Compromised by Divorce Rape

[AwakenedParticipant 35204]

iMickey503 wrote:

When drug dealer have better job security aspects, you know something is wrong.

Drug dealers don’t have a good retirement plan.

In fact, I believe most die from job related injuries or become incarcerated. LOL

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Awakened wrote:

iMickey503 wrote:

When drug dealer have better job security aspects, you know something is wrong.

drug dealers don’t have a good retirement plan.
In fact, I believe most die from job related injuries or become incarcerated. LOL

With the way leftists are, I’m surprised some leftist hasn’t proposed Workmen’s Compensation for drug dealers.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[AwakenedParticipant 35204]

Ranger One wrote:

Workmen’s Compensation for drug dealers.

I’m not sure if workmen’s comp covers death by drive by shootings. LOL

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

CombatRoll wrote:

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And while looking for that next job, sign up for unemployment because its there for you in emergencies and you earned it because you paid into other folks all these years. You got fired so you are eligible. Its not just for women.

I will inquire – but in my state if you are fired I do not believe you are eligible. So, all these years I’ve been paying and I probably will not get s~~~.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

“When you are terminated for cause or misconduct, you may not be eligible for unemployment benefits. Misconduct includes; stealing, lying, failing a drug or alcohol test, falsifying records, deliberately violating company policy or rules, sexual harassment, and other serious actions related to your employment.”

Now here is the kicker. Technically, you were being harassed. I can make that argument. Hell, nothing stops you from filing sexual harassment complaint. Worked for the guy in that one movie.

In most states women handle the process and it is all online. If you do this, make sure to state harassment. Its true. The worst they will do is make you pay back those funds. So think of it as a low interest loan. Either way, its money in your pocket to get you from point A to point B in your life.

Also, I think it’s about time you use the GAY card or the WOMAN / transgender moniker. If you are an ugly man, you may be able to make it swing. You can change anytime. It’s just words anyways. They want you to use them so they can get more funds for their plight. Might as well.

In the meantime, how hard would it be for you to be an independent contractor doing this kind of work? If you KNOW you can do better. Might as well start. Nothing stops you but yourself.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22546]

CombatRoll wrote:

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

CombatRoll wrote:

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And while looking for that next job, sign up for unemployment because its there for you in emergencies and you earned it because you paid into other folks all these years. You got fired so you are eligible. Its not just for women.

I will inquire – but in my state if you are fired I do not believe you are eligible. So, all these years I’ve been paying and I probably will not get s~~~.

If you are let go, you should be eligible. if you quit and leave, you aren’t. Basically if you’re out of the job for reasons other than your own decision, you’re eligible. if you decide to leave your paying job and have nothing lined up, then you’re generally not.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Sorry to hear about your troubles – I can empathize to a much lessor extent.

While I escaped my divorce 5 years ago financially intact, I was rendered homeless for a period of time when I was kicked out of the house and Chad moved in.

I know what it’s like to scramble for access to cash and lodging while your dealing with a legal matter or job matter.

Focus on positive visualizations of the future. Enjoy your time off and health. Time is the most precious asset we have. If it means downsizing, while it would definitely suck, so be it.

I enjoy being my own man in whatever lifestyle I can afford. I honestly have no interest in dating now at almost 40. My turn has recently ended with the FWB/LTR relationship with the 22 year old. The sex was great and required no input. I now will focus on becoming more self actualized and when the urge strikes I will board a plane to Amsterdam.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

Eyeswideopen wrote:

Focus on positive visualizations of the future. Enjoy your time off and health. Time is the most precious asset we have. If it means downsizing, while it would definitely suck, so be it.

Wise words, for sure. I’m so stressed over not wanting to touch any retirement that I can’t really enjoy the free time right now. Maybe I’m still in shock, as its only been 5 days.

The thought of downsizing actually sounds great. I don’t need all this space and all the “stuff” I’ve accumulated over the years. I can’t think of a single thing that I “want”.

I’m heading to a buddy’s hunt cabin for a few days. That will help me unwind.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Take the time away to give you perspective.

After any life changing event, you don’t want to be reacting, you want to be analyzing. Take a month or two to make an accurate assessment of the situation.

I’ve recently started studying Stoicism – you might find it helpful. (Many good YouTube videos)

Also, while I’m not there yet, being almost 40, I’ve found that focusing on retirement exclusively can be problematic. While it would be awesome to sit back and hunt all day etc, being free and inwardly content is more important to me.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[WraithParticipant 242]

As for collecting unemployment, it can’t hurt to apply. The worst that could happen is they deny it.

All the best as you surmount this situation and rebuild.

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