Change after Children

[BeeParticipant 700]

Expectations are higher than reality. Parenthood I often difficult and not fun. Add to that the pressure to provide the perfect childhood, pay bills, maintain a household, keep a job and be a wife. It is a lot of pressure.

[Rolling Tin FistParticipant 484]

Mencken wrote:

Why would a woman change after children? Is this common?

As others have well written, there are whole books to help answer your question. One that I’d recommend is “The Mothers” by Robert Briffault.

But to save you time, since there are three volumes to it, I think, just Google, “Briffault’s Law”.

"Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another" - H. L. Mencken

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

Bee wrote:

Expectations are higher than reality. Parenthood I often difficult and not fun. Add to that the pressure to provide the perfect childhood, pay bills, maintain a household, keep a job and be a wife. It is a lot of pressure.

Those are women’s rationalizations for something that happens even to women who doesn’t work, have a nanny and even a butler.
In fact it’s the opposite: after being under pressure all the day, then affection, hugs, a massage, and even sex, before sleeping, would work fine against stress. She do not even have to do it, she have just to accept your hugs. But she do NOT accept your hugs. Because it’s her nature.

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Eric Lauder wrote:

Bee wrote:

Expectations are higher than reality. Parenthood I often difficult and not fun. Add to that the pressure to provide the perfect childhood, pay bills, maintain a household, keep a job and be a wife. It is a lot of pressure.

Those are women’s rationalizations for something that happens even to women who doesn’t work, have a nanny and even a butler.
In fact it’s the opposite: after being under pressure all the day, then affection, hugs, a massage, and even sex, before sleeping, would work fine against stress. She do not even have to do it, she have just to accept your hugs. But she do NOT accept your hugs. Because it’s her nature.

All the science shows the happiest women are those that have daily sex with long term partners. There is no question about this, we know the chemicals and the bonding mechanisms in place.

But Western women would rather deny themselves happiness BECAUSE it might actually give men some happiness. That’s just how they are.

You can not allow women to make their own decisions. They are children. They actively work against their own interests, just out of spite. If you care about women at all, then you have to take charge and lay down authority. This is why the architects of civilization all imposed rules on women and gave them roles and routines to follow. It was obviously not out of misogyny, it was out of love and wisdom. They knew full well women couldn’t hack it alone, and couldn’t work outside the home, and needed easy routines and busywork to do. So they gave women those things, and had a father and then a husband as an authority, hell, even a mother prefers to listen to her grown adult son and have him dictate the important matters, if her husband has already passed.

However modern society, feminism, that was made by men that hated women at a truly deep level, and then perpetuated by men that were too stupid to understand the immense harm they were and are doing to women as a whole. Women don’t know better, they repeat what they are taught, and all they hear is this blue pull cuckoldry all the time.

Unfortunately for women, the good men have lost their kindness as well. And now women are on their own. They have the worthless blue pill men to keep for company, and that’s it. There is no second chance for a woman. Her window is tiny, and that is another especially important reason why the wisdom of smarter and older men has to be applied lest women lose their one and only chance.

If I wasn’t a cold MGTOW, I would feel sorry for women. As it is, I don’t have any compassion or sympathy left. On some level I know they are too dumb to actually be responsible, but the disingenuous side of me will claim they are “equal” and “intelligent” enough to have known, so they deserve what they get.

[The DealParticipant 236]

I wish I had this site when I was young. My wife turned into an inconsolable crazy person who blamed me for everything after the kids came. The kids were healthy and well behaved and were not much trouble at all and she acted like it was the end of the world. Once she had enough of my DNA, she was done with me so she got the state to force me to continue giving her money. Women don’t love us for who we were are. They love us for our dna and our ability to work and fix stuff. Of course to a man that’s not love at all. If I could do it over, I would pay a surrogate. My kids are my favorite thing about this world. Paying a surrogate would be way cheaper and way less of a nightmare than marriage.

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[Anonymous 1]

Mencken wrote:

I was asking a friend at work if he misses life prior to being married. He recalled the time when he was in college and free but eventually grew bored of doing the same things. Than he resented how his wife changed after the first child. He told me after the first child, she was not the person he married. I could tell in his tone that this bothered him. This was profound to me.

Why would a woman change after children? Is this common? I did some searches and did not find much. My only theory is that her biological duty has been fulfilled and thus no longer values men as much? She knows her spouse is legally hooked now and can openly reveal her true form without fearing any consequences? I really don’t know.

After the children are born, they become priority number one, men usually do not know that, I do. I know that in a very UNLUCKILY future, whenever I have a kid, the woman will put him on the number one of priorities list and I will go down, I think this is more scientific than people think.

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