Anyone got any theories on this?

[Anonymous 1]

Was out last night for the 2nd phase of my younger brothers stag do (I know, poor guy is getting married)

We’re in this trendy bar by the river and bump into some guy I use to play football with. He introduces me to a female friend he’s with, I offer her a handshake and she doesn’t flinch doesn’t shake my hand and refuses to make eye contact. It was embarrassing to say the least (he looked shocked). I just walked off.

I’m still burning up in red pill rage but I cannot get my head around this one. She had a nice body but the face was ugly and I had zero sexual interest.

I’m 6’ft, I keep myself in good shape and to quote keymaster “I don’t look like Shrek”. I get a lot of compliments from women about my looks so I cannot understand why she did this. I’m 31 and I’d estimate her age around 40.

I was not coming onto her, I extended a common courtesy which was flatly refused. I’m trying to enjoy my Sunday but I’m p~~~ed off about this.

I understand AWALT, but this one just didnt make sense to me. Can anyone shed any light?

[Anonymous 42]

She’s f~~~ed up in the head! It’s that simple. No eye contact? No normal response? F~~~ED UP> IN. THE. HEAD. Tag it and bag it!

It’s as easy as stepping over s~~~!
You don’t have to smell it, you don’t have to touch it, you don’t have to taste it.

RECOGNIZE IT! step over it and walk on your merry way!

I can’t stand f~~~ed up dogs, or f~~~ed up people, both aren’t worth knowing…

[BoarParticipant]

Very odd. The given observations (40ish, nice body, unpretty face) makes her sound post-wall. Do you know there is romantic interests between the two? It sounds like she may not have wanted to be there and used rudeness as a protest.

What sprung to my mind right away was two differing sides of hypergamy. The first being that she was more interested in your friend (either making him happy or miserable) than you, which means she can rudely ignore you without social cost.

The second side is more interesting. Possibly she viewed you as out of her league and she choked. Or, she really does not want to show any hypergamy in front of her current interest, your friend. She may be trying to hold onto the last monkey branch she can grasp. If you think this is the case, give your friend the red pill.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[Spank The MisandristsParticipant 2308]

Well she’s ugly inside and outside, so she needs to invent some abnormal behaviors to stand out and draw male attention. And it works, see you submitted a post about her, if she knew you are talking about her in this forum, her panties will be drippingly wet.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Could have been anything. She may be a hugger, might have been protesting being there, or could be a megac~~~.

Regardless, enjoy your Sunday and get on with it. You weren’t wanting to f~~~ her, and you were only being polite in meeting a new person.

It’s her problem unless you let it become yours… the bitch wins. So make today about all what you want to do and don’t worry about what motivates a 9 year older woman to be a bitch, you could go insane.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[atlasParticipant 285]

Common courtesy is as much a misnomer as common sense. I don’t expect either from anyone anymore. It’s a nice surprise when it shows up. Actually I see it as rarely in men as I do in women these days, especially from those in the under-30 and/or post-wall-denial crowd.

Joller this broad is not worth your time or energy… and I think you know it. To spend any more time thinking about it, or in fact letting it affect your mood AT ALL is doing yourself a disservice.

“We are on strike, we, the men of the mind. We are on strike against self-immolation. We are on strike against the creed of unearned rewards and unrewarded duties. We are on strike against the dogma that the pursuit of one's happiness is evil. We are on strike against the doctrine that life is guilt.”

[Anonymous 1]

Boar wrote:

Do you know there is romantic interests between the two?

I did get that impression, yes. Still, I cannot fathom why she refused to shake my hand. She just made herself look a total f~~~ing dickhead.

Boar wrote:

The second side is more interesting. Possibly she viewed you as out of her league and she choked.

I did consider this. She was definitely post wall. It just doesn’t quite add up though, surely you would still be willing to shake someone’s hand? Even if you consider them out of your league.

[Anonymous 1]

Ogre wrote:

Regardless, enjoy your Sunday and get on with it. You weren’t wanting to f~~~ her, and you were only being polite in meeting a new person

atlas wrote:

Joller this broad is not worth your time or energy… and I think you know it. To spend any more time thinking about it, or in fact letting it affect your mood AT ALL is doing yourself a disservice.

Great advice. I need to forget this. Its already taken too much of my head space today.

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

Who knows whats going on in the head of a woman.They dont even know.

With women you are damd if you do and damnd if you dont.

AWALT

Thats why Men Go Their Own Way.

Understand?????

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[Anonymous 11]

Forget you must. Consider this a training session for furthering your red pill skills.

I’ve made it to Sunday morning without a woman ruining my weekend, yet. I did have a mangina alert Friday afternoon, but managed to elude it.

Women tend to over rely on feelings and have hidden agendas out the wazoo. Either that or as Tower implied she is bat s~~~ insane. At a minimum, she has zero social skills.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I was not coming onto her, I extended a common courtesy which was flatly refused. I’m trying to enjoy my Sunday but I’m p~~~ed off about this.

I understand AWALT, but this one just didnt make sense to me. Can anyone shed any light?

The exceptions are few to this rule I’ve discovered at great cost: The new ‘she’ will do anything to cut her new ‘he’ off from his old friends. As you are an old friend, she was all too willing to crap all over you — in a passive aggressive way of course.

Anonymous wrote:

She’s f~~~ed up in the head! It’s that simple. No eye contact? No normal response? F~~~ED UP> IN. THE. HEAD. Tag it and bag it!

Yep, see above.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 42]

joller984, Do you have any issues with rejection? I’m not insulting you, no one likes rejection, how we handle it makes all the difference.
I try to use rejection in a positive way, like sorting out bad nuts on a convener belt, I throw people like that away, just like sorting nuts.
Assholes and f~~~ups get thrown away.

I have absolutely no feelings of road rage either, my mind stays anchored in logic like a machine expecting anything from any angle or wild life running out from the forest. That’s where I learned to sort out the nuts without taking anything personal. Perhaps I learned that in self defense, deal with jabs by looking out for the kicks, you train your mind to walk away immediately waiting for the next thing coming your way.

It’s a mental circuitry that has worked very well for me, no time is wasted asking why???
Use rejection and transgression in all it’s forms to run your misery converter, it’s a preemptive labeling of responses you engineer yourself (in your own mind) It’s like advanced mental blocking everything that’s thrown at you, it’s a mental voltage regulator.

Rejection should be treated like a road hazard, don’t ask why the drunken farmer dug a trench across the road, recognize it, turn around and go the other way. Like wind going around a tree, does it ever go through the tree? Red pill rage is when you realize you’ve wasted your time trying to go through all the tree.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I try to use rejection in a positive way, like sorting out bad nuts on a convener belt, I throw people like that away, just like sorting nuts.

How much smoother my life’s road would have been, if only I had been this wise in my teenage years!! Head this man, my Brothers.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Could be many things, I would hoper her interest saw what a c~~~ she is , so will do her then throw her to the kerb.

As has been said who cares what some random c~~~ does.

[SpacemonkeyParticipant 1481]

It could have been any number of things, she might have just had a row with the BF, could have the painters in or she is just pain rude, non of which has anything to do with you. You played it with a straight bat, simply shrug and walk away.

“Long is the way and hard, that out of Hell leads up to light.”

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

Don’t waste your time wondering why irrational people do irrational things. She’s rude. That’s all there is to it. She’s upset and unhappy and, in true female fashion, wants to make sure everyone she comes in contact with is also unhappy. That’s it. Miserable women want everyone else to be as miserable as them. Now don’t give her that satisfaction and enjoy your day/evening.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[Anonymous 54]

You can chase your tail to eternity trying to guess what a female brain is up to.She was probably intimidated by your big goodlooking Manlyness. She could have been on the verge of cumming,and to make eye contact or your touch could push her over the edge in front of boyfriend. Or maby shes mad cause they ran out of ice cream. Who knows who cares!!

[Anonymous 1]

Anonymous wrote:

joller984, Do you have any issues with rejection? I’m not insulting you, no one likes rejection, how we handle it makes all the difference.
I try to use rejection in a positive way, like sorting out bad nuts on a convener belt, I throw people like that away, just like sorting nuts.
Assholes and f~~~ups get thrown away.
I have absolutely no feelings of road rage either, my mind stays anchored in logic like a machine expecting anything from any angle or wild life running out from the forest. That’s where I learned to sort out the nuts without taking anything personal. Perhaps I learned that in self defense, deal with jabs by looking out for the kicks, you train your mind to walk away immediately waiting for the next thing coming your way.
It’s a mental circuitry that has worked very well for me, no time is wasted asking why???
Use rejection and transgression in all it’s forms to run your misery converter, it’s a preemptive labeling of responses you engineer yourself (in your own mind) It’s like advanced mental blocking everything that’s thrown at you, it’s a mental voltage regulator.
Rejection should be treated like a road hazard, don’t ask why the drunken farmer dug a trench across the road, recognize it, turn around and go the other way. Like wind going around a tree, does it ever go through the tree? Red pill rage is when you realize you’ve wasted your time trying to go through all the tree

I do have some issues with rejection. Its not a feeling I’ve enjoyed in the past and this incident really p~~~ed me off. Just pushed me further into red pill rage.

Your post has made me think though, I’m looking at rejection the wrong way and there is no reason to hold onto it.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3726]

Anonymous wrote:

Great advice. I need to forget this. Its already taken too much of my head space today.

I do the same thing. I overreact to rejection, so much so that the fear of it sometimes keeps me from social situations. Any cure for that?

Anonymous wrote:

joller984, Do you have any issues with rejection? I’m not insulting you, no one likes rejection, how we handle it makes all the difference.

Yep. MGTOWERS advice was really helpful.

uchibenkei wrote:

Miserable women want everyone else to be as miserable as them. Now don’t give her that satisfaction and enjoy your day/evening.

Now aint that the truth. I’ll have to remember that.

Anonymous wrote:

do have some issues with rejection. Its not a feeling I’ve enjoyed in the past and this incident really p~~~ed me off. Just pushed me further into red pill rage.

Anonymous wrote:

it’s a preemptive labeling of responses you engineer yourself (in your own mind)

MGTower (or anyone else) – could you give me some examples of pre-engineered responses? I think that would be really helpful.

I haven’t been out on the dating/pickup scene per se for some time now (a couple of f~~~buddy girls on the side is all), but when I get rejected or treated badly by women, that s~~~ can spin around in my head for days.

I know it’s irrational, I know I shouldn’t be giving some broad “free rent in my headspace” like that, but for some reason I just can’t help it.

Anyone else work through that problem? How did you do it? It seems like the best approach is not letting other people define my self worth, etc, blah blah blah. And while that makes total logical sense, it somehow doesn’t make it through to the emotional level, and rejection still causes an inordinate amount of anxiety for me.

Any thoughts appreciated.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[finallyfreeParticipant 341]

I may be overthinking this one but maybe your former football friend gets jealous when she talks to guys in public. Maybe she did that on purpose so that when he asks her later why she acted so rude towards you, she can say “well you always get so jealous when I talk to guys, so I just kept my mouth closed and my hands to myself, isn’t that what you want?”
You know going to the extreme to prove a point. Women do that kind of s~~~ all the time. Or she could be intimidated by the fact that you are out of her league and just went mute out of embarrassment?? Who knows? women’s brain structure is not normal/

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