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Hi all. It’s been a while. Managed to get myself into a situation where I was seeing three (and nearly four) women concurrently. Seems I never learn but have now cut off all the ties. Still friends with one of them but am keeping my boundaries up now. It’s been a crazy year and all my experiences have done is reconfirm red pill knowledge such as AWALT, hypergamy, Brifaults law etc. It’s an addiction like my addiction to real ale. Focussing on trying to finish my book, reading, exploring new places and leading a quieter more peaceful life far more in tune with MGTOW principles. It seems some men struggle more than others with this. All the sex and being treated like a King (at points) did not compensate in having to deal with the crazy narcissistic creatures we call woman. Nice to be back. Hope you guys are doing well.
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I wish I could get some sex. I think my problem is that I can’t hide the fact that I don’t give a s~~~ about women’s opinions and I will not take s~~~ from them or do what they say. And when I do care about a woman, I end up falling in love REALLY FAST, like within hours or days of seeing her, then she gets smothered and quits and I feel very low emotionally.
I haven’t been laid in over 5 years. I made an honest attempt recently but it didn’t pan out so now I said f~~~ it. Now I just ride my bicycle and doing some exercising to get more fit. I also quit tobacco so I’m doing really good lately.
You may think that Going Your Own Way is great but after five years of no sex, I’m kind of bored. It’s not even about blowing my load in a vagina. I kind of want some emotional/affectionate feelings and action with a woman. I’m in my young prime. I realize the effing danger, I’ve been MGTOW monk for 5 years. I’ve digested all content.
But even if I want some relationship or sex, I can’t find any. The women are just unapproachable; to call them boring, narcissistic, vain, dumb and pretentious is a vast understatement. I don’t know how regular men deal with that s~~~. And I’m definitely not wasting my time following around a woman and paying for s~~~, begging for pussy, just to be friend zoned.
They put me to sleep, they are so boring and stupid. I’d rather read the Bible page for page or watch 20 straight hours of golf than pretend I give a s~~~ about the words coming out of some gash’s mouth, just so I can get in her panties and hold her in bed. What a f~~~ing pathetic act, like a dog chasing a stick. I want it so bad, but Jesus Christ, these c~~~s are not worth it at all.
I can relate to a lot of what Gravel Pit says.
I’ve been monk for nearly two years, and even in those rare moments of weakness when some female emotional attachment or affection might be wanted I can’t find any women that I’d be even slightly tempted to engage with. I find them tedious and shallow.
I have no desperation for sex, quite the opposite. The thought of it is repulsive, as women of my age (late forties) will have had hundreds of c~~~s run through them and I’d need a wetsuit and caving equipment, and even just looking for a bit of intelligent company is a struggle.
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I’d need a wetsuit and caving equipment, and even just looking for a bit of intelligent company is a struggle.
LOL, exactly. It’s like hanging out with a retarded person. No offense to retarded people (like ADHD or Autism or DOWN)…but who can say that women aren’t in general, eerily similar to them? For reals!
Stardusk used to talk about this in Escape Velocity how we bred the intelligence out of women.
I’m telling you brothers, Going Your Own Way (atleast the monk classic version) can be trying at times. It seems every few years, beyond the seasonal yearning for some female action, you get an REAL desire to really find one (not a NAWALT but a female that is mildly tolerable).
And it is akin to rediscovering the bitter red pill all over again! It f~~~ing hurts. The realization that this is how it really is. She doesn’t exist, she’ll never love you, there is no woman to comfort you and save you from your loneliness. I’m 32, five years into ‘knowing’ and basically I’m rediscovering how uninspiring this realization can be, like it hit me before.
Now I understand the post-red pill malaise. All women do is hurt your feelings. All they really offer is pain. They allure you and soon, the pain comes.
Many times, you get re-motivated and super pumped, full of energy and accomplish much, you surprise yourself…all that energy came from the elation caused by a woman and then when she hurts you, the anger/pain you feel, that anger further fuels your campaign to get s~~~ done. Then it all fades back to the malaise.
and all my experiences have done is reconfirm red pill knowledge such as AWALT
All the sex and being treated like a King (at points) did not compensate in having to deal with the crazy narcissistic creatures we call woman
Yep it was the same for me mate – my last GF a bloody nightmare. Treats me like a king to suck me in – then the crazy narc comes out when they think they got you hooked. Monk mode works for me.
Focussing on trying to finish my book, reading, exploring new places and leading a quieter more peaceful life far more in tune with MGTOW principles
I am doing something similar – plus trying to heal my health. Its a quiet life with a few valued friends plus spiritual life/practice. Nevertheless when I see my old mates who are all married and all their wives sooner or later turned into bitches – these guys are now all manginas (apart from one strong minded God conscious mate who does not submit/relinquish his power to his wife and retains his masculinity) so I remind myself of what I have and that based on my previous experiences and what I see and also read here it is good I am not married in this current flawed gyno society.
Peace out.
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I’ve been monk for nearly two years, and even in those rare moments of weakness when some female emotional attachment or affection might be wanted I can’t find any women that I’d be even slightly tempted to engage with. I find them tedious and shallow.
I can also relate guys. All my past GFs were not worth marrying – and I was with some beauties – then I was monk for 3 years by choice – then a very bad relationship with a narc – and now monk again for the past 2 years and monk mode is the best choice for me now. I also lived as a celibate monk in a monastery for a while which was a worthwhile experience (for me). Women in todays mainstream society are a NO-GO area for successful relationships – the odds are simply too bad. One of the last areas (imho) where correct male and female roles are ‘sometimes’ being played out is in ‘certain’ spiritual or religious groups that adhere to correct male and female roles that have been practised successfully for at least tens of thousands of years (ancient wisdom easily surpasses todays messed up ideologies), but today even there the warped ideology of feminism is taking hold in such places (I know from personal experience).
Lurkers if you read this site thoroughly you will see from mens experiences that whole generations of women have had their minds f~~~ed (to at least some degree) by flawed feminist ideology – and it has become very difficult if not impossible to have a so-called normal male-female relationship with such women.
I have no desperation for sex, quite the opposite. The thought of it is repulsive, as women of my age (late forties) will have had hundreds of c~~~s run through them and I’d need a wetsuit and caving equipment, and even just looking for a bit of intelligent company is a struggle.
ha ha – After my last relationship I kind of feel the same.
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A lot of wisdom in what Christopher is saying. Basically, if you want female partner, you might have a chance in some deep faith circles. I’d have to agree, though my experience is limited, mainstream women in the city are a plague (and many of them claim to be faithful but they are anything but).
Both my younger brother and older brother are “happily” married with kids. They have not had any major issues in their marriages ‘yet’ but their luck may have something to do with the fact they and their wives are pretty hardcore Christians, they do not miss church. One has a Master’s in Divinity so he could be the pastor if he wanted to.
So it’s no wonder that my agnosticism and refusal to attend such gatherings as church, hasn’t helped in finding anything even remotely resembling a NAWALT. Instead, I frequently run across the exact women we talk about, very entitled, rude, demanding and have had MANY sexual partners previously. They’ve usually had an abortion, divorce, kid, or they are post-wall neurotic.
And there you have it.
You know.. Cancer wards//./ Those chicks put out. And no problems with comintiment.
Kind of nice to f~~~ the dying. I mean your going to be the last one! That’s almost like being first! 🙂If your really cheap. I would go to venezuela. Print a bunch of 1 dollar bills, and use them as legal tender there. Your DICK may thank you.
Also, if you are looking for feelings> Try finding a blind woman. Or a woman who is deaf.
And this thing about listening to them? Why are you NOT stuffing your dick in their mouths? They don’t want you to listen to them. They have Betas for that s~~~.
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They have Betas for that s~~~
I think I’m one of those LOL. I think the reason I never get laid on a date is that I never try and get in her panties. I guess you’re supposed to grab her and just start taking it, and if she screams, just stop?
Ive had plenty of dates that end in the woman being in my house. Then, like half an hour later, nothing has happened and she asks to leave or whatever. What’s the deal? I guess women do not appreciate being treated well. They just want you to grab them buy the neck and force her down on her knees to suck dick?
Women are all trash. I’m not going to borderline rape chicks just to see if they are waiting for me to make the first move. I guess that’s how it works, that’s how “alphas” get pussy so often.
F~~~ing cancer girls and deaf chicks, that is not such a bad idea. I might develop a fetish for disabled chicks though so that would be f~~~ing mental.
I wish I could get some sex.
Go to an honest woman or just know that the woman you date is just a rental. Don’t become too attached and enjoy the ride. I have turned down three women this past year that were foisted upon me by friends. If they do not meet your standards do not accept them. They find out your single and the target is on your back. There are many vultures out there looking for single guys to lock down (usually to pay for the kids they already have). Just draw the line at companionship, no co-habitation, marriage and for f~~~sakes no kids.
The women are just unapproachable; to call them boring, narcissistic, vain, dumb and pretentious is a vast understatement.
You forgot fat.
I find them tedious and shallow.
…and fat!
women of my age (late forties) will have had hundreds of c~~~s run through them
…and are fat with two kids.
F~~~ing cancer girls and deaf chicks, that is not such a bad idea. I might develop a fetish for disabled chicks though so that would be f~~~ing mental.
Hahaha! Brilliant.
Everyday above ground is a good one. Everyday above ground while single...better still.
Why be friends with a female? Their only use is for fun (sex) and procreation (babies). Cut them off, see how fast they run after you. If you keep them around with no sex, they will friendzone you. Then, when you are ready to f~~~ them again, they will no longer be interested.
I think my problem is that I can’t hide the fact that I don’t give a s~~~ about women’s opinions and I will not take s~~~ from them or do what they say.
Trust me, that is not your problem.
I wish I could get some sex.
That is your problem.
You want sex. They can see that. So they instinctively try to set a price. But they can also see that you’re unwilling to pay any price for sex, so you immediately reach a business impasse with them.
All women do is hurt your feelings. All they really offer is pain.
And that is because the only metric whimyn have is drama. The amount of drama they can inflict and sustain is a direct measure of their control and their power. The huge house, urban assault vehicle and their plow horse (husbank) working till he dies is just never enough: because ‘they are worth it.’
Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.
I think my problem is …I don’t give a s~~~ about women’s opinions and I will not take s~~~ from them
Trust me, that is not your problem.
I wish I could get some sex.
That is your problem.
You want sex. They can see that. So they instinctively try to set a price. But they can also see that you’re unwilling to pay any price for sex, so you immediately reach a business impasse with them.
I agree on the business impasse thing in my case; but all men want sex. This is the first thing women are taught.
Some men like me (possibly) have an Inferiority/Superiority Complex. I will not appease her requirements to get in her pants, I don’t even know what those requirements are because they are so obscure and unlogical. (Unlogical, meaning women will ask you out with neither the intention to f~~~ you or to have a romance/relationship with you. Their motives are obscure, even to themselves. Trying to understand women’s thought patterns are like sweeping sand off the beach) I simply don’t understand them and my personality is that I will always win and I will never submit.
Basically I need her automatic, unconditional surrender and loyalty as well as for her to give up her muffin without hesitation if I so please to take it. ONLY AFTER her loyalty/submission/sexual offering will I consider playing the f~~~ing games they want to play. That’s the problem, they expect my surrender first and its not going to happen. Furthermore, my Power stance is only the doorway to me. Some women who actually get in are immediately put off by the fact that the otherside of me is emotional/romantic/artistic/eccentric/mysterious and ultimately a paradox of the POWER shell outside. It’s too contradictory and they flee.
Figuratively, I’m the Red Dragon Emperor and she is a peasant slave girl. Those are MY requirements to get in my pants. Obviously women sense the dominance right away and flee. They know I will not be accommodating or playing by their rules. I was like this well before I ever stumbled into MGTOW 5 years ago. And being this way has always been a recipe for not getting laid. However, I can’t change it because it’s at my very core, it’s subconsciously who I am.
I think I’m starting to make some real progress in understanding myself more (as a result of sobriety) and I believe I’m approaching self awareness. Previously in life, I did not understand women or myself very well. 5 years of MGTOW has illuminated women. 5 years of sobriety is starting to help me better understand how I am especially in relation to others, what they perceive.
It’s not about caring what other people think about you but it is relevant how other people respond to how you behave and appear. If you’re trying to get particular responses and treatment, knowing your self is vital.I wish I could get some sex. I think my problem is that I can’t hide the fact that I don’t give a s~~~ about women’s opinions and I will not take s~~~ from them or do what they say. And when I do care about a woman, I end up falling in love REALLY FAST, like within hours or days of seeing her, then she gets smothered and quits and I feel very low emotionally.
I haven’t been laid in over 5 years. I made an honest attempt recently but it didn’t pan out so now I said f~~~ it. Now I just ride my bicycle and doing some exercising to get more fit. I also quit tobacco so I’m doing really good lately.
I’m 32. The last time I had sex was just before my ex-wife pooped the kid out (a little over 5.5 years). Every now and then I get that hormonal kick that drives you up the walls, and it’s usually a result from several days of strenuous physical activity. I’ve managed to maneuver myself into a position where it takes a lot of effort on my part to even get out and chase tail, so in addition to women just being absolutely unattractive (bread-basket state, they’re all land whales as soon as they hit college), narcissistic, entitled c~~~s, I have to go well out of my way to even be around them.
And then I remember how much god damn work it is and what the payoff is (financial ruin). That sobers me pretty quickly. As much as it might be nice or convenient to have some random thot to blow off steam with, you have to remember that ANY of them can ruin your life, none of them are introspective or empathetic, and all of them WILL ruin your life at the perception of self-gain.
Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805Pussy is extremely over-rated. You can’t put a price on peace and freedom from bulls~~~.
The female friends i do have are actually supportive and helpful to me, largely. It’s when I have sex with women that most problems happen.
The juice ain’t worth the squeeze. It’s a very dangerous addiction. You will get that sex you crave and it won’t be worth it. There’s always a cost.If you fall down 7 times, get up 8
Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805- AuthorPosts
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