Any Advice about blue-pilled friends?

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A really good mate of mine got married six months or so ago. It’s been frightening how fast he has dropped off the radar, he and his wife hosted a party last month (first time I’ve seen him since the wedding) which was mainly an opportunity for his wife and her female friends and relatives to sit around clucking and showing off. I’ve always considered him be be a purple pill kind of guy, a bit like me. He resent told me that his wife is now pregnant and just like a tap that was it, our friendship seems to be off. I think he knows in his heart of hearts he’s f~~~ed, he no longer replies to texts or emails from me and that does upset me somewhat. I actually gave him one last shot this weekend to catch up for a beer or something. Three messages over a 24hr period with no reply, so I sent off the “go f~~~ yourself” text. Had to happen, but I now I guess I have just given his wife the ammo she was always looking for. Now I’m the c~~~ and was never right for him anyway angle. Can’t win.

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This brings to mind a buddy I have been coaching a bit on dealing with Blue Pill People.  This person is somewhat where he can absorb some Truth. Here’s the Transcript of our Convo:

ME: Agreed. And that being said, you have to protect that expression by being selective on who you share your Truth and Dreams with. You have tasted the Red Pill…The Matrix Pill of Liberation. Most people…even your beloved Father…is a Blue Pill person…Conformist and Status Quo Muthaf~~~as. Bless Dey Frucken Hearts.

HIM:  I need to still see The Matrix. Is that what it was about? What’s red and blue pill?

ME: You haven’t seen the Matrix??? OMFG. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Red_pill_and_blue_pill.   Red pill and blue pill – Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia</div>

HIM: No. Is that what it’s about? I need to see it, I know. Thanks. It’s great to have friends like you. How have you permitted to go this long.?

ME: Growth takes going through the Cycles of Unraveling.  Look at where you were two years ago and where you are today. You will see signs of the Unraveling.

HIM: Oh, I see them. The challenging part for me now is knowing that I have and wanting other people to experience their own unique journey yet they do not see the point or relevance.

ME: I say F~~~ Them For Now. F~~~ Them. LOL.

Continue to focus on your own Unraveling. Otherwise…you will find that those Blue Pill Muthaf~~~as you wanna save are not ready to be saved.  If you are not Secure in your Truth…They will pull you back in and you’ll Drown.

I’m clearly grounded in my Truth. You’re not yet.  I’ll selectively throw my life preserver to those ‘ready’ to be saved from Bullshiet.  Salvation from Bullshiet is a process for those folks dog paddling their frucken asses off through the Rip Tides of Blue Pill Bull Sheit to reach shore  for dear life.

Truth is…Most people are content with sea water in their lungs.  Dumb F~~~s Submerged in a Blue Colored Sea.  I say F~~~ Them. F~~~ them all. For Now.

HIM: Yea, I’ve been through that cycle of being pulled down when they are not ready – you’re right.

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