Called Out as MGTOW

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

So a female friend of mine who I dated briefly a few months ago called me out this evening as a MGTOW. Apparently she was reading this forum since before I joined and made me immediately. While I’m not going to say she’s a NAWALT, she’s probably one of the least feminist gynocentric females I’ve met and I’ve freely shared my perspective about make female relationships with her IRL on a number of occasions.

And of course, now I know she knows everything I’ve written here.

So have you guys ever been called ID’d publicly by someone you know?

[RebaneParticipant 215]

I’m trying to keep it stealthy. I don’t trust anyone. My avatar here has no resemblance to my person. I don’t mention any names , crucial details or locations in the forums. I can speak freely when remaining incognito.

I live in a very small country, it’s quite likely that someone i know is reading this forum and my posts. I don’t need the rumor mill. I’m going my own way so i want to be at peace.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Really. Did she give you any grief? Were others around? Was it ugly? Did she smile like she’s going to hold you hostage now?

That would only be a problem if there was any shame in it. There isn’t.

You’re actually extremely eloquent and very well put together. We live in a world where fresh air is “misogyny”. Women are going to have a problem with any man who says even the TAMEST stuff like: “Pay for her?? I refuse to treat women like prostitutes”. Say that out loud to a female IRL who expects a man to buy her dinner, and she will react like you just said something *controversial*. But she can’t nail you on it. That will even bother her more.

I have never been tagged with the 5 letters, per se, but one of my license plates has “MGTOW” on it in subtle combination with other characters. So If I ever come out of a restaurant or coffee shop and the car is all keyed up and dented, then I will know. I will post here with an update.

You didn’t mention the gist of the conversation or the outcome. Curious about that.

Did she say something like “I shall not be speaking to you anymore?”. A ex girlfriend of mine did that, when I totally MGTOW-ed her in an email. She wanted to get together for an afternoon while her husband was at work, and I told her my name is not “Justin Case”. I wouldn’t entertain her because she was unhappy as a wife and mother. “Bed. Made. Lie”. I thought she was going to kill me the next time we saw each other. But the next time I DID bump into her in a social setting, she ran and hid as far from me as possible.

A MGTOW mindset has only brought about good things.
I often wonder how wonderful things would be if I were MORE open about it.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[foolsgoldParticipant 5664]

I was made by a relative not long ago. He said he had suspicions it was me for a while. He said the giveaway was when I mentioned my athletic accomplishments from many years ago. He came up to me recently and called me foolsgold. He was very confident when he said it. He also said he wasn’t going to share it with anyone because he was considering joining. The more the merrier.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Keymaster wrote:

Really. Did she give you any grief? Were others around? Was it ugly? Did she smile like she’s going to hold you hostage now? You’re actually extremely eloquent and very well put together. You didn’t mention the gist of the conversation or the outcome. Curious about that.

Thank you, whatever anger and resentment I may have felt about having to let go of my illusions, I’ve tried to keep my statements clean and positive and only put down what I feel I can stand behind.

We had been discussing another man we both know who was making some tragic white knighting moves and she said “he needs to have a good conversation with a MGTOW” and I said “I could do that.” I knew already that she’s a world traveler and a prepper who is open minded and self reliant so it was no surprise that she has a positive opinion of MGTOW. I just didn’t know she had been following my writing here.

Now I have to go back and see what exactly it was I said about smelling my own farts!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Stargazer wrote:

she has a positive opinion of MGTOW.

She has good taste, then.

Stargazer wrote:

I just didn’t know she had been following my writing here.

Oh? Well she’s not the only one. Your thread “I don’t care about your baby” is like the number one visited thread in the forums. Easily in the top 3 (with non-registered visitors) It’s like someone on Facebook shared it or something. We don’t know where it was shared or distributed but it gets read quite a lot.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Keymaster wrote:

Oh? Well she’s not the only one. Your thread “I don’t care about your baby” is like the number one visited thread in the forums. Easily in the top 3 (with non-registered visitors) It’s like someone on Facebook shared it or something. We don’t know where it was shared or distributed but it gets read quite a lot.

Thank you, I got a huge laugh out of that! I’m glad to see my words are making an impression on someone. I may have to make myself a t-shirt!

[RoyDalParticipant]

I want one of those tee shirts! “I DON’T CARE ABOUT YOUR BABY” has nice ring to it.

BTW, I’ve had women stick their baby in my arms like they were passing around a toy or something — and I was practically a stranger. Don’t they have any sense at all?

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Just MikeParticipant 393]

I like kids and babies, they’re the least full of s~~~ people out there as long as they’re under a certain age and haven’t learnt s~~~ty adult behaviours. I consider not having any kids but still knowing how to hold a baby like a pro a big s~~~ up the tailpipe of militant feminists/alimony-hoarding c~~~s who think we’re all f~~~ing useless with children.

I’ve never got the stealthing and don’t give a f~~~ about what other people think. We make our own opinions, so does everyone else, it’s a right everyone has. They have an issue they can call it out (though I disagree with the terming because ‘called out’ invokes a sense of shaming), bring it up, whatever. It’s not going to make a difference to the way I live my life, or make me censor my views in *any* company.

 

Society: I refuse your stick and carrot. If you try to beat or shame me you'd better take me down first time. If I want smoke blown up my ass I'll buy a cigar and a length of hose.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

I like kids. LOVE them actually. And they love me. I was coach and teacher of kids ages 6-18 for almost 5 years. My nieces keep asking when I am coming for a visit. The last time I told them a story, the oldest one laughed so hard she fell to the ground and p~~~ed her pants.

I love kids so much… that’s why I DON’T have any.

I agree with Nicolas Cage in “The Rock”. Sometimes I seriously think bringing kids into the world the way some people do is coldly considering an act of cruelty. Some parents feed a child deep fried French Toast and Orange Fanta for breakfast. That’s just about the next worst thing. They throw a Wii remote into a child’s hand instead of a violin. They send them off to watch TV instead of making them sit at the table with everyone. Justin Bieber birthday parties for 5 year olds?? Beauty pageants for fat little Suzies instead of ballet lessons or gymnastics. And the way the legal system systematically separates them from their fathers? Forget that s~~~.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[This is the lifeParticipant 13]

I teach Autistic High School kids. I love them. (My daughter is also Autistic and the reason I changed from PE to Special Ed). What I love about them is that they do not judge people through emotions or unjustified reasons. They have a “SO CALLED” lack of social skills..But I see it as the opposite. They don’t judge, or scheme or manipulate. They call things how they see it and have such a pure heart. They keep me grounded and I can see clearly and can assess what c~~~s are really like.

BTW, I have tried once to throw out some MGTOW after a few vodkas within female ear shot at my mates bbq and learnt my lesson very quickly. And I dont dare sprook it at my workplace as a teacher. Doc Fenderson… Thanks for the post. It’s worked out ok she is somewhat understanding and that you make very valid points.

It’s so tempting to want to talk what is so passionate in your heart. I hope I can bite my tongue and spill my thoughts only on this forum.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

I did make a subtle hint once, however it completely went over the dumb bitches head, I couldn’t help but just laugh and move on. I’m pretty secretive when it comes to MGTOW, I treat it like Fight Club. We don’t talk about it, if you’re in the club then yeah we’ll talk about it 9 ways till Sunday. But if you’re a female, f~~~ you and horse you rode it on.

 

Do I ask what you talk about with your friends when all of you go to the bathroom like huddled chickens?,

 

Do i ask what you and your hairstylist  talk about?

 

My answer would be “huh?, what?”

Female : “are you one of those MGTOW?”

Me: “I have no idea what you’re talking about”

Female : “I saw the threads you posted!, you follow that crap?”

Me : “I’m drawing a blank here…..sorry”

 

Female: “why can’t you just tell me”

 

Me: “uhh, cause f~~~ you that’s why”

 

 

 

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

RoyDal: I’m about to do a short run of some new t-shirts… I’ll see if I can come up with a nice design for that 🙂

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Your female friend can learn a lot. Feminism is full of holes when it comes to credibility. Sure there are some truths like patriarchy, even with that comes responsibilities that women refuse to accept. That’s why MGTOW consider women are like children.
I will be glad wear to a MGTOW cap and sometimes t shirt without fearing for my life.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[Anonymous 42]

Stargazer wrote:

I may have to make myself a t-shirt!

You gotta see the tee’s my brother just ordered B.C.F.C. militia, the unexpected and unauthorized reserve regiment, I’ll wear that in public, in fact my bro is wearing one to court where he was unfairly oppressed by the oppressors.

F~~~ yea! people around here and in my family know I’m hard core MGTOW all the way! I think nothing of telling officials to “f~~~ off” to “CEASE AND DESIST!”, I rewired some of my introvertness to lightning strength extroverntness! But only when officials “TREAD ON MY RIGHTS!”

People know where I live, it’s no secret, I’m not ashamed of being condemned, nor am I ashamed of MGTOW!

I’m still having bumper stickers made up for you guys that want one, I’ll be the first to display it, right next to my cracked and aging B.C.F.C. bumper sticker! If someone won’t swallow the truth, then it’s time to shove it up their ass, either way, it’s up to them! Oral or Anal, I don’t care, but the truth NEVER goes back in the blue-pill-box.

[Darth SinParticipant 576]

Being a MGTOW is something I keep very secretive. If anyone who I consider to be a non-MGTOW in real life gets a whiff that I am a MGTOW, I change my email address.

The reality is that the world hates a free man. Women hate a free man because they can neither shame him nor exploit him. Governments hate a free man because he will be paying less taxes and will not be supporting their policies. Cults and religions hate a free man because a free man can think for himself and subsequently know to not be part of these things. Other men hate a free man out of jealously and spite.

I treat MGTOW as I treat atheism. I am one and have been one for a few years now. For those of you in the West, being an atheist is a considered a norm these days so that is not a problem. But if you are in Southeast Asia and people find out that you are an atheist who is not fond of religion, you’re pretty much f~~~ed. My parents would disown me. My acquaintances would think that I am a freak of some sort. So will the university that I study in right now.

So what I do is that I present the image of a man who is jaded with the concept of God. If people ask me about God, I say that I don’t think about it because I doubt God cares about me or about the world. If they become sympathetic and pray for me, and some of them do, I just let them do it.

With MGTOW, I present the image of a man who is married to his work and who is awkward with girls. If someone asks me about romantic relationships with some woman, I quote Batman from Justice League: “I don’t have time to pursue a relationship. My work is too important to allow other distractions. Woman X is a remarkable woman and she’s a valued friend.” Over time people stop asking.

[EscapedMentalPatientParticipant 1489]

I was sorry to read of this, Doc.

Regardless of the reaction of those who would call you out, such a thing can certainly feel like a violation of privacy, I think.

Especially since this is a place for those of a chosen path to voice individual opinion, freedoms and the like.  It p~~~es me off that the entire premise of the place is written all over the site at nearly every turn, only to be ignored:

“This is a place for men, and particularly a place for MGTOW’s“.  Those who are not relevant to the endeavour have absolutely no business engaging themselves in the affairs of such a place, yet they feel so insecure that they must invade someone else’s space in order to validate their own beliefs.  You don’t see us joining feminist forums and the like to undermine and sabotage their exercises.  We’re busy living our lives, and living our creed, while harming no one.  We are NOT meddling in the constructs of others.  Their nosiness and actions can only give rise to greater resentment, in my opinion.

They are asked not to join, and if they do so, they are then quite obviously expected not to post or express their views on such things: they’ve got the opportunity to spend their time and effort elsewhere in about 6 billion other places on the Internet.  And yet, they still have to try to horn in on a space which clearly hasn’t been provided for them and then try to undermine the emotions, feelings, and very valid experiences of a group of individuals who’ve experienced things which have led to the very premise of this place.

I sometimes wonder whatever happened to “Mind your own f~~~ing business”, or “Go get a f~~~ing hobby”.

It’s sad to me Doc, and I hope it’s not of any real detriment to you, brother.

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

I keep it to myself. But everyone that really knows my story knows that I’m done with  women and relationships.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[SpiderParticipant 5]

Honesty is what MGTOW is about. I’ve explained to my girl what MGTOW is and whenever she does a typical female thing, I call her on it, MGTOW style. It’s great being free.

[Canadian SportsFanParticipant 216]

One colleague knows who I am, but he’s trustworthy.

A couple posters who crosspost to other boards also may know, but nobody who could damage me.

 

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