Called Out as MGTOW

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

EscapedMentalPatient wrote:

Those who are not relevant to the endeavour have absolutely no business engaging themselves in the affairs of such a place, yet they feel so insecure that they must invade someone else’s space in order to validate their own beliefs.

It does imply a certain combination of obsession and lack of internal guidance, I have to say. You won’t see me, for example, hanging out on the kotex.com “Sudden Wetness Chatroom” trying to figure out how females feel about getting their periods. I know everything I need to know about females by intuition, experience and direct observation… and if I do have a question I can’t figure out on my own, I’ll go find one and ask her.

As I have said more than once to this very female, I think of life like a bike race… I’ll know I’m out in front when I am no longer staring at the asses and eating the dirt of my so-called competitors.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

We had been discussing another man we both know who was making some tragic white knighting moves and she said “he needs to have a good conversation with a MGTOW” and I said “I could do that.” I knew already that she’s a world traveler and a prepper who is open minded and self reliant so it was no surprise that she has a positive opinion of MGTOW. I just didn’t know she had been following my writing here.

Its really late where Im at, Im tired, and didnt read all of the posts, so forgive me if I missed something, but:

Is the above quote what your basing she knows your on MGTOW off of? Did she explicitly call you out in no uncertain terms?

I never worry about someone I dont want to find out about this site, because the phenomenon is quite rare, and not main stream at all. The only thing I have considered is information brokers selling off background checks to potential employers, etc. But that is more common with cell phone apps, and not a forum like this, so it doesnt concern me much at all.

Based on what Ive read so far in this thread, I dont see how you reached the conclusion that she outed you on this forum. If you believe she had, I don’t think you would have made this thread which would be proof.

Let me know if Im missing something.

Resident cynic.

[dciParticipant 1]

Officially i’ m living after the “feminine imperativ”:

 

Why are you single? “Because i didnt found the real love i was searching for”, “becaue i’m shy”, “my last girlfriend left me for another man”

 

dont tell everbody the truth only your best friends, and only when they are ready. The feminine imperativ is powerful and women willl turn it agains you.

Mgtow is a big danger for women. What when millions of men are going mgtow? Women had to work for themselves. Oh s~~~.

And women cant get a food in the door, because of mgtows nature. They dont have the chance to reframe it or to shame men, who already dont care about them.

Very dangerous. One day mgtow will be “hate speech” only to try to ban it.  What they are doing with your money, they will do with your free will.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

Is the above quote what your basing she knows your on MGTOW off of? Did she explicitly call you out in no uncertain terms?

She specifically referenced a posting I had made about not being interested in committing to a relationship and para quoted a line from the post itself then said that she had been following my posts since she ID’d me on the site soon after we met.

Why, after reading my post about not wanting a relationship, she would suggest a MGTOW have a talk with a guy she is wanting to get into a serious relationship with is beyond me… but there it is.

So yes, it was a call out, not just a “feeling” I had.

[Anonymous 5]

Not yet. I am sure it will happen, but I really don’t care. I have nothing to hide.

[AshcroftParticipant 59]

OK, so since this topic of speaking openly about my honest opinions about women or leaving it, came up here, I see that it is rather divided.

About 3/5 say they keep it to themselves and the other 2/5 speak openly and loudly about it or to some chosen friends. I would like to be interested in a survey that depicts the attitude in that and the long term outcome with that attitude as I am trying to figure this out myself right now.

 

Sorry for speeling or gramatical mishaps. It is not my first language and it has been ages since I learned it in school.

[mgtow_85Participant 752]

I don’t know anyone who even knows that this site exists. My family know that I’m nearly 30(this Saturday) and with no interest in marriage, but I never mentioned “MGTOW” to them so they can’t Google it later out of curiosity and then realize who I really am. I guess I’m just lucky.

[TheRev.Participant 0]

I too lived in SFO.

I too thought the gay guys should stay away from the straight women.

Women will use men in any way they can and do not care how they treat them.

I would say that gay men spending time with straight women will get what deserve.

[freedriv082000Participant 1]

Not sure if this is exactly “on topic” but I think that I have been MGTOW for some years without knowing it.

Let us just say that I am “over 21”. I chased after the opposite sex for many years. If you are a seller or retailer of chocolates, flowers , bottles of perfume etc… in the UK, well you will have made plenty of profits from myself over the years.

Then, maybe five years ago, I stepped back and took stock of my situation.

Whilst I may not be “Mr Perfect” the various ladies that I chased were either awkward or just not what I wanted. I would have been just a wallet. I would have paid for things but my presence beyond this would have been superfluous and “excess to requirements”.

Equally, I have paid off my mortgage, car loan and other debts. Once I have paid for my essentials, any disposable income that I have is mine. So I have really enjoyed these last few years. My hobbies have been indulged and enjoyed (photography especially).

Marriage would mean starting a mortgage again (plus other bills) and  my hobbies would go out of the window.

My not finding a wife could be viewed as a failure on my part. But when I look back on my life I think that this has been a blessing.

Several friends and colleagues have now gone through either very rough patches in their relationships or divorce or both. All of these guys have said that I should avoid marriage.

Of the guys I know with children, many would say that the best thing in their lives was to have children, but that they would have done this with a different woman if they had their time again.

I have tried online dating , but I found a few illegal immigrants and some unsuitable women. No women that were anywhere near being my  “Soul Mate”.

The fact is , these last five or six years, in which I have been an MGTOW without having ever heard of the term, have been some of the happiest times of my life.

Why would I want to spoil this by marrying or getting involved in a relationship ??

Many thanks

freedriv082000

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