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“Hello there, I hope this last and final contact finds you both struggling to cope as always. I have taken many things into consideration since meeting you and your perfect golden vagina child daughter who has tried in vain to systematically destroy my happiness, freedom, future, and mental health. I realize that all of you have been preprogrammed into believing that my only function in life is to provide MONEY for your offspring and it’s offspring and that if I get out of line for ANY reason you will attempt have me thrown in jail on erroneous charges. I also realize that I am to be your constant punching bag and that it’s all just a big joke and none of you really mean anything you are doing or saying in regards to your insults and put downs. I have come to terms with the fact that none of you really love me or care about me as a person, human, or man and that you expect me to submit to the will of a woman and the system. I want you to know that I did care, just long enough to discover what I was really getting involved in, and now that I have I want to throw myself off a cliff but I will not die for you. As I sit here and listen to The Best Of Limp Bizkit and post up to the best website ever created which is MGTOW I find strength, courage, and the much needed determination to break free from the cycle of abuse and the intoxicating smell of the golden vagina which has griped my mind and wasted much of my valuable time. Additionally I want you to know that yes your daughter and I had sex a bunch of times out of wedlock but that was her choice, I almost made the mistake of getting married to her but then she never really wanted it anyway and neither did I. You see I have a set of B~~~~ between my legs and they will remain there for the rest of my life and will NOT be promptly displayed on your living room wall for everyone to laugh at. I shall remain happy, content, solvent, non incarcerated, healthy, youthful, and free in large part to what you have so gratefully taught me. I thank you for all that you have done and now I shall leave you in the misery in which I found you!!! ~ Big Bad Balled Bubba Zanetti & MGTOW 🙂
You think Chernobyl was bad? Wait until the ink drys on that marriage contract you just signed...we know, you just wanted sex and fun...you could have gotten that for $100.00 a couple times a month instead of DESTROYING your life!!!
I’ll pay the postage on that baby.
I bathe in the tears of single moms.
Letter? More like a slap to the face from their ancestors because of the disgrace they cause.
Meh..
Great letter. You should call her after she reads it, record her response and then post it in here. I’m sure her meltdown will be priceless!
It’s a little wordy. Best to keep it short, sweet, and vague:
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Bitchraiser:
I am relieved to inform you that I have changed my plans and now have no intention of wedding your cheating, lying, selfish whore of a daughter. Please understand that I still have the utmost respect for you both as I believe her choices are entirely the product of her own poor character and not the result of any failure of upbringing on your part. She is entirely responsible for what she has done, and it has no reflection on you. I wish you both well in the future, and you have my sympathy and condolences that you are still stuck with her while I, at least, am still free to be rid of her.Respectfully,
Bubba ZanettiSince you aren’t giving any details, they will ask her what brought this all on, but regardless of what she tells them, they won’t believe her.
Oh, and be sure to wait until after they’ve put the deposit down on the wedding venue before sending it..
Abraham Lincoln wrote a letter to one of his generals. The letter was, rightly, extremely critical and angrily so. He never mailed it. It was found in his desk drawer years later.
What Pres. Lincoln did in public was simply fire and replace the old general with a message devoid of emotion.
I would do what Abe did. A clean cut will bleed copiously at first, but it will heal quickly with no pus.
Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?
I will share the posting costs with Uchi!
A nuke like that DESERVES to be sent, no matter what!
Hey Key, this letter should be on the wall!
What do you brothers think?
"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.
A letter more like atom bomb send it make this interesting do it.
A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!
I will go with @sidecar on this. They wont understand half of it.
Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.
Better yet, tell us what she did to call off the princess party.
Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.
Hey Bubba, glad you ejected before saying “I Do”! That’s a lifetime of savings (cash, energy, sanity, you name it!) in a single letter.
Welcome aboard!
Oh, and be sure to wait until after they’ve put the deposit down on the wedding venue before sending it..
Savage! Haha.
FWIW, I like Sidecar’s version and highly recommend OP use that one. It’s short, sweet, to the point, and will get the hamster wheel turning.
Your original letter is full of good points, but it will come across as you whining and being immature, whereas you are just trying to make a point.
P.S.- I wouldn’t mention MGTOW in the letter. There is a lot of misrepresentation of MGTOW online- to the extent that some people call us misogynistic losers who are man-children. You can’t count on them having the will or energy to dissect what you mean by MGTOW.
Agree with sidecar, but honestly, wordy isn’t exactly the problem. What exactly are you hoping to accomplish with this letter? Most people aren’t going to get past your initial sentence. You insulted them, wishing that they were ‘struggling to cope”. Who’s going to listen to you after that? If that’s your goal, then why not go with “I’m not going to marry your daughter, f~~~ you.”, and be done with it.
If you actually wanted to explain your point of you, and maybe educate them on why you aren’t going to merry her, then drop the insults and stick with the facts. I imagine that’s going to have a better impact, honestly. As the letter currently stands, they’ll probably just think of you as an ass and not pay attention to a thing you say.
– And drop the reference to Limp Bizkit and MGTOW. It will make you come off more as an easily influenced immature kid than as a man who’s actually come up with his own logical conclusions about the situation.
Ok. Then do it.
Good afternoon MGTOW!! Hope your day is going as great as mine…it’s another FANTASTIC day of life for sure. “Why is it so fantastic Bubba?” you may be asking and rightfully so, I shall address that briefly before I move on to your much appreciated responses. It’s a fantastic day because just like every other day I get to do what ever in the hell I want to because I am NOT married, I am sober, I am debt free, I am healthy and fit, I am not a slave to the man, and I could go on with this list for five full pages no doubt BUT that should be sufficient for now.
To address your responses: “Uchibenkei”, really like your posts brother, made me laugh like hell so thank you, personally I think the money would be better spent on a dictionary for them because it would help more. “Okami”, I agree, it’s all dysfunctional and most likely has been for generations. “Maxaman”, that’s a good idea, there have been countless melt downs, I am NOT going down with them!! “Sidecar”, thank you, I agree that the the fastest road between two destinations is a straight line but because I have been lead down a very twisted, bizarre, painful, deceitful, expensive journey I thought I would return the favor just a little…in all honesty the letter could have been 10 pages but why take the time, I don’t think they own a dictionary. I respect your opinion but have NO respect for them. “RoyDal” you are always the voice of reason, thank you. “DarkKenshi”, thank you very much, we can split the cost of a pocket dictionary three ways, if anything I ever did made it onto the Wall it would be a true honor, Key Master keeps me in check and I thank him for that.
‘Survivor” HAHA…you nailed it (Sidecar take notice), it’s about “providing psychological relief through the open expression of strong emotions; causing catharsis”, thank you. We are all here because we were at one point stuck or currently are, there is a path to freedom, it is MGTOW. “Atton” thank you, I would have to actually drop it in the mail and I doubt it’s worth the effort currently, perhaps I will rewrite it in long form and do it one day. “Jan. Sobies ki”, I agree they would not understand half of it, it’s amazing how many points of my own IQ I have lost through this entire process, living on the edge is fun but dangerous. The details of “what she did” to push me away would fill a small book but most of it has to do with narcissism, using sex as a bargaining chip, being dishonest, putting her family on a pedestal, and using a cell phone as a weapon…thank you. “MattNYC” me too, your right, thank you. “Oneforfreedom” I understand and I get what you are saying, please refer to Survivor’s response, I don’t care what other people think about MGTOW because that’s their problem (although I do promote it and very much appreciate the website and all of you guys, caring about what others think is not part of my MGTOW program I am living and never has been) and I wouldn’t include it in the letter, it was just for affect, thank you.
“Narwhal”, hope your having a nice day brother…please refer to Survivor’s response, what I “hope to accomplish” is to have some psychological release by expression of strong emotions and in so letting go of a bad situation. I think that anyone would read a letter addressed to them even if it “insults” them, they insulted me many times and I continued to listen to them because I cared and wanted to learn something from them and they did that for me, it has made me stronger. The letter is NOT about how they feel at all or if they will listen or change, it’s painfully obvious they aren’t going to that’s why I am getting out NOW. I wanted to be diplomatic and professional in my approach and although it may have failed it served it’s purpose when I wrote it and it still does today when I read it. It’s highly likely that these people will NEVER understand MY points and so why try to educate them…they didn’t get it in school they probably won’t get it from me. The true “facts” would overwhelm them to the point of needing medication or to be hospitalized in a mental ward and I have more compassion than that. The “impact” of the letter does not matter to me, I am a man going my own way, if I care about what they think it makes me “an easily influenced immature kid” BUT I am a MAN so “honestly” who gives a damn I would rather just tell them “f~~~ you” but then I would be lowering myself into their constant state of misery and level. I happen to like Limp Bizkit and MGTOW very much and I was having fun when creating the letter, I wouldn’t include it in the long form if in fact I ever did write it. As for your “logical conclusions about the situation” please refer to Survivor’s response and mine to his. I HAVE come up with my own logical conclusions about the situation, that’s why I will NOT marry her and why I wrote the letter. It was also to make you guys laugh a little, most of your responses returned the favor so thank you.
Now, I have to get back to doing what ever in the hell I want to, all of you guys are an inspiration in one way or another…positive responses lift me up and give support, negative ones make me think and tell me I am on the right track, both very helpful!!! Thank you!! Have a tremendous day and GO BIG, GO MGTOW, OR GO TO “YOUR” WIFE”S HOME!!!
Peace and happiness ~ Bubba 🙂
P.S. Slipknot is too heavy for me…
You think Chernobyl was bad? Wait until the ink drys on that marriage contract you just signed...we know, you just wanted sex and fun...you could have gotten that for $100.00 a couple times a month instead of DESTROYING your life!!!
P.S.S. “Narwhal” you stated…”What exactly are you hoping to accomplish with this letter? Most people aren’t going to get past your initial sentence. You insulted them, wishing that they were ‘struggling to cope”. Who’s going to listen to you after that?If you actually wanted to explain your point of you, and maybe educate them on why you aren’t going to merry her, then drop the insults and stick with the facts. I imagine that’s going to have a better impact, honestly. As the letter currently stands, they’ll probably just think of you as an ass and not pay attention to a thing you say”.
Perhaps if you can get past this…Carl Jung stated ” The pendulum of the mind alternates between sense and nonsense, not between right and wrong”….the above makes no sense to me at all…then you can understand this. I think I can see what the problem is here, your response sounds like she wrote it herself. If you would open up your mind and stop trying to be right and insult other people for no reason you will feel better about yourself and be happier, it will help with the confusion. Your not making any sense and contradicting yourself because you half way insult me and may expect me to listen, so drop the insults and stick to the facts and those are that this is an open form for people in need of support, kindness, consideration, and BOUNDARIES. You know what they are right? Boundaries are for people who know what real love is. I imagine you should consider doing more boundary work on yourself, it will help you have a better impact on your friendships, relationships, and with your posts. The letter will stand here on the web and Key will make sure it does…what they and others really think does not matter to me BUT I took the time to write this response in an attempt to help out. I know that half the time I AM AN ASS because I will NOT conform to social norms and do not have a feminist or socialist point of view…not pointing any fingers, just think about it is all. Be a man about it and not a kid, don’t be stuck. Have a great day friend!! 🙂 Bubba
You think Chernobyl was bad? Wait until the ink drys on that marriage contract you just signed...we know, you just wanted sex and fun...you could have gotten that for $100.00 a couple times a month instead of DESTROYING your life!!!
Gotta go with Sidecar on this one. If I got a letter like that I’d toss it after the first couple sentences if that. When someone starts off by insulting you, nothing else they have to say in a letter will be of any interest/consequence/importance.
You obviously want to send them a message or you wouldn’t be writing in the first place. Stay classy and consider going with Sidecar’s option. I bet it will be more fun too.
"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,
Biggvs.Dic kvs…you stated “You obviously want to send them a message or you wouldn’t be writing in the first place. Stay classy and consider going with Sidecar’s option. I bet it will be more fun too”.
Sidecar stated his rewrite of the letter: “Dear Mr. and Mrs. Bitchraiser: I am relieved to inform you that I have changed my plans and now have no intention of wedding your cheating, lying, selfish whore of a daughter. Please understand that I still have the utmost respect for you both as I believe her choices are entirely the product of her own poor character and not the result of any failure of upbringing on your part. She is entirely responsible for what she has done, and it has no reflection on you. I wish you both well in the future, and you have my sympathy and condolences that you are still stuck with her while I, at least, am still free to be rid of her”.
Ummm, he just called their daughter a bitch, a cheat, a liar, selfish, and a whore…real classy for sure. Be a Survivor. The letter was never intended to be sent, it’s just a way to let our thoughts and emotions., like Lincoln it will be put away in a drawer and never sent. RoyDal knows. On a side note part of the message is being sent to all MGTOWs and that is I am still free and made the right decision to back out of a bad situation and I am extremely grateful to everyone for that. It was fun so thanks. Thanks again and have a great evening!!
Peace…~Bubba 🙂
You think Chernobyl was bad? Wait until the ink drys on that marriage contract you just signed...we know, you just wanted sex and fun...you could have gotten that for $100.00 a couple times a month instead of DESTROYING your life!!!
Anonymous42F~~~ that, wait till the wedding day, hand it to her, then RUN!
F~~~ that, wait till the wedding day, hand it to her, then RUN!
Now… That would be a sight so see…
The hamster would spin so hard in everyone else’s head, that this massive rotation would alter the Earth axis by a few milimeters, hahahaha.
Bubba, if you follow the badassed suggestion of Tower, please, for our sake, FILM IT!
The look in the weeeminzz face would be F~~~ING HILARIOUS, not to count the bluepillers gathered there, hahahahaha.
Prime material for The Wall!
"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.
‘Survivor” HAHA…you nailed it (Sidecar take notice), it’s about “providing psychological relief through the open expression of strong emotions; causing catharsis”, thank you.
Believe me, I completely understand the stress relief from writing that letter of yours. Sometimes you need to vent.
I’m just saying that a polite, straightforward, but nicely vague letter will do a LOT more damage. It’s like the difference between throwing a molotov c~~~tail through the window and watching the flames blossom forth (and then roasting marshmallows on the ashes), and pushing a small, nondescript, impersonal button that remotely launches a nuke onto a target thousands of miles away. The first is definitely more satisfying, but the latter is devastating (and does damage that lasts).
Sidecar stated his rewrite of the letter: “Dear Mr. and Mrs. Bitchraiser:
I assumed you would put in their proper names, and not actually write “bitchraiser”. I used that term because I don’t know their proper names, and from your letter the woman they raised is obviously a bitch. Maybe I should have been more clear about that.
Ummm, he just called their daughter a bitch, a cheat, a liar, selfish, and a whore…real classy for sure.
But the important point here is that you only insult her, not them. You want to be as courteous, sympathetic, and respectful as possible to them while still letting them know the depths to which you are wronged and righteously angry with their daughter (without giving any details). This is you taking the moral high ground, and giving them every opportunity to join you on it. Without her. The whole idea is to place the blame for everything on her in their minds and drive a wedge between your bitch ex and her “poor, aggrieved” parents (regardless of whether or not they are actually aggrieved). Why get them all angry at you when you can make them all angry with each other?
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