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Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) – Dangerous Personalities by Joe Navarro
I came across this video gem while browsing YouTube.
It is a very valuable resource in understanding why today’s women are all nuts.
And since way over 80 percent of them more or less have these personality traits – you can easily recognize most of your experiences with women in this video.
It makes it easier to cope with shaming language and feelings of guilt these women are giving their men.
Borderlines drive men into suicide and I hope to save one brother tonight who happens to watch this…
I wish I had seen this video 40 years ago when I was a kid.
I recognize my middle sister in every aspect and knowing that “she is the problem, not me” would have saved me a lot of grief back then.
But she “violently” programmed me to become allergic to these personality traits in women and by staying away from them, she saved me from the plantation.
All women have that – especially if you look at the various forms of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) that overlap or add to BPD.
The video explains that AWALT – without calling it that way.
Almost everything we MGTOW write about women is to be found in this video.
The reason why wise men say:
“You don’t end a relationship with a borderline, you survive one”
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I married one and had 4 kids with her. The tragic truth is that men know nothing about this metal illness from the center of hell until after they have been trapped by the woman and are forced to live in it.
You are right, every young guy needs to be fully familiar with the manifestations of BPD and be able to recognize the early red flags, one of which is that she will mirror and idealize you beyond anything you’ve experienced. The sex will be incredible and she will make you feel like you have finally found the woman of your dreams. That’s the bait and it is nearly irresistible because BPD women very often are highly sexualized and physically attractive…in the beginning that is.
“You don’t end a relationship with a borderline, you survive one”
I know men whom made the mistake of dating women with BPD. These men were lucking the psycho women were to stupid to use the system to really work the men over.
To give you an idea how insane these psycho women are, the women dumped the men to play the victim card and they stalked the men for years. They did their best to ruin any relationships the men had with other women, while at the same time these psycho women rode the c~~~ carousel long and hard, while conning men out of resources at every turn. Though, these psycho women crashed through the wall very early in age.
Do not date crazy. Since most modern women are crazy all the time, it is not worth dating.
Anonymous43raises hand…survivor here
I don’t think it ever ends, until one of us is in the ground.
Thanks to the one phone call.She called the cops on me accusing me of trashing her garden and throwing her patio furniture around while I was on a bike and camp tour in Utah with 20 other people. F~~~ing insane in the membrane.
raises hand…survivor here
I don’t think it ever ends, until one of us is in the ground.
Thanks to the one phone call.She called the cops on me accusing me of trashing her garden and throwing her patio furniture around while I was on a bike and camp tour in Utah with 20 other people. F~~~ing insane in the membrane.
Did your alibi help?
She called the cops on me accusing me of trashing her garden and throwing her patio furniture around while I was on a bike and camp tour in Utah with 20 other people. F~~~ing insane in the membrane.
The 5th time mine called the cops to the house claiming DV I was lucky a couple of my sons were older and could verify that nothing happened. The in the house with me cop told me she was on the porch going nuclear, insisting that I be arrested. It took him a while to figure it out and he told me I was l very lucky an older experienced cop like him responded to the call. Otherwise, he said, I would have been in cuffs.
Then he told me something I’ll never forget. There are only 3 options available based on his extensive experience.
1. She gets into psychiatric treatment and sticks with it
2. Divorce
3. The next time she calls, since I wasn’t going to jail this time, will be after she hits herself in the head with a frying pan or something and blames the injuries on me. Then I will be in a world of s–t because the entire system will believe her instead me.If a guy catches even the slightest whiff of BPD coming offf a woman, he should run like an ape with its hair on fire.
Just assume that every woman you meet either has BPD or her kids do. When I look at my retired friends and I hear the stories of how their kids have moved back in with them, often with small children in tow, I’m glad that effectively I have no kids. My handicapped daughter will live with her mother for the rest of mom’s life. After that, her half sister will take over. That’s fine with me. Women are just a liability these days.
"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."
raises hand…survivor here
I was thinking about your special snowflake when I posted this.
We need to get these stories out there!
I grew up with so much guilt on my mind that I always wondered why I am still breathing.
Woman make you sick and they do cause psychosomatic illnesses in you.
Until I found total indifference and threw everything out that women said to me. But the first 13 years of my life were pure c~~~ hell.
And I learned to do – and become – exactly the opposite of what women expected of me.
Feminism has turned every woman into a BPD in one way or another.
That’s why today, all men are suffering and MGTOW grows on an hourly base.
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It’s called woman disorder. AWALT
Don't care
If a guy catches even the slightest whiff of BPD coming offf a woman, he should run like an ape with its hair on fire.
Show me ONE that is without ONE single BPD red flag!
Feminism and TV has made “crazy” the “reference chick” that all others have to follow and choose as a role model in order to “belong to the pack”. (The hive mind)
Maybe a total “wallflower”, hating her own gender is the only type of woman left that you can get along with. I know a few of these and they even approve of what I write and say.
These are woman that had to deal with other women “too much” – whether it was on the job or as a self-employed entrepreneur.
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Parts 1 though 3: The Impossible Connection: Loving Someone w/ Borderline Personality Disorder. See Warning… (trigger warning LOL.)
by Ross Rosenberg
WARNING: this video was not meant to be a resource for those who have Borderline Personality Disorder(BPD), which is a very unfortunate psychological disorder. The video was created as a resource to victims of abuse, past and present, from people diagnosed with BPD. I do not believe that people with BPD are all the same, and are equally abusive. I do know that they hurt the people that they love. Some of them hurt these people very badly.
This video is NOT a resource for people suffering with BPD. In fact, it will surely aggravate their condition. Although I believe I know a great deal about the disorder, I am neither a specialist nor an expert in the treatment of it. My skill set is with people who I refer to as “Self-Love Deficients” (codependents) who have Self-Love Deficit Disorder (codependency).
>>> Meant for beaten down “partners” aka men.
The Paradox of Love & Hate: Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder – BPD Relationship Expert
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Gargamel, during the years with my wife before I finally learned what was going on, I thought her problem was that she was simply hyper feminized. I mean, I thought it was just normal female traits that often went beyond her ability to control that was underneath the craziness. That was naive and is the entire reason I stayed in it (secondary to protecting the kids, of course).
The truth is that BPD women are borderline psychotic. They also have a particularly cruel form of psychopathy that is directed especially against anybody who gets to close to them. They really are not women on steroids, so to speak. They are monsters trapped in their own form of living hell from which they cannot escape. Their only temporary relief is to pour that living hell out onto the person who is closest to them, who they intend to destroy.
I am not angry about mine anymore despite everything she did. I actually pity her more than any person I’ve known. That attitude helps with the unavoidable PTSD that a person who has lived intimately with a BPD will suffer from.
btw, I am not trying to take over this excellent thread you started. I just think I have something useful to contribute to, like you said, potentially saving another guy from suicide. That’s a very real possibility when dealing with BPD. Heck, even many psychologists refuse to treat BPDs because they themselves need so much counseling after the experience.
I got red-pilled on it all, and it probably saved my life or my freedom, after stumbling upon this site: https://bpdfamily.com/
I highly recommend it.btw, I am not trying to take over this excellent thread you started. I just think I have something useful to contribute to, like you said, potentially saving another guy from suicide. That’s a very real possibility when dealing with BPD.
Your input and that of others is the reason why I started this thread.
We need all stories to see the light of day.
I am not angry about mine anymore despite everything she did. I actually pity her more than any person I’ve known. That attitude helps with the unavoidable PTSD that a person who has lived intimately with a BPD will suffer from.
All women you see nowadays are miserable. You can pity them but don’t get run over. Stay at a distance. Don’t become their emotional toilet, they will drag you into it and pull the water lever.
The truth is that BPD women are borderline psychotic. They also have a particularly cruel form of psychopathy that is directed especially against anybody who gets to close to them.
I just posted a video by Ross Rosenberg in which he explains the causes of BPD…
Raising children by using the TV as babysitter, ignoring children 24/7 because the “c~~~ carousel communication link” or hive meetings are more important… Having the child witness all fights will serve as “neglect” and will lead to traumatization even in wealthy households with “outside status”.
Today, girls are raised as demanding bitches and traumatized by being involved in all kinds of adult matters. They see things that are not meant for children… Early slut programming.
They know how to f~~~ before knowing the alphabet.
Now we have the result of what social scientist were expecting to happen since the 1960’s.
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Gargamel, during the years with my wife before I finally learned what was going on, I thought her problem was that she was simply hyper feminized. I mean, I thought it was just normal female traits that often went beyond her ability to control that was underneath the craziness. That was naive and is the entire reason I stayed in it (secondary to protecting the kids, of course).
The truth is that BPD women are borderline psychotic. They also have a particularly cruel form of psychopathy that is directed especially against anybody who gets to close to them. They really are not women on steroids, so to speak. They are monsters trapped in their own form of living hell from which they cannot escape. Their only temporary relief is to pour that living hell out onto the person who is closest to them, who they intend to destroy.
I am not angry about mine anymore despite everything she did. I actually pity her more than any person I’ve known. That attitude helps with the unavoidable PTSD that a person who has lived intimately with a BPD will suffer from.
btw, I am not trying to take over this excellent thread you started. I just think I have something useful to contribute to, like you said, potentially saving another guy from suicide. That’s a very real possibility when dealing with BPD. Heck, even many psychologists refuse to treat BPDs because they themselves need so much counseling after the experience.
I can only agree with everything you have said, I am now myself dealing with ptsd. Living with a Bpd/ sociopath, is a living hell I wouldn’t wish on anyone.
In a few years when my sons are old enough, I will be teaching them all about personality disorders and that the best course of action when dealing with such people is to get away from them forever. I was raised to practice commitment and compromise and had to learn for myself that some people just suck no matter what you do.
Anonymous11I never married one, but the months I spent with a BPD were pure madness. The bitch trapped me via white knighting and sex. Yes, the sex was maniacal.
I learned all about “love bombing” first hand. I was lucky and escaped unharmed. They are vicious. I can spot one very quickly now. A friend of mine dated one for two years, and she liked to have broke him.
Gargamel and Diogenes are not bulls~~~ting.
Mine wasn’t quite as bad as you guys’, but mine is a classic narcissist. I understand everything you need to know about gas lighting and how crazy they can make you feel. And they just don’t get it. It’s like there is a gene missing in them, or a part of their brain that just doesn’t work. They literally don’t understand when you call them out on their bulls~~~. They can lie to themselves and make it the truth in their own minds.
In a very Buddhist way I have to thank her. The knowledge she gave me is priceless. OK, maybe it cost me a million or so dollars…… But it’s a lesson I’ll never forget, and damn sure don’t need to learn again.
Order the good wine
Gargamel, you hit on another issue that gets no air time – girls raised by single mothers. One of the core components of BPD is fear of abandonment. Many, many girls who are raised by single mothers feel that they have been abandoned by their fathers. One of the principle reasons for this is how the courts treat fathers after years of the lesbians, disguised as feminists, propagandizing that fathers are not important in their children’s lives. Of course, the ex-wife is hardly ever his best advocate to his daughter either.
Yet, the father-daughter relationship arguably is the most important human relationship because it is through this that girls learn that men are good (or bad). Any guy who gets involved with a woman who has daddy issues can be certain of one thing – she will hate him for what she perceives her father did to her. And that will never change. Any other bad relationship can be gotten over through time, but the bad father-daughter relationship permanently disfigures a female’s psyche for life. Just look around.
Fr Jack, hang in there. Although you will never be the same, it is possible to grow beyond the damage. The intimate encounter with BPD set me on the way of my own form of MGHOW. I’ll never go back to romance with women again. I don’t trust them now with anything that’s sacred to me and I never will.
Gargamel, you hit on another issue that gets no air time – girls raised by single mothers. One of the core components of BPD is fear of abandonment. Many, many girls who are raised by single mothers feel that they have been abandoned by their fathers.
Boys raised by single mothers make up 85 percent of male prison inmates…
Nobody talks about the other 50 percent: The daughters of single mothers. They become out of control c~~~s. Even if they don’t end up in jail.
But the crime rate among women is also increasing at alarming rates.
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Anonymous43Faust
I keep a journal of people I talk to, and conversation highlights, email follow up and reiterations, summaries of conversations. I buy small items at convenience stores several times a day and keep the receipt
I make notes about places I go and things I see, and occasionally record times and what song is on the radio. I enter minor short trips into my GPS, pictures, receipts, postcards, notes, whatever I can use to prove my whereabouts at any given time. Or disprove I am anywhere near the c~~~. I make a phone call every hour to show what cell tower I am using.I scan all this s~~~ and send it to my lawyer once a month to be stored, so he can represent me when the c~~~ makes her one phone call. He has a special fireproof safe in his office for the flashdrives I send him. There are 120 flashdrives in this safe. July’s flashdrive is going in the mail in a couple days. I pay him $200 a month for this service. Only one other client has this service. He is either a professional athlete or Mafia. Someone with dozens of millions of dollars to protect.
The c~~~ has called me into court a bunch of times claiming I am perpetrating some horrible crime against her and humanity, only to be crushed by my journal. My lawyer laughs every time he sees the journal, getting bigger and bigger. The journal is a 13 division collapsible folder, one for each month. I have 9 of these now. One for every year of mortal combat with this c~~~. I will continue to do this until I am put into the ground, because the one phone call can happen at any time.
Oh, when I show up in court with my journal, my lawyer gets all giddy, and her attorney visibly sags and groans. I have to provide the c~~~’s attorney with whatever evidence I bring to court. I generate maybe 20 sheets of paper a day. It all goes in the case file, and the c~~~’s attorney has to keep a copy at her office, too. The Judge loves this f~~~ing thing. Evidence. I think I am the only man in the court system who does this. F~~~, this is the only case with it’s own rolling cart for the 5 banker boxes of bulls~~~. You keep bringing me into court for no good reason, I will provide reams of paper as evidence, choke on it.
I take protecting my liberty very seriously, having lost it once to a minor technicality. I will not let that happen again. There is a war between the c~~~ and I. Listen, and understand. That c~~~ is out there. It can’t be bargained with. It can’t be reasoned with. It doesn’t feel pity, or remorse, or fear. And it absolutely will not stop, ever, until I am dead.
beatings, stabbings, threats with knives, eviction order, order of protection, threats with guns, tracking devices, car chases, private investigators, cops pounding on my door, fake ginned up emails, false accusations, harassment, almost running me down with her truck 3 times, sending her Chad 100 miles one way to pick up and drop off our children – out and back on Friday, out and back on Sunday 400 miles, having me removed from school, interfering with job searches and interviews, poisoned kids against me and had my dog put down, all of this up to this point. You brothers with amicable divorces, I envy you.
all to divorce a stay at home dad, no assets, no money, just love for our children and devotion to family.
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