Article: C~~~ regrets marital counselling.

[iMickey503Participant 12468]

Well she looks pretty happy in these photos. So not really sure what the f~~~ this s~~~ is about. I guess from a woman’s point of view, this is some strange warning to be wary of divorce as it can not always be a total win.

Oh well. Glad the guy is free. Sad another family ruined and a another single mom.

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[bstoffParticipant 4885]

Zarathustra wrote:

How hard is it to give your husband a blow job? I really don’t get this sexless marriage s~~~. You blow your husband, it takes 5 minutes, and he’s off your back and happy for the next few days. What is so god damn hard about that? Its sounds like that would have fixed 1/2 the problem.
These bitches do not understand you have to give to get. If you want your husband to help you with the baby, you likely pressured him into getting in the first place, give him that 5 minutes. Sheesh!

@Zarathrusta you should be a marriage counselor!

[Anonymous 3]

Zarathustra wrote:

How hard is it to give your husband a blow job? I really don’t get this sexless marriage s~~~. You blow your husband, it takes 5 minutes, and he’s off your back and happy for the next few days. What is so god damn hard about that? Its sounds like that would have fixed 1/2 the problem.

These bitches do not understand you have to give to get. If you want your husband to help you with the baby, you likely pressured him into getting in the first place, give him that 5 minutes. Sheesh!

Unfortunately you are right.

I say unfortunately because it implies that:

1- men are so easy to please that she only needs to make a 5 minutes effort and may keep being a bitch for the remaining 1435 minutes of the day.

2- women do not care enough to even invest those 5 minutes.

But that leads to the following conclusions:

1- men are victims of their sexual instinct, and sacrifice their happiness for 5 minutes worth of sex.

2- it is not that they do not care, is that they RESENT doing anything for a man.

The take out is: walk away from women and get a sexbot.

You have your 5 minutes then put it in the closet, no more bitching or resentful sex…

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

“started to feel resentful. I felt like my business couldn’t reach its full potential because of Alex’s inflexibility. If I had a meeting, he was unwilling to change his plans to do the pre-school drop-off.”

Just pause and consider the variables in the entire equation

2 children – one rather young child
2 adults
The man is employed
The woman got laid off and is trying to start some marketing business.

Now assume that they are renting and don’t own a home and throw into the equation that there are bills to be paid and kids need to be fed and clothed. Where is that money supposed to come from? It sure as f~~~ isn’t going to be coming from the unemployed woman who is trying to start a business. Oh no, that’s supposed to come from the husband who all of a sudden now has to earn enough to feed 2 kids one of which isn’t even his. Oh and remember, he’s got to do all this while being “flexible” so that she can chase her dream. Really the lack of any awareness by the idiot who wrote this s~~~ is astounding. I’m not happy, he needs to make his job flexible as if he has all this freedom to show up and work whenever he wants. Most employers are not going to put up with that s~~~.

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

2- it is not that they do not care, is that they RESENT doing anything for a man.

Correction, they resent doing anything for anyone else. Period. Women are the “Gimme!” gender.

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[OldBillParticipant]

foghornleghorn wrote:

Where is that money supposed to come from? It sure as f~~~ isn’t going to be coming from the unemployed woman who is trying to start a business.

Exactly. He has a job. She had a meeting. The two aren’t comparable at all.

I see these play acting c~~~s all the time. A small city near me was a mill town and many of the mill buildings are still standing. The city has been able to re-purpose most as as living, office, and commercial space so there’s a line of small shops along main street downtown. A handful change hands like clockwork every 9 to 12 months and all for the same reason; some middle-aged c~~~ thought it would be fun to play store and opened a knickknack shop on her husbank’s dime. After a few months, it’s not fun anymore, she hasn’t sold enough crap to pay the light bill, and hubby stops underwriting her hobby.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[narwhalParticipant]

Yep. My ex wanted marriage counseling. I went enthusiastically. The guy didn’t even really give us advice so much as gave us exercises to do to help us figure out our own problems. I was still enthusiastic. Happy to admit where I had screwed up and looking to change things. My ex was not. Then she accused me of trying to use the counselor to get my way. I was trying to control her.

In hindsight, the ex thought marriage counseling was a tool. She initially was hoping the threat of counseling would scare me into behaving more to her liking. Didn’t work. Then she hoped the counselor who agree with her about all the things she thought was wrong with me. Didn’t work either. When she saw that she might be asked into making some changes herself, she’d had enough.

As far as the article, there is nothing ironic about her suggesting the counseling and feeling it’s at fault. She went into with clear expectations. To put pressure on husband to do more for her while expecting less in return. When the reverse happens, and husband realizes he’s already getting a crappy deal, of course she sees it as the end of her beneficial situation.

Ok. Then do it.

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