Article: C~~~ regrets marital counselling.

[MonkParticipant 17020]

Source: Joanna Francis, Daily Mail “Why counselling can destroy rather than save your marriage: I know, says Jo-Anna Francis, because it killed mine”. 09/05/2018.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-5710545/Why-counselling-destroy-save-marriage.html

Half way through, there it is … “I’m not hapeee”.

You couldn’t make it up.

[Colin Combover in a ComaParticipant 5068]

Remember going counselling with ex-wife during our marital difficulties. Sitting there with nothing to say, sour faced. Afterwards, she said she enjoyed it. I stated would she like to go again? yes was the reply. Phoned her up 5days later, said no, nothing to talk about.

[Knarley BobParticipant 2219]

That a jem! My wife insisted we get counselling. Right up to the point the “Counseller” was telling her about the same thing I was. Next thing I knew, the house was empty.

OATHKEEPERS, not on our watch. MOLON LABE

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

There was no love.
he didnt make enough for a second house.
he snores.
i deserve better.
is the economy.
counselling ruined my marriage.

ALWAYS SOMEONE ELSE FOULT.

never I F~~~ED UP.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[OldBillParticipant]

She’s a two-time divorcee but the failure of both marriages have nothing to do with her. With marriage #2, she’s blaming the divorce on the therapist she herself chose!

She’d already s~~~ out a daughter, dumped that father, then shacked up with the cuck who would become Husbank #2. They lived together for 5 years, she s~~~ out a son, they got married, and it was all over 3 years later.

The tensions started when she was laid off from her busywork job after returning from months of maternity leave. She couldn’t juggle “starting up” her own “business” with caring for her new baby, her feelings got hurt, they went to counseling, he woke up, and the divorce train left the station.

That horse faced skank belongs on a recruiting poster for MGTOW.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Colin Combover in a ComaParticipant 5068]

Carnage wrote:

There was no love.
he didnt make enough for a second house.
he snores.
i deserve better.
is the economy.
counselling ruined my marriage.

ALWAYS SOMEONE ELSE FOULT.

never I F~~~ED UP.

In my case, didn’t give her a baby. Tadpoles drowned. Had some other useless tosser blowing his teabags up her flaccid flaps.

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

Same old bulls~~~. “I was unhappy and I was the responsibility of everyone else in my life to make me happy, be it my husband the counselor or someone else.”

What the c~~~s don’t realise is even if the husband is picking up 10% of the workload (very conservative percentage for sake of argument) that is 10% more than what you would be getting alone. They just don’t get it.

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

How hard is it to give your husband a blow job? I really don’t get this sexless marriage s~~~. You blow your husband, it takes 5 minutes, and he’s off your back and happy for the next few days. What is so god damn hard about that? Its sounds like that would have fixed 1/2 the problem.

These bitches do not understand you have to give to get. If you want your husband to help you with the baby, you likely pressured him into getting in the first place, give him that 5 minutes. Sheesh!

[Anonymous 7]

OldBill wrote:

The tensions started when she was laid off from her busywork job after returning from months of maternity leave. She couldn’t juggle “starting up” her own “business” with caring for her new baby

I know a dude that married a post wall chick that made more than he did so he/they decided that he would be a stay at home dad and he would start his own business and and look after the womb turd.

About 3 years in he landed a contract that required him to be in house so they shipped the kid off to day care.

During the 3 or so years that he looked after womb turd and ran his own business not once did resent the egg donor, not once did he voice a complaint about the arrangement.

F~~~ing useless bitchs.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

It’s the councilors fault for pointing out that she has no accountability.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

This is also a gem:

“started to feel resentful. I felt like my business couldn’t reach its full potential because of Alex’s inflexibility. If I had a meeting, he was unwilling to change his plans to do the pre-school drop-off.”

Its because as a woman who is handing everything, you don’t understand that to work, to earn money, to have a marketable career, you can’t just drop everything to help your wife with childcare so she can indulge in her hobby business that brings in no money.

That’s the reason you don’t have your job in the first place: You took time off for maternity leave, and they learned, to your surprise ,after not having you around that you really weren’t contributing.

Now you want your husband to put in less time at work to help you lose his job?

What a c~~~!

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

Interesting that she can’t even be consistent with the blame she wishes to passively-aggressively dump on her partner:

Alex was more of a closed book. If I tried to discuss how we could organise childcare differently or how unhappy it was making me, he’d change the subject.

So, from what I am hearing, you wish Alex would be more open and expressive about his feelings?

I was heartbroken that my husband was being incredibly open and honest with a counsellor in a way he wasn’t when we were alone together. It was unexpectedly hard seeing him so vulnerable.

I wanted someone strong I could rely on. Instead, I saw something else I had to ‘take care of’.

Typical c~~~, doesn’t matter what way he turns, it’s the wrong way.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

We went to marital counselling and just after the first session the counselor kicked us out as a hopeless case

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

I’ve never dealt with any marriage counselor, but I suspect it’s even more useless a profession than school guidance counselor.

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

I tried marriage counseling. I got her mother to pressure her into going. But she didn’t want to fix anything, she wanted to go scorched earth and start over hoping for different results.

Hindsight? I’m glad she’s not my f~~~ing problem anymore, and after a year of worthless personal therapy (at no personal cost except time–yay insurance), I realized on my own I did nothing wrong and all the problems were projected onto me.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

It is obvious shes the one that f~~~ed up.

Marriage counseling means, im about to divorce my husband.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

They want to go to counseling not to fix the marriage but to be proven right or to pressure the husband to do what she wants…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

NerdTunneler wrote:

They want to go to counseling not to fix the marriage but to be proven right or to pressure the husband to do what she wants…

Yes yes yes. This.

[BlakeGuyParticipant 287]

hahahaha

I went to counseling with my ex, the counselor heard my mgtow and said to her. Just get divorced. Was great.

Let the good times roll

[OpenRoadParticipant 37]

I know what happened. He figured out she was a tranny and hit the road. Look at her. You know I’m right.

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