Anyone in a Marriage like mine looking for advice

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Yep great thread some very good advice.

Get out but plan it. Accumulate cash. Make the house ready for sale, so do repairs that add value and wealth. Cut her off from your life. Go see your parents without her, visit them, they are important, she is gone. Lots of ways to cut her out of your life. Dont cook the food she likes, dont watch tv with her, take the kids out a lot, and even try and move onto a couch. If you play your cards right she might chad, or maybe divorce you. But if not then just divorce her. Try and empty your accounts and investments, get it into cash or into yur parents name. Your dad will likely help you do that. Stop buying stuff except for the kids especially big ticket items like furniture, cars ect. Even downgrade your car if you dare. Also important to push her into working. At least here that is important to reduce support payments. You are f~~~ed though for support but less years of her not working means less support. (at least here anyway). See a lawyer and talk about your plans, have good questions. If you read a lot of threads here you will know most of the strategy. Use this site to deal with the emotional factors. Reduce your income the immediate people before the separation. Kids are strong they will be fine whatever you decide, well given you stay close as you are now. Avoid arguing with her, ignore her as much as possible but put that in gradually.

Let the good times roll

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