? F~~~ that. I’m done. And looking through dating sites, it’s the only decision. It’s just picking who’s going to f~~~ you over financially, and consume your soul next.

[MelkiorrParticipant 200]

Bokeh wrote:

My last foray/research on dating sites is this: it’s a scam for guys. Women ride for free, men have to pay extra, somehow, to have any chance at getting matched or contacted.

Dating sites are wish factories for women. Half of them are simply to prop up a woman’s ego – they put up profiles to check their desirability, but have no intentions of meeting anyone, as they’re in relationships. Bored at work? Start an account at a dating site.

Tinder was a thing, but it’s over. And, you’re forced into the Facebook ecosystem, which is repugnant. If you’re under 30, you can still get easy sex there. After that…it gets ugly, fast. My age group, 50, is a desolate wasteland of fat old women who aren’t looking for a hookup, they want Prince Charming – and his castle, and treasury. Sorry you skipped contributing to your 401k, princess – but you’re not skimming off mine.

The rest of them slowly sank under a flood of fake Russian profiles, Skype scams, and god knows what else. Plenty O’ Fish seemed to be intent on hooking me up with transvestites. Even the “adult” sites are full of women, looking for Mr. Right – hon, you’re on a hookup site, get your demanding ass off of it, we’re not here looking for dreamcatchers and soulmates.

I’ve given up on dating. I will never go on another date, the rest of my life, and I’m pretty f~~~ing comfortable with the idea. Sure, I’m still good looking enough at 50 to land a 30-something, but honestly? F~~~ that. I’m done. And looking through dating sites, it’s the only decision. It’s just picking who’s going to f~~~ you over financially, and consume your soul next.

Wise words. I wish someone would have told me that about 10 years ago.

[GoldSpectator 1]

OK, guys. I understand your scepticism. On general dating sites women seem to have an easy ride, at least my single Slavic girlfriends have no trouble finding dates (I and Russian, live in Australia, many my girlfriends were born in Russia, Ukraine, Belarus, etc, we moved to AU in different ways 10-25 years ago). If a woman is good looking, she definitely gets a guy and a relationship within a couple of months of using online dating sites. So, good and beautiful women are still there, they just don’t stay single for long. She becomes single and it takes her only 3-4 days to find a match (have to filter through some “crazies”), then she spends some time together with a guy, sometimes it doesn’t work after a few weeks and she is back to online dating. But in general, a woman’s true availability on a dating site is very short. As I say, if a woman wants a partner, and she is OK in her head and looks, she gets a decent guy quickly and he is very happy.

I keep hearing that for the guys on western dating websites it’s different and they struggle to find a nice woman. The same thing happens for my Russian girlfriends who live in Russia. They sound the same as you do, talking about their total inability to meet decent men through dating sites or in real life.
Naturally, if you are not intending to have something serious, there is no point to use legitimate LINK REMOVED. But if you really wish a lifetime partner, then spending 2-3 months chatting online (for free) and then you hopefully can find someone you are genuinely happy with, it’s worth it. Especially if you have tried everything else and it didn’t work.

Do you really want to spend the rest of your life alone? Keep communicating through these forums, exchanging messages “how bad women are”?
Of course, not. No one wants to do it.

Then DO something about it. Don’t be scared. Of course, avoid “pseudo-dating sites with Russian brides” (Google it), but there are real, trusted, legitimate Russian dating websites that have the same quality women (or even better) as my Russian girlfriends who get snapped in the local online singles hangouts pretty quickly.

[OldBillParticipant]

Enjoy your stay, Gold. It’s going to be a short one.

I’ve reported Gold already, brothers. “He” joined in mid-April and has made all of one post, a post promoting a Russian “dating site”.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Anonymous 12]

All this propaganda to push one Link — removed –.
Truly desperate person.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Gold wrote:

OK, guys. I understand your scepticism. On general dating sites women seem to have an easy ride

bahahahahahaha<breathe>bahahahahaha

It’s all “dating” sites that give women a free ride.

Dating is a euphemism for a financial audit by a woman to appraise her short term and long term financial enrichment at any given mans expense.
It is all about what they can get, never what a woman can offer up front without hidden costs or losses to a man.
For me dating is like shopping for a backpack and finding out that the only item for sale is a fully packed steamer trunk.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[KeymasterKeymaster]

OldBill wrote:

Enjoy your stay, Gold. It’s going to be a short one.

Big Thanks @oldbill.

Turns out we already connected with “Gold” who seemed questionable upon arrival. While the email was not enough to turn a member away at first, it was just a matter of time.

@gold

NO man needs to spend 2-3 months “chatting with women online” when 51% of the population is female, and no man EVER IN HISTORY needed to go online to “meet women”. 51% means, even if a man does NOT want to meet a woman…. he’s MORE LIKELY to meet a woman today.

They are everywhere. Like trashcans are everywhere.

Thanks for stopping by . . . . but this is never gonna get you laid.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 11]

Trolling is the best thing about online dating sites. The level of simping will blow your mind.

OldBill will be feasting on some tuna tonight.

[OldBillParticipant]

No need for thanks, brothers. It was s~~~ blind luck on my part, little more than a “right place, right time” moment.

Insomnia me up at an odd time for the US’ east coast and Key’s excellent Last 10 Replies feature rolled Gold’s post past my bloodshot eyes.

Any one of us would have spotted and reported Gold. Just look at g-mow, for example. He reported the post and warned us all only a few minutes after I did.

Eternal vigilance is the price of liberty.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

it’s worth it

Ok well she convinced me. Time to sign back up!

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