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SOLI2DE 11 months, 1 week ago.
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Just never speak to her again. Disappear for a 2 week holiday, change your mobile number and landline and ghost.
Whatever is coming out of her mouth is a lie. She will never forgive you for this break up even if you get back with her, and she will be plotting how to get her revenge either way.
Forget her feelings. Make yourself number 1.
DISAPPEAR and NEVER SPEAK TO HER AGAIN.
There are several ways to break a manipulator.
One way is to call them on their bulls~~~;
Tell her “I know your tears are fake, I know you don’t give a f~~~, you just angry that I can see the tricks, crying, name calling, anger, you will change a million times, do you selft a favor a cut the crap, we both know you probably have some guy in the back burner, Soo f~~~ off and leave me alone”
To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.
Just never speak to her again. Disappear for a 2 week holiday, change your mobile number and landline and ghost.
Whatever is coming out of her mouth is a lie. She will never forgive you for this break up even if you get back with her, and she will be plotting how to get her revenge either way.
Forget her feelings. Make yourself number 1.
DISAPPEAR and NEVER SPEAK TO HER AGAIN.
Thissss
To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.
Now she’s pummeling me with “Why? Why? Why? Why? Why?” I already told her several times why…
Just email her this song then go monk.
http://www.leavemeansleave.eu
Welcome, Liberum! The best policy is to avoid all contact with her. Continuing to communicate does nothing but continue your grief. Maybe I didn’t read this thread and your intro close enough, but if you’re not living together, cutting the cord should be reasonably easy to do. Consider this a lesson in why gyow can be such a great thing.
We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham
Hello. She’s pulling out the “please” and the tears.
Page 1 of the script.
She’s name calling… negotiating… guilt tripping…
Page 2 of the script.
And I think she actually believes she is going to stop me from doing this…
Of course she does. She cannot conceive of a situation in which she doesn’t get what she thinks she is entitled to.
Now she’s pummeling me with “Why? Why? Why? Why? Why?” I already told her several times why…
She sees you as an employee, so in her mind you have to justify yourself to her.
Except you don’t.
I think she’s going to threaten suicide… I hope not…
Not your problem.
Take note of what JoeTech and Duke Togo have posted – she will now hate your guts, so look to your personal safety.
I really appreciate everyone who posted here. To be fair, I do not think this woman is a bad person… but I don’t want this relationship, and I refuse to be controlled by her.
A c~~~ told me once, “I can’t imagine loving somebody more than myself.”
She got herself a beta wallet, she is a mother of 2, with different daddies.
Eventually they reveal their true colors.
Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.
She’s name calling… negotiating… guilt tripping… And I think she actually believes she is going to stop me from doing this…
I think she’s going to threaten suicide… I hope not…
BTW, welcome to the forums, Liberium!
It seems you have a classic case of Borderline Personality Disordered Woman on your back.
As they say:
“You don’t end a relationship with a borderline, you survive one”
That all by itself is technical advice to get out and be careful about what you do and how you do it.
Here is some advice:
I am sure you’ll find your own “line of suffering” in these stories.
Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) – Dangerous Personalities by Joe Navarro
Now she’s pummeling me with “Why? Why? Why? Why? Why?” I already told her several times why…
Yes borderlines drive you crazy by going around in circles and you can never reach an agreement or peace with them.
Have a taste of female standoffs – but you probably already know how it is.
There is no healing or therapy available to cure borderline c~~~s.
Just leave. That is not only our MGTOW point of view but also recommended by professional therapists.
24000 members and growing + my take on the number of forum lurkers we have
In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim
BTW:
Most of the YouTube videos in my thread are gone because the female CEO doesn’t want the male slaves to see the reality of female nature.
Since c~~~ standoff videos are out in public, any and every man can openly see that it is not his fault if his woman behaves like that and this could break the gynocentric and blue pill belief system men are supposed to have.
We MGTOW know the truth about female nature and the female supremacy will be gone once we grow.
Taking down our video content will only delay the process but fuel it in the end.
All men must and will one day wake up and see that the way YouTube is censoring the truth is identical to the way the lies were sold to us about women since our birth.
We grew up with female censorship…
In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim
I really appreciate everyone who posted here. To be fair, I do not think this woman is a bad person… but I don’t want this relationship, and I refuse to be controlled by her.
BPD’s are very nice comrades and can get very close to you…
Only to “switch” on you in seconds notice and rip your heart out.
80 per cent of women are estimated to have this with more or less NPD (Narcissistic Personality disorder) mixed in between.
That’s why MGTOW exists in the first place. These c~~~s cultivated it.
Borderline is a new word for “character pig”.
Here is a great YouTube channel for you:
“CNXG CrazyNarcissistXGirlfriend”
This man is also on his journey to come to terms with what his relations~~~ with a BPD put him through…
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYgyEwnHfKOnRNSfuf8n89A
In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim
Hello. I’m in the middle of breaking up with her, and I need to call in the reinforcements. She’s pulling out the “please” and the tears. Someone please remind me why I am doing this.
Why are you talking to her?
Why is she still able to contact you?
Why haven’t you blocked her numbers?
Why do you listen to her messages?
Why do you read her texts?
Why do you still care?You don’t need reinforcements. What you need is to pull your head out of your ass. The relationship is over therefore any communication between you two is over.
Stop being polite. Stop being kind. Stop talking to her. Problem solved.
Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.
N1 advice above all: PREPARE PAPERS. EVERYTNING YOU CAN AND CANNOT SHOULD BE DOCUMENTED IN A SAFE PLACE.
Prepare your relatives, friend, POLICE that she WILL LIE BIG TIME.Suicide threats are, as far as I remember, might be enough reason to convince authorities that person unstable, cannot be trusted and all her statements are suspicious at best. Tell them she threatened she’ll falsely accuse you of rape, etc.
Remember: THE MORE PAPER, THE CLEANER YOUR ASS WILL BE 😉
Also keep in mind insurance companies as a rule DO NOT compensate damages from scenarios like this…
Women are s~~~ty logical thinkers. Just create all conditions you can so she can tangle in her own lies, trip and fall to misery.
Marriage is the tomb of love (c)Giacomo Casanova
Go to an ATM and withdraw as much cash as you can.
Fill up your gas tank.
Get your passport.
Head south of the border and disappear.
A woman will never forgive or forget, but Mexico will!
Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.
Here’s a challenge for you. Repeat after me:
I do not owe a relationship to any person. I am free to abandon any relationship I choose, anytime I choose, for any reason I choose, or… for no reason at all, just because I feel like it. How I feel is THAT important.
These are the rules by which women have operated for eons. If you are finding any difficulty accepting these rules for yourself, and behaving accordingly, tell me why. Why are they perfectly acceptable and universally practiced by women, but not by you? As I read back over what you’ve written here, I see a lot more about how she feels and what she wants than I do about what you feel and what you want.
Why is that?
If you are having trouble locating the source of difficulty that you are having accepting and acting on these rules, here’s a hint: right now, at this moment, it’s just you, me and her in your head. You can have two guesses, but you only need one.
And by the way, the reason she continues to ask ‘why’ and resist what you’ve told her… is that she does not respect you enough to allow you to make a major decision about your own life based on what YOU decide is in your own best interest. She may have appeared to respect you at some point. But like most women, any respect for a man disappears like a fart in a hurricane the moment it interferes with something she wants.
I wonder if that lack of respect doesn’t have something to do with why you are breaking up with her…? At some level, all men require it. And all western women lack the ability to do it. Most couldn’t even describe what it is. When her coping mechanism for this loss progresses from denial to bargaining to anger, you are going to get a much clearer view of that lack of respect, and what it means.
Pay attention to the warnings above…
Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you
I know this thread is done, but here’s a few tips:
First off, if you’re going to have a relationship, never tell her you love her. That’s the key word she’s listening for to know she’s got you hooked. Never give that to her. Tell her it’s not something that should be forced and not something you control. When it’s time to end the relationship, tell her your just not falling in love with her. It’s an emotional reason that she just cannot question. You just don’t see it happening. It should kill about 90% of her manipulation to keep you around.
Second word of advice is that when you break up with her, let her cry a little. It’s natural and you probably don’t like seeing her feel that way, but it is what it is.. However, you draw the line in her trying to tell you how you’re supposed to feel. And she is certainly not allowed to call you names or be angry at you. That means the breakup conversation is over, the second she shifts to this tactic. Either you leave, or she leaves immediately. It’s not an negotiation. You’re done.
And regardless of how the break up goes down, you don’t communicate with her anymore.
Ok. Then do it.
As much as it sucks to say this( I have been down this road and it was NOT a pleasant trip), best thing to do is GO NO CONTACT. She has been jerking your chain , trying to put everything on YOU and
get you to go back to the plantation. My ex thought she was a master at it, but I bumped into one of her previous guys and we had a very informative chat.You will have to block her emails, texts and NEVER accept a phone call from her. Your friends and family will be her next targets for intel, so ask them NOT to give her any info about you. Social media will be a good place to start a little misinformtion, to get her looking someplace else for you.
It will be a little uncomfortable for a while, but you will get some peace and your freedom back if you STICK WITH IT. Best of luck, brother. We are here for you.
You CANNOT negotiate with crazy! Their thought process cannot handle logic and reason. They counter with dysfunction and hormonal thinking. best not to let them get that close.
Anonymous12Lol…
“he is not allowed to leave me. I will leave HIM instead – i just need this sucker to stay attached long enough to surprise-kick his ass in the trash”Come on now… Don’ t be a fool.
There was a life before her, there was a life with her, now there is a life after her.
make sure it remains your life.
Yours.sounds like my ex
just go NO CONTACT like Old Bill said. he had to tell me that too. I finally listened to him but dont make my mistake – LISTEN TO HIM NOW
No Contact… Log it if need be. Try to beat your score.
I hover at around 21 days, but we have kids together so…Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.
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