Being Ignored At The Bar

[OldBillParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I’ve had restaurant owners tell me they do exactly what OldBill mentioned about slowing the pace down too.

Exactly.

You’ll notice he wasn’t “ignored” when the bartenders brought him his first plate. No complaints from him there. They apparently delivered his second plate quickly too.

And the third plate.

And the fourth plate.

The waitstaff was somehow able to deliver FOUR servings of free fried fish quickly enough. It was only when the Human Tapeworm wanted a FIFTH serving that the waitstaff’s service “suddenly” got slow.

No problems at all with the bartenders and waitresses as he shoveled four servings of free fried fish down his neck but they all of a sudden became incompetent c~~~s when his fifth free serving took time to arrive?

Sure. Makes sense to me.

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[KaidoParticipant 2395]

A complaint and no tip = a fair solution.

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[KeymasterKeymaster]

When I was a part-time bartender about a thousand years ago, I outsold every other bartender – every night. I was always “THE HEAD” bartender. And why? Because my people got their drinks FAST. I worked on volume and pumped that s~~~ out.

This is how I know The “wage gap” is a f~~~ing myth, because when I watch the female bartenders, they are so inefficient it was ridiculous. They would take an oder, and make it, ring it in , take the money and give change.

I would go down the line – almost rudely – and ask everyone “what do you want, what do you want, what do you want” then I would make it ALL, and then charge them. But nobody stood there “thirsty” and waiting. Even when they were waiting to pay, at least THEY HAD A DRINK IN THEIR HANDS.

I would make 10 drinks at a time — not one.
People want to get served NOW – not make friends.

At a friend’s birthday recently, I watched a female bartender with a stack of people 3-deep working at such a glacial pace… and in the 15 minutes that I stood there, I calculated she could have TRIPLED her sales at least. I watched her walk to get ONE bottle of beer, then come back, and then walk back to get another one. She didn’t give a F~~~ about increasing her sales.

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Want a female bartender to lick your dick? Take out your CASH , lay it on the bar, and put your keys on top of it. Let her see the bills. Or stand there holding a $20 / $100 up in your fingers. A guy holding cash is like a bartender magnet.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 11]

Keymaster wrote:

I watch the female bartenders, they are so inefficient it was ridiculous.

Well, Key, you just explained it for me. I always noticed that they basically do ignore the patrons. It’s like they are doing you a favor just fetching a drink for you. God forbid you interrupt her FB surfing with a request.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

It’s like they are doing you a favor

That’s everywhere these days, and I find myself saying it all the time.
Someone you’re paying acting like THEY are doing you a favor.

Even phone companies behave this way.

You can also ask for service upfront. Like “keep my glass filled , OK??” But if you lay down a stack of bills in a bar in plain view, even female patrons will see it and hit on you.

The holding up a bill in between two fingers is the best way to get noticed, I found. But don’t forget, the “bartender” is not a waiter. A waiter comes to YOU. The bartender doesn’t. You walk up to a bar and walk away from it. So they tend to think it’s YOUR job to get their attention. It’s really stupid actually.

Too many bartenders have a “god” complex.
X10 if that bartender has t~~~. She’s already an entitled broad.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 5]

Keymaster wrote:

When I was a part-time bartender about a thousand years ago, I outsold every other bartender – every night. I was always “THE HEAD” bartender. And why? Because my people got their drinks FAST. I worked on volume and pumped that s~~~ out.

This is how I know The “wage gap” is a f~~~ing myth, because when I watch the female bartenders, they are so inefficient it was ridiculous. They would take an oder, and make it, ring it in , take the money and give change.

I would go down the line – almost rudely – and ask everyone “what do you want, what do you want, what do you want” then I would make it ALL, and then charge them. But nobody stood there “thirsty” and waiting. Even when they were waiting to pay, at least THEY HAD A DRINK IN THEIR HANDS.

I would make 10 drinks at a time — not one.
People want to get served NOW – not make friends.

At a friend’s birthday recently, I watched a female bartender with a stack of people 3-deep working at such a glacial pace… and in the 15 minutes that I stood there, I calculated she could have TRIPLED her sales at least. I watched her walk to get ONE bottle of beer, then come back, and then walk back to get another one. She didn’t give a F~~~ about increasing her sales.

—

Want a female bartender to lick your dick? Take out your CASH , lay it on the bar, and put your keys on top of it. Let her see the bills. Or stand there holding a $20 / $100 up in your fingers. A guy holding cash is like a bartender magnet.

Now that is why your the “keymaster”. Now Where’s the “Tower of justice” on this? Probably power boating or reading philosophy or sum s~~~ or maybe both. AHA! YOU GUYS RULE MGTOW FOREVER.

[Deadly RaverParticipant]

I’m so glad I’m in good with the few places I go to eat. They usually get me hooked up fast even if the place is loaded.

Learn from the past, Control the present, and you will know the Future.

[GrumpyParticipant]

For being such a grumpy old f~~~er.
I personally have never experienced really bad service from serving staff in bars/pubs. Mind you I have haven’t been in one for about 2 years now (bar/pub that is, not waitresses).

I used to go just to have a couple or more drinks, play some pool, and see some t~~~ and ass.
I don’t go to discuss my issues with people that couldn’t care less about me personally, or to pick up women, or dance to s~~~ty music.
I go to drink. I found that with me, the first tip guarantees excellent service the entire time I am there.

The only time I have seen bad service, the waitress actually asked the supervisor to move to another part of the bar because she was getting s~~~ for tips.
They moved her and the replacement waitress made a killing in tips. I think it had something to do with the patrons not having to go to the bar to get their drinks.

You don’t have to “flash” the cash to not be ignored, the staff just has to know where it is, and have a vested interest in earning those tips as fast as possible.

Then again, that’s only my past experiences.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[SkeptiskParticipant 3679]

I never order buffet, I always order upfront what I want. I don’t like the hassle to line up to get food, rather allow the waiter to bring it to me. And I am always polite, because that’s how I am towards people doing their job. If I need more, I expect to pay for it, I believe in the TANSTAAFL – or as it says:

There Ain’t No Such Thing As A Free Lunch

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[Anonymous 22]

Why call it ‘all you can eat’ then?

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

F~~~ em, bad service no tip. Weird, you’d think something as simple as taking care of customers would be easy but women fail at that.

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[Dr. SableParticipant 1064]

5 plates of all “you can eat” and you still have energy to complain about t~~~s ?

Zero Tolerance

[Dr. SableParticipant 1064]

5 plates of “all you can eat” and you still have energy to complain about t~~~s ?

Zero Tolerance

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

The bar probably did an “All you can eat” because the fish they had was probably about to expire.

No doubt the bartenders noticed you eating five plates of fish and slowed their roll. I don’t give them a pass on that one though. 10+ years in food service and purposefully ignoring a table get’s employees fired. I’m also sure that one, if not all the bartender’s were probably banging an owner, or were friends with the owner. They were running around too much for you and decided you weren’t worth it.

Last time I went to a bar, it took the waitress 20 minutes to get me a bottle of beer from behind the bar. We ordered one app, and two beers, and the second round of beers took 20 minutes to arrive. Now that’s s~~~ty service not deserving of a tip. And that’s exactly what the c~~~ got.

Best thing you can do is not support the bar anymore.

[FaxmodemParticipant 1415]

Same thing happened to me a while ago. Was with some friends at a bar and the service sucked. The servers spent most of there f~~~ing time on there phones, talking, taking selfies. Had to wait about 30 mints for service to order another round and food. We gave the server no tip, and she wasn’t that decent looking either. Too much f~~~ing makeup.
We got service after we complained.

Us men didn't start the battle of the sexes, but we're clearly going to win it via the simple tactic of just leaving the battlefield in contempt."

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