Apparently I'm an asshole

[GeraldParticipant 3631]

Yeah, still in my mess for those who know my back story.

Have been growing more and more NFG but today I was kind of nailed. I forgot something that happened about two weeks ago, that was significant and got called on it by my relations~~~. I deserved the s~~~… and the silent “it doesn’t matter” treatment.

What is the overall takeaway?

Yes, it is ok to be an asshole. NFG is ok, but you have to be prepared. Maybe I am not. But to tell you new guys… the he’ll you go through in the relationship, especially after it hits the wall, is not worth it. Ten years of hell. And still suffering.

Signed -too dumb to walk away and go his own way

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[joetechParticipant]

I was an asshole, too…until I simply left. Now, I’m just an ass and nobody cares or gives me s~~~ about it. Moving on may be difficult, but it’s worth the peace to do so.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Anonymous 42]

Any of you guys wanna shovel you surplus asshole on me feel free, lighten your load, go ahead, I don’t care how much of an asshole people think I am.

Limit, one ton per asshole.

[bladeParticipant]

I am a c~~~ . F~~~ been called an arsehole i would be offended

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[bladeParticipant]

You guys are f~~~ing amateurs . Im a f~~~ing high roller bro’s . You guys need to not let pricks insult you like that

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Anonymous 42]

blade wrote:

You guys need to not let pricks insult you like that

It’s only an insult if it bothers you, the ultimate NFG.

[Elric GreenstoneParticipant 1637]

Welcome! According to women, we’re all assholes here, so you’re in awesome company.

Although according to women, all men are assholes, so your XY chromosome set puts you in that company anyway.

Welcome regardless.

"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Lasts time a chick called me a asshole, she was riding me saying how much she was cumming.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Of course you are an asshole. All men are rapists. Etc.

Dude, you are a good man and we are glad you are here.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Gerald wrote:

Signed -too dumb to walk away and go his own way

Can’t really help you there, my friend.

Gerald wrote:

Yes, it is ok to be an asshole.

Actually it’s a compliment. In many cases one of the BEST compliments you can get (from an American female , anyway). If you’re hearing “OMG you’re so sweet!” it means you’re doing something TRAGICALLY wrong.

Not only is it “OK” to be an asshole, but a western female will treat you like an asshole no matter what you do. Buy her flowers, you’re after something. DON’T buy her flowers, and you’re not thoughtful. Asshole either way.

Gerald wrote:

What is the overall takeaway?

SMILE.

Gerald wrote:

Ten years of hell

I would ask what you’re doing there in the first place. When it’s “hell”, for f~~~sake man, if she’s not a lovely person to be around who’s warm and loving …. dump that bitch like an anchor with zero hesitation or remorse.

Gerald wrote:

I forgot something that happened about two weeks ago, that was significant and got called on it

So what. You forgot something. I “forgot” February 14th was “Valentines Day” once and didn’t call or do a goddam thing. On the 15th, I called her up and offered to take her out for a bite and a movie. She actually had the f~~~ing nerve to call me an “asshole” for that and behaved like I “treated her badly”.

Someone f~~~ing explain to me how not doing anything on Feb 14th but offering something kind on the 15th is the same as “treating her badly” – or being an “asshole” – and I will eat my sweaty socks.

That’s when I realized the % of upset she is — >> is the % of selfish bitch she is. Doesn’t make me an “asshole” at all.

Gerald wrote:

Apparently I’m an asshole

A badge of honor. She’ll be happy too! Because you die her plenty to complain about. But even then, she still won’t leave. As long as you’re an asshole, she’ll stick with you for a mother 10 years of hell!

Wanna get rid of her as quickly as possible?
Be a really “nice guy”. Women HATE that s~~~.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

It’s better to be an asshole than a chump.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

If you’re being called an asshole it means she cares more about the relationship status staying the same than you do.

https://www.bing.com/search?pc=FOWI&form=AMZNS2&q=the+person+who+controls+the+relationship+is+the+one+who+cares+less

If you’re being called any name it’s because she senses the imbalance of power and knows that she has nothing but your own emotions available to pull you back into her control.

You said it was a significant, but if you hadn’t chosen a hotel over your own home for the sake of the peace she destroyed would your mind have slipped the detail.

If she had been pleasant instead of making you seek solace. If she had been a good woman and treated you well. If she had blown you (like before) and mentioned the important thing afterward while you were relaxed and comfortable, would you have still forgotten.

She put you into flight mode where only survival matters. She “made” you an asshole just to get the chance to call you one.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[SlayherParticipant 2074]

I’ll take asshole over white knight anytime.

Hope you find the courage to walk away.

MGTOW is the answer.

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

In my senior year in high school my nickname was literally just “The Asshole”

My father was an asshole too.
That’s who I learned it from.

Being an asshole is a great character trait.

Monk

[GeraldParticipant 3631]

Appreciate all the comments guys. Financially I can’t make the break yet and know it is the downfall.

All of you make good points and I know what has to happen, but knowing and doing is difficult… still too much blue pill left.

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

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