Can't be bothered (to date)

[WanderingMGTOWParticipant 288]

I have a much better time out and about without a women than with one.

So true. Change your mind about going to something or decide to leave something early because <any reason> no whining, no silent treatment, no huff/puff BS.

I really enjoy the drama free life.

And someone said texts. I bet I haven’t gotten 3 texts this week. So nice to leave my phone on the counter after work and forget where I left it!

[freedomParticipant 5129]

I think that the main difference between dating as a MGTOW and dating as Blue pill guy is that nowadays I just have this “take it or leave it” attitude, which in my surprise seems to work and not because I act like that for getting more dates, it’s because I am not their orbiter anymore.
So because I don’t invest much time in calling them nor do I make an effort choosing the place (I always pick the same place and I don’t care what the waitresses think of seeing me with a different lady each time), I don’t bother dating someone who lives more than 10 miles away because I don’t like driving. To cut things short, I’m being lazy when it comes to dating, I date whoever stands that “whatever” behavior of mine if one woman overthink, I just remove her number,

Give little effort
Delete number of women who overthink it
Don’t call them for any reason, other than scheduling

[Gravel PitParticipant]

WanderingMGTOW wrote:

I’d rather be out on my motorcycle, hanging with friends or just plain by myself, reading.

Two wheel therapy, two wheel thrills….it’s better than women in my experience

WanderingMGTOW wrote:

I also, re-entered sober life as that’s just the way I prefer to live.

Are you still sober now?

[MaverickParticipant 811]

MoreSky wrote:

Tried dating once after my divorce and it was disastrous. The stress, pressure and constant texting was insanity.

Yeah what’s up with this need for constant texting? I’ve noticed the same thing with women that I had just merely just started exchanging messages with on a dating site. She would have a “do nothing” job and would expect the guy to keep her entertained all day. And if I didn’t respond to her message right away, I’d find several messages waiting for me.

[MaverickParticipant 811]

Aposematic wrote:

No reluctant travelling.

Yeah what’s up with this obsession they have with traveling? Talked to a woman one day that wanted to see all 50 states and some countries in Europe. Asked her how many states she’s seen and the answer was 4. I was going to ask why the number was so low but no need to ask….she hasn’t found some sucker to pay for it yet.

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

Maverick wrote:

Yeah what’s up with this need for constant texting?

I think it’s their need for constant validation. They want someone to be telling them how wonderful they are 24/7/365 because they know they are really washed-out, post-wall hags with little or no worth beyond a place to park a dick.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[WanderingMGTOWParticipant 288]

Gravel Pit,

Gravel Pit wrote:

Are you still sober now?

I’m glad you propped my up my almost year old post. It was good to re-read it. I did end up drinking a bit throughout the past year, didn’t like it and shelved it. Though this was recent. Like women, the juice isn’t worth the squeeze for me.

[NoLongerBlindParticipant 530]

Good for you man…Ice them out! A relationship with a female is like shoveling snow in a blizzard! On line dating is like wading through a pool of floating bandaids or like looking for a piece of hay in a needle stack. There hypergamy is a fixed condition and they are incapable of being good friends or decent life partners. Without social media they simply do not exist. And they know it!!! Dating and relationships with them are temporary euphoria as they are not capable of healthy long term commitment. They “Love” you for completely different reasons than you “love” them…as if there capable of love. They are a bottomless pit of need and insecurity!

The Redpill strips the illusion away..it removes what we have been conditioned to believe in what makes us a man. That first light is blinding and painful…but later we see them clearly for what they are! Reframe them as children with daddy issues…it’s true!

Books like “The Predatory Female” by Lawrence Shannon” and “The Manipulated Man” by Esther Vilar are must reads!

I hope this helps…congratulations on your journey!

[Gravel PitParticipant]

NoLongerBlind wrote:

Ice them out! A relationship with a female is like shoveling snow in a blizzard! On line dating is like wading through a pool of floating bandaids or like looking for a piece of hay in a needle stack. There hypergamy is a fixed condition and they are incapable of being good friends or decent life partners. Without social media they simply do not exist. And they know it!!! Dating and relationships with them are temporary euphoria as they are not capable of healthy long term commitment. They “Love” you for completely different reasons than you “love” them…as if there capable of love. They are a bottomless pit of need and insecurity!

The Redpill strips the illusion away..it removes what we have been conditioned to believe in what makes us a man. That first light is blinding and painful…but later we see them clearly for what they are! Reframe them as children with daddy issues…it’s true!

I love coming here to read stuff like this because this is why we are here. I learned this stuff 5 years ago at age 27. I didn’t learn it all at once. It took a lot of re-listening to this: (Stardusk Compilation) This stuff, Im certain of it, saved me from prison and or child support, I gurantee it, it probably saved me from drinking again and suicide as well because women will drive you to it.

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