Contacted my ex

[OldBillParticipant]

the road wrote:

He has been asking more and more about them and I have a difficult time lying to him, that’s the problem.

He’s asking more and more about them because you haven’t been giving him a straight and/or final answer. You keep hemming and hawing, putting things off, and saying “We’ll see” so he keeps repeating his requests.

Next time he asks, tell him straight out “We won’t see them anymore because So-and-so is not a good person and is no longer our friend.” No lies there and you’ve explained the situation as much as a five year old needs to understand.

He’s five. You’re the adult. You’re also his father first and his friend a distant second. There are few things more pathetic than a parent worried about being their child’s friend.

The wishes of the two children don’t matter in this situation. She’s using her son’s desire to see your son as a way to keep f~~~ing with you and you shouldn’t be letting someone as wretched as her interact with your son.

Act like a father. You already know how and you’ve been doing so already. Yo only think this situation is different because your ex is involved.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

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