Borderline Women

[StealthParticipant 5326]

I read somewhere once that borderline personailty disorder is a hyperfeminization of the brain. In other words, AWALT – but a borderline even more so.

I know the borderline profile well. I’ve had one stuck to me like those seeds that stick to your jeans when you go hiking, for almost four years now. It’s interesting how she relies on other people for her identity or spiritual essence… like she’s not her own person, but feeds off the souls (sexual & mental energy) of other people. I’ve been through everything with her and she has been the definition of relational chaos and double standard. Definitely not boring and still very likable when she wants to be. I just can’t take her seriously. Took me years to be able to handle her without getting burned.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[HermitParticipant]

Stealth wrote:

I read somewhere once that borderline personailty disorder is a hyperfeminization of the brain. In other words, AWALT – but a borderline even more so.
I know the borderline profile well. I’ve had one stuck to me like those seeds that stick to your jeans when you go hiking, for almost four years now. It’s interesting how she relies on other people for her identity or spiritual essence… like she’s not her own person, but feeds off the souls (sexual & mental energy) of other people. I’ve been through everything with her and she has been the definition of relational chaos and double standard. Definitely not boring and still very likable when she wants to be. I just can’t take her seriously. Took me years to be able to handle her without getting burned.

Sounds like a chore.

Where I live we call those stick tights, by the way. I get them almost every time I mow my yard, but I live out in the sticks.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[SH3LLZParticipant 5569]

Dude, comon.. In today’s society it’s SAFE to assume AWALT and just go your own way. No sense in complaining about womens nonsense.

#ICETHEMOUT
#MANOUT
#HIDEYOURWEALTH

#ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

[Handsome VicParticipant 1613]

It’s been said here before. AWALT

I'm going my own way. Maybe I'll see you there.

[Anonymous 5]

The real MGTOW revelation is that you’re describing the dynamics of how human females trap and exploit human males.
I felt uncomfortable reading how well you described Borderlines because I’ve had a similar experience but I wasn’t in a romantic relationship with her. She was the boss and she was trying to get me to f~~~ her. All I wanted was to remain friendly because it was where I earned my money.
She interpreted that as rejection and went straight to the “Hell hath no fury” routine and made my life a misery. I needed a few years to recover, and in some ways I’ll never quite recover.

Stealth wrote:

I read somewhere once that borderline personailty disorder is a hyperfeminization of the brain. In other words, AWALT – but a borderline even more so.

This says it all

Zehm wrote:

Borderlines have an uncanny ability to mirror the qualities and outlook of their victims. Meeting a borderline woman is a magical feeling. It is like living in a country where you can’t speak the language and then suddenly meeting the only other English speaker in existence. Your values, your experiences, your morals – as they come up you will find that she embodies them all,

This universal trait of women’s entrapment is what we call the NAWALT routine, or the courting phase. You’ve made a classic description.
Do a word search on “Chameleon” in The Predatory Female and you’ll see how universal this standard tactic is. However, as Stealth states, Bordelines are just extreme examples of female tactics.

Zehm wrote:

This behaviour is tolerated by the victim because despite how disgusting the borderline is acting, you have seen a better side of them and are waiting for to it re-emerge. That person who you fell so deeply in love with must be in there still, right?

And this is the cognitive dissonance that keeps men trying to “Fix” relationships indefinitely. In many cases, till they day they die.
They don’t ever get that the cute little NAWALT they fell in love with never existed in the first place. The NAWALT they fall in love with was always a concocted fantasy character created to entrap and mezmerise.
The “N” in NAWALT drops off the moment they establish emotional or legal ownership (or the moment they realize they’ll never get it) AWALT

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Excellent thread.
Bookmarked.

The only way I know of to SAFELY break up with a borderline head case…. is to “feign beta”. Become the wuss that women hate. Over compliment her. Tell her how much she means to you. Fake losing your job. Be “too nice”. Lean into her. Tell her you have no money. etc. The idea is to make her “feel sorry for you”. Act devastated if she were to leave. Use your imagination.

This worked for me more than once.

I’m always going to be more inclined to call a manipulative bitch out. But they can be DANGEROUS.
Sometimes you gotta swallow the man card, and cave in your own best interest.

I saw these videos a few years ago.
I don’t remember how good they are, but this thread reminded me of them, so I’ll just drop them here.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[ZehmParticipant 59]

Keymaster wrote:

Excellent thread.Bookmarked.
The only way I know of to SAFELY break up with a borderline head case…. is to “feign beta”. Become the wuss that women hate. Over compliment her. Tell her how much she means to you. Fake losing your job. Be “too nice”. Lean into her. Tell her you have no money. etc. The idea is to make her “feel sorry for you”. Act devastated if she were to leave. Use your imagination.
This worked for me more than once.

I’m not sure I agree. The c~~~ that prompted this post was trying to cuck me. She was looking for that sort of behaviour and all her crazy came out because I resisted. She is now with another man who is in full white-knight mode. A simp who is easy to manipulate and make everything about her and her needs. Borderlines aren’t looking for Chad like the typical woman. They are far too insecure for that. The more pathetic a man appears, the more likely she is going to feel worthy of them.

[ZehmParticipant 59]

In fact, come to think of it, the best defence against a borderline is to be confident and successful. They are vermin, picking at the refuse left behind by other women.

[AragornParticipant 277]

If you really encountered a full blown borderline psychopath than you are extremely lucky to be still alive. Today they are called narcissistic borderline personalities. In the past they used to call them witches. They are „riding on a fence between two worlds“, hence borderline. They have no emphaty, no heart and are basically spiritual parasites who feed off your life force. They suck you dry and than – it‘s closing time. You were already a dead man walking when you first met her, you just didn‘t know it back than. They are sadistic female terminators. They have been called incubus, medusa, jezebel, sphinx, sirens and lilith in the bible. You have met the female equivalent of hannibal lecter, be glad that you are still alive, bro! No contact is all that counts for you now! Never ever ever ever look back! No contact! Never!!

If you change the rules on what controls you, you will change the rules on what you can control

[AragornParticipant 277]

If you change the rules on what controls you, you will change the rules on what you can control

[ZehmParticipant 59]

Aragorn wrote:

They have been called incubus, medusa, jezebel, sphinx, sirens and lilith in the bible.

I used to affectionately call her a Succubus, because she loved to suck c~~~. Kinda not so funny that it turned out to be true.

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

Other red flags I can remember are also redheads and tattoos. Survive borderline and you might just develop immunity through awareness.

Then you will come in contact with another borderline succubus and she will loathe you for having immunity. Ha ha !

But in reality borderline women are no fun at all. Spetsnaz with female psychopaths and illimitable men with Lucifers daughters are all the reads/listens you need to warn you if you haven’t been burnt yet.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[Vajra VarahaParticipant 1283]

Two books every man should read:

“I Hate You – Don’t Leave Me” by Kreisman and Strauss

“Stop Walking on Eggshells” by Mason and Kreger

Both are about BPD. First is for the patient. Second is for family who have to live with them.
Both are good field guides to recognizing this species of women.

If you realize you are in a relationship with a BPD:

Pretend a tiger is chasing you and take all precautions possible while you run for your life!

[AzraelParticipant 502]

Freeman_K wrote:

Other red flags I can remember are also redheads and tattoos. Survive borderline and you might just develop immunity through awareness.
Then you will come in contact with another borderline succubus and she will loathe you for having immunity. Ha ha !
But in reality borderline women are no fun at all. Spetsnaz with female psychopaths and illimitable men with Lucifers daughters are all the reads/listens you need to warn you if you haven’t been burnt yet.

Every time I come to this website, it’s like the thoughts in my head are already written.

Redheads. F~~~ing redheads. They think they are so special, so great, so worthy of getting what they want. I have never met one who isn’t BPD. Someone I know married a redhead, she walks up to dudes and grabs their crotches in a bar while he watches. Cuck. My last (and I mean LAST) regslut tried to get me to f— her bareback so she could blame a pregnancy on me (wasn’t mine, she was a redhead).

Quit looking at my signature, queer-mo.

[InTheCountryParticipant 199]

My mother is borderline and my exes were too. My most recent ex whom I sent packing almost a year ago created new identities on facebook after every relationship (new email, new skype, new facebook). She was married in Finland to a software developer, then cheated on him moving to this other guy who was a child of a very rich family where the father was a heart surgeon in California, then up to me in Canada. She makes slight changes to her name, ie: Anne, Annie, Anne-Marie, Laura, Laura-Ann, etc when she prepares to switch relationships. In every situation she performed the chameleon syndrome. My situation was different, a bit. I am not rich, so I played the role of the “stepping stool” to give her a breather from her previous two disasters. I lived in a basement apartment and she drove clear across the country to be with me. My idea was, “well, I suspect you are lying, but if you want to deliver fresh cawk suck to my front door, fine.” As I suspected, it was revealed she was lying. This was a common lie which is “I was single for months when we met.” LOL. Of course, she was skyping with me from a parking lot when we met ONLINE (yeah I know). Even though I made it out without legal problems, there was still stress. What gets to you is when you become a story of the asshole to next victim she is selling herself to. She changed her name slightly and went back to work. As usual, her facebook explodes with wondrous pictures of standing happily next to mountains in Arizona, somehow living 1500 – 2000 miles from where she just was a week or two ago. Happy? Well of course, the pictures prove this. They suddenly have what appears to be a miraculous conversion to the happiest possible life one could have. I am now the latest abuser story in her circle of orbiters and sympathizers.

In the end, this woman had an uncanny ability to summon at will a sea of beta-orbiters to drive her around, take her grocery shopping, give her a place to stay etc. These poor souls don’t know that they only help her do stuff in between her relationships where she is boinking other guys. They have all professed love for her, but are content to remain in the friendzone and prove that they aren’t violent rapists. One guy in particular who I pegged as the main orbiter is literally nothing more than a driver and place to stay in between relationships. He is the counselor that offers free services before, during and after her relationships. In all cases, he of course sides with her, despite the bizarre behavior that any red pill would see a mile away.

Who knows how active she was and how deep the rabbit hole goes with her. The lies you find out are probably no more than 20 – 25 % even if you dig deep like I did.

A borderline or narcissist (she was both) cannot apologize. They simply recite the reason why they lied and why it was necessary for them in order to avoid pain or get what they wanted. There is no connection between lying and the concept that it hurts trust which is an ethereal bond between people.

Now, she runs an online new age snake oil healing business promising people “spiritual healing” for donations. The desperate times have kicked in. She is 43 and it is getting harder to get the men she wants. The orbiters just won’t do, yet. She now offers a bizarre donation based spiritual new age service where she offers to sing for people over skype while playing a harp with a pet bird in the background. This apparently “heals” others. Interestingly enough, she broadcasts herself as a spiritual empath, practices veganism raw food diet, and proclaims supporting a variety of virtues. I informed her, as an exercise in futility, that such an empath would not be lying their way into people’s lives and then flipping the narrative on them to avoid responsibility. LOL.

Do not date new age or vegan women. Yes, they swallow, but the insanity comes out of the wicker basket soon enough.

[MonkParticipant 16975]

InTheCountry wrote:

My mother is borderline and my exes were too. My most recent ex whom I sent packing almost a year ago created new identities on facebook after every relationship (new email, new skype, new facebook).

They all live in a fantasy world.

Do not date new age or vegan women. Yes, they swallow, but the insanity comes out of the wicker basket soon enough.

Soon enough? With these ones, it’s in neon lights. Any man who gets tangled up with one of them is even crazier than they are.

[Sky-OParticipant 18933]

However. . .

The most insane, out of control, porn induced sex that I have ever had was with women that had borderline personality disorder.

No doubt about that.

And in hindsight, I would never seek to relive any of that again

But at the time: Totally worth it.

[TronParticipant 285]

I am sorry for your hardship. I work in a Psychiatric facility and I am becoming a professional Counselor, I work with borderline women all the time.

Awakened,

Dating women does not pass the cost/benefit analysis. Women do not value men anymore. They simply do not appreciate what we do. They are constantly saying, “The men and women who guard our borders” , etc. The reality is that without women we still have borders and police and firefighters to do the job. Without the men this country plunges into chaos. Also, why not save your money and build your wealth. Build a nest egg for the future. Why spend it on her? The minute she is pregnant with your child she is locked into your income for 20 years! No fault divorce turns father’s into sperm donors. Marriage is simply too dangerous. Also, while you are dating or hanging out with women it is so easy for them to accuse you of harassment. Just the accusation is enough to ruin you. It is better for you guys to go MGTOW. Men Going Their Own Way. This is about maintaining your independence at all costs. Many women strip men of their independence. These are mangina men who just do what they are told or they go along with what she wants the majority of the time. This is because men want to please their wife or girlfriend like they wanted to please their mother. It is better to go MGTOW. Be independent and be your own man. Your definition, not theirs. Build your wealth in different areas of your life: 1) Build your financial wealth; 2) Build your emotional wealth-this means work on yourself and your toxic or negative thoughts. Learn how to feel good about who you are. Find a profession or a hobby that fulfills you. Enjoy life on your own terms; 3) Build your spiritual wealth-get n touch with your higher power, if you have one, or simply take time to be silent each day. Enjoy reconnecting with the earth through hiking or fishing, etc. Whatever peaceful activity you enjoy; 4) Build your physical wealth-go to the gym, walk regularly, see a physician regularly, eat healthy (I’m still working on that…lol), and listen to your body. This is a balanced life. If you want the company of a woman, that is fine but getting married locks her into your financial wealth even if she leaves. Women initiate close to 70% of all divorces. Be careful. Getting married allows her to strip you of your independence or most of it. Marriage takes time away from your participation in building your wealth in the areas that I have just mentioned. I have dinner with a woman once in awhile. I know many women and I like them, but i will not give them the one thing that I value most in life….ME!!! Go MGTOW, mgtow.com. This website is where we exchange ideas. There is a fee but it is worth it. The men on this website are not all of mgtow. MGTOW are in different countries all over the world. men are waking up. So, guys wake up!! The Matrix has you. Swallow the red pill that I just gave you!

Tron

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