Being Ignored At The Bar

[ResidentEvil7Participant 9555]

Yesterday I was at the local bar having a Friday all you can eat fish fry (grilled). Everything was all good up until plate #4, then after that it took over a half hour before anyone even cared enough to continue serving me, but all 3 women bartenders clearly saw I was done with that plate and was waiting for service for a long time. In fact, they had no problem taking care of people who came after me, all because they were women and needed service, I got ignored for a half hour. Funny how it took an eternity to serve me fish plate #5, but they didn’t waste any time handing me the check. Women bartenders means bad service. So for ignoring me for that long and leaving me bored and waiting, I gave them no tip. I don’t tip people who ignore me for that long.

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[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

bad service, no tip.

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[RedRojasParticipant 559]

Good. Good. Poor customer service should never be rewarded.

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[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

When I get bad service like that, on the tip part of the check I write” don’t play leapfrog with unicorns”

When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

When i was going to college i worked at papa johns delivering. Female bartenders down the street would order for themselves at least twice a week. My cuck manager gave them employee discount because he knew them. The first time they didn’t tip me i thought maybe they were busy and forgot, after the 2nd and 3rd time it became clear these sluts were purposely not tipping me.

If i was a drinker i would have gone in and ordered drink after drink and not left a tip to return the favor. I worked there for a year and a half, and the biggest tip i ever got from any female was 6 bucks, about standard for men to give 6, and many men even gave me upwards of 10-12 dollar tips. The women ? nope … i was lucky if they tipped me AT ALL.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

But…but…they have t~~~…you OWED them that tip!

[Anonymous 3]

Antipathy wrote:

When i was going to college i worked at papa johns delivering. Female bartenders down the street would order for themselves at least twice a week. My cuck manager gave them employee discount because he knew them. The first time they didn’t tip me i thought maybe they were busy and forgot, after the 2nd and 3rd time it became clear these sluts were purposely not tipping me.

If i was a drinker i would have gone in and ordered drink after drink and not left a tip to return the favor. I worked there for a year and a half, and the biggest tip i ever got from any female was 6 bucks, about standard for men to give 6, and many men even gave me upwards of 10-12 dollar tips. The women ? nope … i was lucky if they tipped me AT ALL.

I worked at a sports collectible store as a teenager. Sometimes we’d take stuff out to people’s cars. It was a pure courtesy. The men would always tip. The women? Not so much. The women that looked like they had the most money would smugly walk around like they were queens and then not give any money at all.

But this is par for the course for women. They are spoiled, entitled brats. They like to use the word princess, but princesses were always actually supposed to be extremely socially aware and traditionally worked a lot of charity for their people. Princesses were usually well liked precisely because they were in contrast at times to the other royals who didn’t care about the people.

Modern American women are just straight garbage. Our gynocentric culture praises them and ignores their attitudes, when they’d grill men for it, but they attack men at all times by default.

Sometimes it’s so ridiculous you kind of forget, but it’s important to always remember so that women can’t just pretend they haven’t been pulling this s~~~ for decades. Trust me, they will try that very tactic, I know women very well. They try to deny their own behaviors, but will pull out junk that you’ve said in response to them 20 years later that they claim they didn’t hear or “forgave”. Women are just insufferable.

[OldBillParticipant]

It could have been lousy service on the part of the female waitstaff. On the other hand…

You’re at a local bar for an all-you-can-eat night. Not Golden Corral, not Hometown Buffet, not any of the other chains which routinely and specifically cater to professional and amateur gluttons. Just a neighborhood joint. The bar has prepared a s~~~ ton of fish but, unlike the chains I mentioned, it’s not their usual practice, the quantities are finite, and they want to make sure all their customers get a serving.

You then proceed to wolf down FOUR servings. Not one, not one plus seconds, not one plus seconds plus a little more, but four servings or about twice what they’d planned that a normal customer would eat.

After inhaling your fourth plate of fish, you call for a fifth serving and then you’re actually surprised when the waitstaff suddenly gets a case of the “slows”.

Let me ask, do you have trouble picking up humor, sarcasm, and other social clues? I’m asking because most people with at least a room temperature IQ would understand why their FIFTH plate of food was a little “late” in coming.

I’ve life-long friends in the hospitality industry. They run bars, clubs, restaurants, you name it. Most were born into the work. Talking to them reveals all sorts of inside “secrets” about the business. “Secrets” like how idiots who order complex, time consuming drinks during busy happy hours don’t get a well built c~~~tail because the staff doesn’t have the time. “Secrets” like slowing down food deliveries to gluttons who only show up to inhale huge quantities of free happy hour or game time appetizers or to wolf down huge quantities of “all you can eat” entrees.

Beginning to understand?

It could very be that the waitstaff at that bar were lazy c~~~s. It’s more likely, however, that they slowed down additional deliveries to the “asshole” who had already shoveled down four plates of free fried fish.

Not everything bad that happens is due to or the result of female incompetence. Sometimes, things happen for a reason.

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[ConstantineParticipant 4420]

That reminds me, have you guys seen The Fighter?

Amy Adams plays Mark Wahlberg’s “iron-willed” (read: opinionated and bitchy) girlfriend, who works at a bar when he meets her. She got into my bad books from the word go, blatantly calling a customer a “cheap f~~~er” because he didn’t give her a very big tip. Pardon? Then of course there’s the mandatory scene where Wahlberg slaps a guy for yelling slurs at her, saying “How ’bout a little respect?”

Yeah, just like she respects her patronage? Not to mention that Wahlberg doesn’t seem to give two s~~~s when his friend gushes about her ass seconds earlier.

You did the right thing by not tipping her Resident.

To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

[ResidentEvil7Participant 9555]

OldBill wrote:

You then proceed to wolf down FOUR servings. Not one, not one plus seconds, not one plus seconds plus a little more, but four servings or about twice what they’d planned that a normal customer would eat.

After inhaling your fourth plate of fish, you call for a fifth serving and then you’re actually surprised when the waitstaff suddenly gets a case of the “slows”.

Let me ask, do you have trouble picking up humor, sarcasm, and other social clues? I’m asking because most people with at least a room temperature IQ would understand why their FIFTH plate of food was a little “late” in coming.

I’ve life-long friends in the hospitality industry. They run bars, clubs, restaurants, you name it. Most were born into the work. Talking to them reveals all sorts of inside “secrets” about the business. “Secrets” like how idiots who order complex, time consuming drinks during busy happy hours don’t get a well built c~~~tail because the staff doesn’t have the time. “Secrets” like slowing down food deliveries to gluttons who only show up to inhale huge quantities of free happy hour or game time appetizers or to wolf down huge quantities of “all you can eat” entrees.

Beginning to understand?

It could very be that the waitstaff at that bar were lazy c~~~s. It’s more likely, however, that they slowed down additional deliveries to the “asshole” who had already shoveled down four plates of free fried fish.

Not everything bad that happens is due to or the result of female incompetence. Sometimes, things happen for a reason.

Don’t dick with me; you weren’t there! And for your information, they only give you 2 small cods on a tiny plate at a time, which would not take 30 minutes to “woof down.” I had no problem getting the first through 4th plate, but after that I “woofed down” those tiny little cods, I just sat there waiting while those 3 women noticed me with an empty plate and acted like they didn’t even notice me. I find it deplorable that you’re sticking up for those women while making me look like the bad guy when you clearly know not enough about it! After reading your post, I think you need to rethink who you’re calling the asshole, because remember you weren’t there and had no business commenting that much on it! So until you know more about it, go p~~~ up a rope you troll!

Constantine wrote:

You did the right thing by not tipping her Resident.

HA! In your face OldBill, Mr. Ignorant!

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[DiamondSpectator 258]

ResidentEvil7 wrote:

Yesterday I was at the local bar having a Friday all you can eat fish fry (grilled). Everything was all good up until plate #4, then after that it took over a half hour before anyone even cared enough to continue serving me, but all 3 women bartenders clearly saw I was done with that plate and was waiting for service for a long time. In fact, they had no problem taking care of people who came after me, all because they were women and needed service, I got ignored for a half hour. Funny how it took an eternity to serve me fish plate #5, but they didn’t waste any time handing me the check. Women bartenders means bad service. So for ignoring me for that long and leaving me bored and waiting, I gave them no tip. I don’t tip people who ignore me for that long.

I’m sorry you had this experience. Women in the workplace is a problem, no doubt.

"One hundred women are not worth a single testicle."

[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

Diamond wrote:

ResidentEvil7 wrote:

Yesterday I was at the local bar having a Friday all you can eat fish fry (grilled). Everything was all good up until plate #4, then after that it took over a half hour before anyone even cared enough to continue serving me, but all 3 women bartenders clearly saw I was done with that plate and was waiting for service for a long time. In fact, they had no problem taking care of people who came after me, all because they were women and needed service, I got ignored for a half hour. Funny how it took an eternity to serve me fish plate #5, but they didn’t waste any time handing me the check. Women bartenders means bad service. So for ignoring me for that long and leaving me bored and waiting, I gave them no tip. I don’t tip people who ignore me for that long.

I’m sorry you had this experience. Women in the workplace is a problem, no doubt.

That’s a strange comment Diamond. Why are you sorry?

When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

[,Participant 1301]

OldBill wrote:

It could have been lousy service on the part of the female waitstaff. On the other hand…

Let me ask, do you have trouble picking up humor, sarcasm, and other social clues? most people with at least a room temperature IQ….

I am picking up HUMOR here. I gotta borrow that some time.

.
Is it Metric humor?

with joy/without hate

[AttonParticipant]

This is what Yelp is for

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Anonymous 5]

At bars where this has happened I never return to. Simple – I agree with how you did not tip. The worst is when they get p~~~ed from giving you s~~~ service and except a tip. Pfft- have any of you guys noticed that most women (high amount -obviously not all am sure you guys know one fair women who always plops your favorite ice cold beer when pull up a seat) who work as bartender / servers are narcissistic c~~~s? Hm maybe alittle to critical on that but still.. s~~~ is changing. The hive mind is real man ahh!

[OldBillParticipant]

ResidentEvil7 wrote:

Don’t dick with me; you weren’t there!

I know how bars work. I strongly suspect that you don’t.

And for your information, they only give you 2 small cods on a tiny plate at a time, which would not take 30 minutes to “woof down.”

Two small pieces of cod on a tiny plate? Yet more proof they were offering appetizer-sized portions meant to lure people in so that they could sell more drinks and other food. I don’t think they expected some autistic glutton to squat at the bar nursing a glass of water and taking the phrase All You Can Eat as a literal Biblical commandment.

Ask yourself these two questions:

1 – Was the waitstaff slow with your first four plates?

2 – How many people there ate four plates of fish and wanted to order a fifth?

You weren’t ignored. They knew very well that you wanted more fish. More importantly, they also knew how much fish you’d had already eaten. You received “slow” service for that reason. Whether that reason is one you can comprehend or not is another question.

The decision not to tip is yours to make and yours alone. I’ve held back tips due to poor service in the past. I am certain I will hold back tips in the future. I’m also certain that I’ve never mistaken as poor service a waitstaff’s decision to slow me down from eating my way through the finite amount of free food being offered.

When pieces of cake are being offered at work, I suspect you’re the fellow who has to be repeatedly told that no one can have a second piece until everyone has had a first one.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

I don’t even go to bars to eat. Fast food or a diner or my house. Service is fair, and it’s not cluttered with too many people. I often don’t feel comfortable being served by people who have other priorities so I prefer a peaceful meal in the privacy of my own home to bars.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

I don’t give tips to trollops because they get it through my tax dollars.

F~~~ing parasites!

[Anonymous 11]

OldBill is spot on right. You get people like me who will only eat one to two orders max then others who simply will not stop. I won’t even order a buffet style meal as I usually only can eat a one plate entre. If you want to continue to stay in business, you have to be a jerk sometimes. Yes, the practice is deceptive.

Seafood is expensive even in places like I live where the boats bring it straight to the dock. I’ve had restaurant owners tell me they do exactly what OldBill mentioned about slowing the pace down too. I’ve seen the owner of an oriental buffet directly confront and cut off an abuser. A number of the Mexican restaurants here are getting rid of their buffets.

I hope you weren’t being fed Alaskan Cod. I would not touch that radioactive s~~~ with a ten foot pole.

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

Sorry mate, don’t want to be a bitch about it, but plate number #5 is something i never saw in mainland Europe in my life.

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