Dating easy for women? Not so fast!

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

http://www.cincinnati.com/story/opinion/contributors/2015/02/23/good-guys-dating-sites/23884793/

These two women, thought dating would be a peace of cake, then became a problem, reality struck! Oops

There was even a man, left 20 minutes into the date, lol.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Taylor Mill resident Abby Turner, the mother of two young boys, is newly single after 10 years of marriage.

I’ll bet he was a real @$$ hole

Dating for the single woman is hard.

So she has two left arms?

Dating for the single mother is even harder.

I’m sure there is a lottery ticket with her name on it out there some where.

Dating for the single mother whose sole provider of dating candidates is the Internet, impossible.

So the internet is the only place for her to go.  Church, libraries, clubs, grocery stores, homeless shelters are out of the question.  And since the only thing that she is looking for is a man, then it’s the men’s fault cuz they are the ones that are on the internet looking to hook up.

I’m far from a perfect partner.

Guys, chime in here.

I can be clingy.

Gosh, really?

I can have higher expectations in a relationship than I should.

And you’re divorced.  Wow!

I can be overbearing.

That’s a new concept for someone that has a vagina.

But I never claimed to be anyone that I’m not.

I have to be straight here.  All of the above attributes should be tattooed on you head as a warning.  Or at least something that says, “Danger, she is just like your ex wife”.

A bit of analysis here.  Have you ever claimed to be a clingy, overbearing, relentless nag that is never satisfied with anything that is done for you, or do you wait to spring these particular feminine attributes after you get someone to “put a ring on it”?

I’m still a single woman on a quest to find love. I’m a forever hopeless, yet hopeful, romantic, hopeful that love is out there and hopelessly trying to find it, seemingly in all the wrong places.

You are not a romantic.  You are unrealistic.  What kind of man do you expect to find on dating websites at your age with two kids in tow?

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[Anonymous 12]

If that is her in the photo she is ugly and has a tattoo, both turn offs for me.

The other big problem women have with dating is they have too much choice, too many men throwing them messages and they get all confused and too fussy. No one is good enough and what is worse is something better might be just around the corner. These types of articles are so common even written by hot chicks and yet as soon as a man writes one about his experiences he is a bitter twisted loser.

Women feel they are entitled to a man when they want one and if he rejects her than God help that man!

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Anonymous wrote:

If that is her in the photo she is ugly and has a tattoo, both turn offs for me.

I forgot to address that.  I apologize for being less than thorough.

BTW.  Aren’t tattoos supposed to be some representation of your “life experience”?

What is the Tweety Bird telling us?

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[EdogParticipant 254]

Another read where I get a chuckle out of what the wall is capable of!

“I’m hard-pressed to find a man who fits my idea of the perfect gentleman. Maybe I’m just too picky. Maybe I believe that a man should encompass certain characteristics. Maybe I’m just old-fashioned. Someone once told me that I should lower my standards when looking to find a mate. Well, if that were the case, I would have stayed married.”

This reinforces what Morlock said, they have too much choice. Look at her hamster spin in just that one paragraph. She’s been told she’s too picky and needs to lower her standards of a mate. In turn, she says if she were to lower her standards then she would have just stayed married. Now what the f~~~ do you think that says about you, you ignorant t~~~? It says you’ll ALWAYS date up. You AREN’T LOYAL! You are a commodity that goes to the highest current bidder! Only a fool would give you the time of day.

 

[foolsgoldParticipant 5637]

I’ve read plenty of similar articles. She was assuming she could do better. She would have had somebody “better” lined up before she divorced if she was smart. Most likely the man she threw away was better than what she could possibly get. I’ve seen this scenario more times than I care to remember. Karma is a bitch, ladies.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Da da da da another one bites the dust …. da da da da another one bites the dust ….. and another one … and another … and ANOTHER ONE BITES THE DUST

GOOD MOOORRNNING MGTOW

Welcome ladies to your wake up call. The wall awaits you pleasure 😆

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

when someone gives you the advice to lower your standards, they’re telling you that you’re ugly/fat/stupid/all of the above.  I had to laugh when she didn’t just say she could write a novel, she presumed it would be a best selling novel.  The common denominator in all her s~~~ty dates is her.  it sounds like she just isn’t interesting.  Maybe that’s what 10 years of doing nothing does to you.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

PLEASE tell me this ‘article’ has a comments section.

Someone once told me that I should lower my standards when looking to find a mate. Well, if that were the case, I would have stayed married.

Add “doesn’t learn her damn lesson” to the list of reasons she is unf~~~able.

foolsgold wrote:

She would have had somebody “better” lined up before she divorced if she was smart.

She probably thought she did.

The only real tragedy here is that some poor schmuck out there is on the hook for child support and possibly alimony to this narcissistic self absorbed delusional bitch.

[Anonymous 12]

Soldier-Medic wrote:

Morlock wrote:

If that is her in the photo she is ugly and has a tattoo, both turn offs for me.

I forgot to address that. I apologize for being less than thorough. BTW. Aren’t tattoos supposed to be some representation of your “life experience”? What is the Tweety Bird telling us?

awwww but he’s sooooo cute! That pretty much sums up her reasoning for getting a tattoo me thinks.

Edog wrote:

Another read where I get a chuckle out of what the wall is capable of! “I’m hard-pressed to find a man who fits my idea of the perfect gentleman. Maybe I’m just too picky. Maybe I believe that a man should encompass certain characteristics. Maybe I’m just old-fashioned. Someone once told me that I should lower my standards when looking to find a mate. Well, if that were the case, I would have stayed married.” This reinforces what Morlock said, they have too much choice. Look at her hamster spin in just that one paragraph. She’s been told she’s too picky and needs to lower her standards of a mate. In turn, she says if she were to lower her standards then she would have just stayed married. Now what the f~~~ do you think that says about you, you ignorant t~~~? It says you’ll ALWAYS date up. You AREN’T LOYAL! You are a commodity that goes to the highest current bidder! Only a fool would give you the time of day.

And you know what, I think more men are finding it difficult to find their idea of the perfect lady! But if we say that we are crucified. Certain characteristics? Ah yes the old “Strong but not forceful, kind but tough, big but small, tall but short” we keep hearing about so often in dating profiles.

Women want whatever looks good at the moment, her husband wasn’t good enough even though he was most likely a stand up bloke now she is finding it hard to find a replacement and it is tearing up her ego so everyone else is to blame for it. I didn’t read the whole article but I’m surprised she doesn’t talk about being rejected for her looks as well and blaming men for being shallow.

 

 

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

“Why am I single?”

Bitch you ugly.

Bitch you stupid.

Bitch you have two kids.

Bitch you have ugly tats.

Bitch you said yourself that you’re an annoying c~~~.

What don’t they get?

(Answer:
Their own stupidity.
And my dong.)

Yet another  case of “I’m made poor choices, why won’t someone take care of me? blah blah blah”.

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Anonymous wrote:

And you know what, I think more men are finding it difficult to find their idea of the perfect lady!

Forget about finding a perfect lady…this lady is substandard by every metric.  Why would I even want to date someone like her?  She’s got a divorce under her belt.  She’s got someone else’s kids.  She’s got a tight schedule.  She obviously has ridiculous expectations.  Don’t have a body shot of her but from what she does show she looks like she’s probably overweight.  She’s probably a financial train wreck.  Even if I hit a point in life where I felt the urge to settle for someone, I could still do better than her quite easily.

[Robert HallamParticipant 696]

Heah Foolsgold.  Right On.  If I lower my standards any more I may as well have stayed married.  This bitch aint gettin’ an upgrade any time soon.  She’s about 34, got baggage, two sons under 10, a real attitude, and obviously damaged goods.  Yeah she’s gonna’ regret dumping that hubby for not meeting her sexual, emotional, spiritual, physical needs.  He was probably way better than what she’s gonna end up with.  Right now she’s gettin’ nothing met.

[Robert HallamParticipant 696]

Yeah! I’ll dump the hubby because he’s starting to pick my ass; grab some assets (house, alimony, child support), take him to the cleaners, should be easy to replace him in a hurry with something a lot better.

God guys.  I’m getting  worried.  I’m becoming a down right woman hater.  I’m not s~~~ting.  I feel like I’ve gotta’ kick them in the box on every posting.

[Robert HallamParticipant 696]

Apparently 70% of divorces are initiated by women.  “That no good f~~~ing husband won’t get me a bigger place, doesn’t do his half of the housework, and has a limp dick.”  I’ll divorce him, get rid of him and pick up some goodies (house, alimony, child support) and screw him royally.  Well if these f~~~ing bitches aren’t happy with what they have at home, let them go out into the market and see what they can find.  Let them figure out what there market value is.  Guaranteed if they do find something (and that’s not guaranteed) they will still convince themselves “I did the right thing”.  “This guy is amazing in bed and treats me like a queen”……………until the bloom falls off the rose and then they start to think “What the hell was I thinking?”  Mean while the ex hubby has moved on and is doing just fine.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Robert Hallam wrote:

Apparently 70% of divorces are initiated by women. “That no good f~~~ing husband won’t get me a bigger place, doesn’t do his half of the housework, and has a limp dick.” I’ll divorce him, get rid of him and pick up some goodies (house, alimony, child support) and screw him royally. Well if these f~~~ing bitches aren’t happy with what they have at home, let them go out into the market and see what they can find. Let them figure out what there market value is. Guaranteed if they do find something (and that’s not guaranteed) they will still convince themselves “I did the right thing”. “This guy is amazing in bed and treats me like a queen”……………until the bloom falls off the rose and then they start to think “What the hell was I thinking?” Mean while the ex hubby has moved on and is doing just fine.

Seriously.  Its comical more of these women don’t think “I’m mid 30s, multiple kids, and will have one divorce under my belt, and literally have nothing going on for me other than baggage and drama…NOBODY WILL WANT TO F~~~ING MARRY ME AGAIN!”  They are bottom of the barrel.  Any guy their age can just go find a woman a bit younger with no kids, or one a bit older that might have kids, but they are already grown up and at college or whatever.

Its amazing what the c~~~ carousel does to women’s brains.  Its like they get conditioned to believe they will always have an endless supply of c~~~ interested in them, because that is what they got when they were younger, hotter, and without the kids, so they think trading up at any time will be easy.  Boy is it hilarious when they feel its time to trade up, only its too late…the wall has worked its magic.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

Robert Hallam wrote:

Apparently 70% of divorces are initiated by women. “That no good f~~~ing husband won’t get me a bigger place, doesn’t do his half of the housework, and has a limp dick.” I’ll divorce him, get rid of him and pick up some goodies (house, alimony, child support) and screw him royally. Well if these f~~~ing bitches aren’t happy with what they have at home, let them go out into the market and see what they can find. Let them figure out what there market value is. Guaranteed if they do find something (and that’s not guaranteed) they will still convince themselves “I did the right thing”. “This guy is amazing in bed and treats me like a queen”……………until the bloom falls off the rose and then they start to think “What the hell was I thinking?” Mean while the ex hubby has moved on and is doing just fine.

Sounds like you have met my ex wife then!  My wife was a stay at home mum in a detached house with double garage and new car for 6 years before deciding she wasn’t happy with me anymore.  I think she got to 36 and thought there was a much more exciting life out there for her so decided she wanted to jump on the C~~~ Carousel one more time before it got too late.

She didn’t divorce me, I divorced her when I found out she had been cheating on me for months.  I honestly believe she thought she could whore it up for 18 months and then if it didn’t work out I would go running back to her.  Before we split she kept going on about another couple she knows where they split for 2 years but got back together because they realised how much they loved each other.  I think she had this fantasy in her head that she could take a couple of years off being married to get f~~~ed senseless on the carousel and that I would take her back when she was ready.

What I think she found was younger guys who were happy to use her for sex but wanted nothing more to do with her.   I think she then realised she was fast headed for a life of being bitter and cats so ended up settling for a Blue pill man with 2 kids who is 4 years older than me.  Not sure this is the exciting life she had planned when she was cheating on me.

When I asked her if she loves him she said she is happy because he likes to spend his money on her and buys her flowers.   I know he got his share of the marital house recently from his wife and they both got new cars and she is rapidly burning through his money.  I suspect she will decide she “loves him but is not in love with him “once all the money is gone.

So these women on dating sites have divorced one perfectly good man who did nothing but love her and support her.  They then get upset that they can’t find the rich Brad Pitt lookalike who they think they deserve.

Bitches be crazy.

 

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[Robert HallamParticipant 696]

Wont Get Fooled Again

Well you old sea biscuit.  Where have you been?  Sort of missed your input but maybe you were on holiday.  Well you have first hand knowledge of what I speak.  It looks to me that she had to settle for something quite a bit less rather than an upgrade.  I’m assuming (but it is probably a pretty good guess) that she’s resigned to the fact that “He’ll have to do I guess; there was no guarantee that I could have found something better.” and she will have to look at this dork the rest of her life.  Yeah, she probably got used by a few guys who weren’t into commitment, and knew she was being used in a series of unsatisfying relationships.

But what gets me Wont Get Fooled Again is her observation early on to you about another couple she knows where they got back together after 2 years of separation.   I agree, I think it was a fantasy of hers and she may very well still harbour it.  I guess the day the realization set in for her was the day your divorce was final, and you stood your ground.   The part that makes me shake my head is her point that they realized how much they loved each other.  Man that part makes me sick.  I just couldn’t abide by a pussy whipped piece of s~~~ that reconciles with a wayward wife.

[ValleyFever101Participant 84]

bigboy83 wrote:

There was even a man, left 20 minutes into the date, lol.

 

I wondered about that while reading the article.  There’s something she’s not telling.

[Robert HallamParticipant 696]

Wont Get Fooled Again

Yeah I wanted to add one more thing.  You ask a woman if she loves her husband and she says “she’s happy because he likes to spend his money and buys her flowers.”  There had to be more than that but maybe not.  Women are not really happy with a Simp or piece of milk toast with two kids of his own.  They much prefer a real man that they can look up to, even if they don’t bring flowers home.  My bet, and again this is based on years of experience and probably a really good guess, is that she has settled for much less than what she had and is making the best of it.

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