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Hello brothers. Apologies for the hiatus as I was going my own way. Some of you may have some background on my situation from previous threads, but i’ll try to keep it as short as possible…..but it actually happened. I got kicked out by my best friend of 2 1/2 years because of a female. I’m gonna just cliff this s~~~ show.
-I was a heroin/opiate addict for several years
-went to rehab after rehab for years across the US to get my s~~~ straight
-made new best friend in sober living
-went through the ups and downs of recovery and built new lives together
-my insurance was finished and they were kicking me out of sober living
-i moved in with GF at the time as a last resort ( bad idea though obviously…but nowhere near enough money or anything in my name)
-bitch was annoying etc. typical female nagging s~~~
-Best friend left sober living months later and got apartment under his name with 2 other people from sober living….invited me to live with him
-4 people in a 2 bedroom apartment LOL
-Saved me from unstable living situation with my ex
-many trials, tribulations, and successes shared (including both of the other 2 roommates relapsing and bringing drugs in the house. they got kicked out)
-me and best friend make the s~~~ work as we climb up the ladder in our jobs and keep heads above water making bills
-best friend gets GF and gets pussy whipped (young 22 year old single mom)
-they initially have loud sex in the beg. at unusual hours of the night that ruined peoples sleep
-after their relationship sours and her crazy shows more, they go from sex noises to loud arguments
-i talk to my best friend multiple times about the situation and that i need to sleep and i pay bills here too
-they literally break up and get back together every single week. She dumped him several times and he gets depressed, rinse & repeat.
-He keeps bringing her over and I don’t say hi to her or acknowledge her because at this point I hate her and the stress she has caused me and friend
-she tells him that she feels “intimidated” by my presence because im not nice to her (i just ignore her)
-he goes to her house instead of bringing her over (win-win to me)
-friend says he wants to be able to have his gf over his own place with her feeling comfortable
-I draw the line and say i’m not gonna be disrespectful, but I will not be fake. I will not acknowledge or say hi to her.
-He just said i have to find somewhere else to live (name not on lease)I had a talk with some of my friends from the program and they’re all p~~~ed about it as well. It’s a shame that the person who you’ve conquered life with that was a model figure to you was brought down by soggy wet lips. I know that his relationship won’t last because of their history and he will see the error of his ways when me AND her aren’t around, but now I need to just survive and find somewhere to live. I can say a million rude but true things about this guy now, but I’m honestly wiped out.
EDIT: fuuck those are long cliffs…..i’ll give you the cliffs of cliffs
-me and best friend meet in drug rehab
-get clean and move in together
-experience crazy ups and downs in sobriety and build new life together
-he gets GF and gets pussy whipped
-they break up and get back together all the time and she constantly brings drama to the house
-i ignore her and don’t acknowledge her when he brings her in the house
-she tells him i am intimidating and she doesn’t feel welcomed
-he goes to her place instead (this is his own choice)
-he eventually says he wants to have his own gf feel comfortable in his place and kicks me out
-i am looking for a place to live now thanks to this manipulative psycho single mom c~~~
Anonymous18Very sorry to hear that brother. He is doing what men were trained like dogs to do. Your trust was misplaced. I can only say that its normal to feel anger and resentment but this guy was just a weak man.
Having overcome other difficulties in your life, I am quite optimistic that you would find a place to live. And once you do you can forget about that traitor and go on with your life.
Keep us updated if you can.
Don’t let this crap bring you down.
Anonymous18manipulative psycho single mom c~~~
I am guessing the temporary pain is better than the false allegations that can potentially ruin your life.
Very sorry to hear that brother. He is doing what men were trained like dogs to do. Your trust was misplaced. I can only say that its normal to feel anger and resentment but this guy was just a weak man.
Having overcome other difficulties in your life, I am quite optimistic that you would find a place to live. And once you do you can forget about that traitor and go on with your life.
Keep us updated if you can.
Don’t let this crap bring you down.thank you so much for your positivity man 🙂
I’m sure i will be able to make it work. I will now have to put money towards a new place with the car that i was saving for (still walking to work and building life from scratch……better yet from incredible debt). It is more of a hassle than anything. I KNOW I I’m going to be successful not just for revenge to the people who have done me wrong, but for myself.
That’s just f~~~ed up, Blackpill! I’m sorry to know that’s happening you, and coming from someone you regarded as a big brother is even more f~~~ed up! I got no pretty words for your “friend” and I think I better keep ’em to myself, it’s too early in the day to blow my top!!
I hope you come out of this okay but please take good care of yourself.Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!That’s just f~~~ed up, Blackpill! I’m sorry to know that’s happening you, and coming from someone you regarded as a big brother is even more f~~~ed up! I got no pretty words for your “friend” and I think I better keep ’em to myself, it’s too early in the day to blow my top!!I hope you come out of this okay but please take good care of yourself.
say what you’d like, please. I was hoping you’d say it for me since I don’t have the energy to type out the 5 page paragraph of what he is!
Thanks for the love. It’s great to have support in these times. I’ve talked to other friends and they are all telling me how much of a bitch he is. His actions are only reaffirming my MGTOW stance as well.
I really feel for you … I know what it´s like to loose a longterm comrade. Take this situation, as bad as it may seem now, as a good thing. Another string to your past has been cut and you´re on your own way to a self-made better future. No one´s holding you back … look forward and get things done!
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I really feel for you … I know what it´s like to loose a longterm comrade. Take this situation, as bad as it may seem now, as a good thing. Another string to your past has been cut and you´re on your own way to a self-made better future. No one´s holding you back … look forward and get things done!
most definitely. There is no way i’d want someone like that on my team anyway.
Good riddance.
I’ll say to you what I say to everyone that avoids suicide (and being an addict IS a slow suicide): Every day you are alive is a BONUS day. Wake up in the morning and be happy that you are alive and that YOU are in control of your life. Yes it will be hard at first. You lost your best friend and you lost your home/residence, but this day had to come regardless. At some point you had to be on your own so you can get to the next stage in your life. This is the beginning of your new life 100% on your terms. Every beginning is hard, but embrace it. Leave the bad thoughts behind and don’t focus on the mistakes your friend made. Thank him for being there when you needed him give him a final warning as a friend and then move on to bigger and better things.
Think of it this way: You have a chance to start over and you have proven to yourself that you have the strength to do so, not too many people have that opportunity or that strength. I’m sure you’ll do fine and should you need support, we are here for that.
And by the way, you won’t be kicked out of here because of some chick either.
Good luck to you!The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!
I’ll say to you what I say to everyone that avoids suicide (and being an addict IS a slow suicide): Every day you are alive is a BONUS day. Wake up in the morning and be happy that you are alive and that YOU are in control of your life. Yes it will be hard at first. You lost your best friend and you lost your home/residence, but this day had to come regardless. At some point you had to be on your own so you can get to the next stage in your life. This is the beginning of your new life 100% on your terms. Every beginning is hard, but embrace it. Leave the bad thoughts behind and don’t focus on the mistakes your friend made. Thank him for being there when you needed him give him a final warning as a friend and then move on to bigger and better things.Think of it this way: You have a chance to start over and you have proven to yourself that you have the strength to do so, not too many people have that opportunity or that strength. I’m sure you’ll do fine and should you need support, we are here for that.And by the way, you won’t be kicked out of here because of some chick either.Good luck to you!
I’m tired of the drama/situation anyway, so I’m naturally looking at it more on a positive note. There is spurts of anger about him and his choice, but ultimately, he was there for me to get me this far and maybe he is just of no use to me anymore. I’ve tried helping him, but he wants to stay in a cycle of insanity and I need to move on and not be around it.
I’m a giant just thwarting out these stupid inconveinences and plowing towards my goal.
First, congratulations on conquering an addiction, I admire your strength and determination.
Compare your best friend’s girlfriend to a drug addiction, I’m sure you find many similarities.
Your well being (clean/sober) is your first priority, you’ve worked too hard to lose that.
Move out, get your own place, and cut him from your life for as long as he’s “addicited” to her.fresh new start ! you are your number 1 priority , try not to look back too much as you go FORWARD into your life ! only good will come of this for you brother ! a very small studio or room for rent will give you a home-plate that is YOURS ! STAY STRONG !
Blackpill: First off, do take care of yourself. That said, if this guy is really your best friend and was really there for you when you needed him, then I wouldn’t write him completely off. She will eventually dump him and he will need a friend, a best friend. You can see the mistake, you can see the train wreck waiting to happen, but he’s got to learn for himself.
I know him not respecting the fact that you live there too is crappy on his part, but best friends f~~~ up and you forgive them and move on. If there is one thing I’ve seen here it’s compassion for a guy that f~~~s up his life because of a woman. And we all don’t really know each other. I wouldn’t know you if you walked by me on the street. But unfortunately, getting screwed over by a crazy woman almost seems like a right of passage for men these days.
If you are going to take every guy that gets screwed over by a woman, despite the warnings, and cut them out of your life, you aren’t going to have many friends!
Just my 2 cents. Please feel free to ignore everything past the first sentence. Just please don’t ignore that one.
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Blackpill: First off, do take care of yourself. That said, if this guy is really your best friend and was really there for you when you needed him, then I wouldn’t write him completely off. She will eventually dump him and he will need a friend, a best friend. You can see the mistake, you can see the train wreck waiting to happen, but he’s got to learn for himself.
I know him not respecting the fact that you live there too is crappy on his part, but best friends f~~~ up and you forgive them and move on. If there is one thing I’ve seen here it’s compassion for a guy that f~~~s up his life because of a woman. And we all don’t really know each other. I wouldn’t know you if you walked by me on the street. But unfortunately, getting screwed over by a crazy woman almost seems like a right of passage for men these days.
If you are going to take every guy that gets screwed over by a woman, despite the warnings, and cut them out of your life, you aren’t going to have many friends!
Just my 2 cents. Please feel free to ignore everything past the first sentence. Just please don’t ignore that one.I compare your addiction to his. Hopefully, he has the strength to get over his.
Whether it’s drugs or pussy, addiction changes you. You lose all control over it.
Anonymous42Hey BlackPill, that sucks! He done a classic HOES before BROS! It’s his choice, he’s chosen to be absorbed by her illogical persona, he’s tempting his demons with a girl like that! Where do you think he’s going to turn for “PAIN RELIEF” when she riuns his insides? that’s right he’ll have the gorilla on his back once again, he’s not ready for that kind of stress, no man ever is! Protect YOURSELF! She’s endangered you by indirect turmoil that undoubtedly follows her everywhere she goes, steer clear, run and dodge like a deer! The important thing at this point is YOUR SOBRIETY! Lose that, and you loose your SERENITY! Seek a new place to live where drugs and alcohol have zero to no chance. Chose your living mates wisely! Seek a room to rent from an older person looking for a little revenue, not a boarding house! Rise above and conquer! I’m in your corner! I wish you the strength and sobriety of mind to maneuver to a new position! Life gets wonderfully better in a sober body and healing mind. You can and will make it to higher ground, we’re all rooting for you! You’re a mean kick-ass sober machine!!!!
Oh he most definitely has a p~~~u addiction and I’ve been seeing the similarities for months now. It’s legitimate. The dude went from OxyContin to oxytocin.
Tax guy-
I slightly agree but not to that extent. I don’t ever want someone on my team or at least that close to me who is willing to drop and betray me over a woman. He has told me his life experiences before and has made similar pussy whipped mistakes and I don’t want to have to experience it when he does again and be on that other end. I understand I won’t have many friends, but that’s always how it has been for me anyway. It’s not like he stood me up for a movie night out wit the fellas which I can probably write off…. Dude kicked me out of the apartment. I am not willing to take that sort of treatment.I don’t have enough money to live alone, but thankfully I have friends and connections from being sober and these people are already helping me out.
Anonymous42Dude kicked me out of the apartment. I am not willing to take that sort of treatment.
Damn straight! If you were a weaker man, he risked your sobriety over the OXYC~~~IN of pussy! You’re absolutely right in your decision! Weak friends make weak bridges!
Blackpill: Totally understand. You are the only one that has lived it every day so only you know when the line is crossed where you are done with him. If he crossed it, he crossed it. I’m pretty forgiving until the line is crossed, and then ruthless once it has been.
Again take care. That’s the most important part.
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Dude kicked me out of the apartment. I am not willing to take that sort of treatment.
Damn straight! If you were a weaker man, he risked your sobriety over the OXYC~~~IN of pussy! You’re absolutely right in your decision! Weak friends make weak bridges!
haha @ oxyc~~~in. That’s true about if I were a weaker man, though gladly I’m not.
Tax guy –
I am extremely forgiving too and once you cross me it’s done with. Things won’t ever be the same. You know it’s bad when you are such a nice person and other people validate your hate for anyone because you rarely hate anyone. For example, think of ghandi hating someone. That person must’ve done some f~~~ed up s~~~.He is doing what men were trained like dogs to do. Your trust was misplaced.
It may take your friend 5, 10 ,20 ,40 years to realize his mistake.Or maybe he won’t.
Women have always used men to get at men.And some men are so….. and they have so little regard for other men when tasked with the choice.You’re friend is….ok i won’t go there but lets say that he’s not your friend.
I think starting anew is better, you don’t need people like him around.And if his brain decides to go back in his head some day, it doesn’t f~~~ing matter, life is too short to wait lifetimes for guys to come to their senses.When i make friends i take a long time to observe them first.The main thing i watch for is exactly this type of scenario.If they pick the girl i just write them off as whipped dogs.
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