Best friend just kicked me out because he is pussy whipped

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

Franky wrote:

iLearn wrote:

He is doing what men were trained like dogs to do. Your trust was misplaced.

It may take your friend 5, 10 ,20 ,40 years to realize his mistake.Or maybe he won’t.Women have always used men to get at men.And some men are so….. and they have so little regard for other men when tasked with the choice.
You’re friend is….ok i won’t go there but lets say that he’s not your friend.I think starting anew is better, you don’t need people like him around.And if his brain decides to go back in his head some day, it doesn’t f~~~ing matter, life is too short to wait lifetimes for guys to come to their senses.
When i make friends i take a long time to observe them first.The main thing i watch for is exactly this type of scenario.If they pick the girl i just write them off as whipped dogs.

“if his brain decides to go in his head someday” haha

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

I was a heroin/opiate addict for several years
-went to rehab after rehab for years across the US to get my s~~~ straight
-made new best friend in sober living
-went through the ups and downs of recovery and built new lives together

Now I understand why you have such a tight bond with your best friend. In a different thread this was brought into question, but now I completely understand.

Im no paychologist -dont trust them anyways- but it sounds to me your friend replaced one unhealthy relationship (drugs) with another – toxic gf.

Sucks for you. One day hell probably reach out to you once they break up. Its so hard to meet true quality friends. Having been through what youve been through, amd forming a bond with someone whose in the same shoes only compounds the problem.

Sorry man. That f~~~ing sucks. Ive been through a ton of s~~~ as well, all I can say is when you do find true friends always be there for them. Cut out the ones who are f~~~ed up and are a net loss in your life.

Resident cynic.

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

I was a heroin/opiate addict for several years-went to rehab after rehab for years across the US to get my s~~~ straight-made new best friend in sober living-went through the ups and downs of recovery and built new lives together

Now I understand why you have such a tight bond with your best friend. In a different thread this was brought into question, but now I completely understand.
Im no paychologist -dont trust them anyways- but it sounds to me your friend replaced one unhealthy relationship (drugs) with another – toxic gf.
Sucks for you. One day hell probably reach out to you once they break up. Its so hard to meet true quality friends. Having been through what youve been through, amd forming a bond with someone whose in the same shoes only compounds the problem.
Sorry man. That f~~~ing sucks. Ive been through a ton of s~~~ as well, all I can say is when you do find true friends always be there for them. Cut out the ones who are f~~~ed up and are a net loss in your life.

yes, I didn’t want to bring it up because I wasn’t sure if anyone here can relate, but at the same time, it is an integral part of understanding where I’m coming from. He has traded her for drugs long ago. It really is typical addict behavior. I really wonder if I would’ve been similar had I not found those mgtow videos and went down that rabbit hole.

One day he will reach out to me and I probably won’t even care and tell him to f~~~ off. I hope he wallows deep in his pain. F~~~ed up? Whatever. That’s just where I’m at right now.

[bachelor4goodParticipant 170]

TaxGuy wrote:

Blackpill: First off, do take care of yourself. That said, if this guy is really your best friend and was really there for you when you needed him, then I wouldn’t write him completely off.

I like to remind you on what TaxGuy wrote. Your anger about your BF behavior is very understandable. When the time comes she dumps him or makes his life miserably you´re not obliged to help or get involved. But, in the long run, you should understand what forced his weak mind to act the way he did and forgive him. Just for your own sake! Anger or Schadenfreude isn´t something to hold on to. At last, he´s just a troubled man who got pussy whipped like so many others before. Beeing a better man benefits yourself the most!

IDGAF

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

bachelor4good wrote:

TaxGuy wrote:

Blackpill: First off, do take care of yourself. That said, if this guy is really your best friend and was really there for you when you needed him, then I wouldn’t write him completely off.

I like to remind you on what TaxGuy wrote. Your anger about your BF behavior is very understandable. When the time comes she dumps him or makes his life miserably you´re not obliged to help or get involved. But, in the long run, you should understand what forced his weak mind to act the way he did and forgive him. Just for your own sake! Anger or Schadenfreude isn´t something to hold on to. At last, he´s just a troubled man who got pussy whipped like so many others before. Beeing a better man benefits yourself the most!

i know. I still hope he experiences some serious consequences for his decisions.

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

I had a best friend I’ve known for 20 years, from time to time he would do funny s~~~ and I would forgive him, until one day I said no more and litteraly exploded on him and told him to f~~~ off, I don’t feel bad anymore for people that will treat you like that, he’s tried coming back like a little whore c~~~ too, I implemented a no contact rule on him like the little whore bitch he is. The funny thing is, my life is fantastic and has even gotten better without him being a parasite in my life, you know what I just found out, he got his stripper girlfriend pregnant, and she just had his baby, LOL, LOL, LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Take it as a blessing my friend. Do not be sad, be glad.

please elaborate on the “funny s~~~” that he did. 20 years is a long time man.

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

Ok, first off I am embarrassed I allowed myself to try to be friends with somebody like this, so it’s partially my fault for being a nice forgiving person. But anyway, he was always putting me down and trying to look superior in front of people, especially women, I’ve known him since 5th grade. Besides always doing favors for him, I always got treated like s~~~, I had my life together when he did not.He tried hurting me on purpose, he purposely f~~~ed a girl I was interested in, and then rubbed it in my face on purpose.Got parking tickets in my car and didn’t tell me or pay them.Tried f~~~ing my sister behind my back, which I found out later, glad my sister didn’t do it.
Dude, I could honestly right a million other reasons, I don’t want to bore you guys with 3 pages of how and why me and this relationship happened with this person. When I first met him in school we clicked, but I think as the years went by, either he got worse, and I became more aware of what was going on, or both I would say.A lot of what is written in mgtow applies to men also and not just women. Basically found out he was a narcissist that really don’t care about anybody but himself. I didn’t even know a narcissist was a real thing not to long ago, I thought it was another word for asshole.That was a couple of examples above. He even tried fighting me one time cause I kicked his ass in a basketball video game. With friends like that who needs enemies. There really is a lot more reasons, I hope that satisfied your question. Just for the record, I am sorry you lost a friend, but you will notice in time that your life is better without him.I would like to think he’s not as bad as my friend, but ditching you for a chick I think is pretty much saying f~~~you. My friend has done that to me and more, so from my view, I say f~~~ that guy.

Jesus Christ… No idea why you put up with all of that. No, this guy isn’t half has bad as the guy you explained. I’m not sure if I should feel lucky now haha

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