Almost went back to being blue pill.

[Anonymous 6]

The_Young wrote:

with my boyfriend

It’s a bad sign dude, that you fell that fast; you should know–by the time you become MGTOW that all girls are talking to tons of guys, and many have bf’s…you’re probably a good dude, but you really need to reflect and check yourself, because this will happen again..and its gonna f~~~ you in the end bro.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

What part of “women are time wasters” didnt you understand? Dont take them anywhere! And if you do, its because you want to go and she’s coming along,not to mention if you never had sex with her going out is not an option. The feelings you felt are a lie for you to get her pregnant,don’t fall for it! Nature has no conscious and only wants you to reproduce even if it means fooling you. You have 2 options,walk the female landmine or swallow the damn pill….yeah the red one!

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[bomwaParticipant 488]

I can feel your frustration!

You’ve got to summon the strength to cut her loose.

She’s forced you into a position where your every move is a losing move. Your only chance at winning is to stop playing her game.

[HaymakerParticipant 226]

Oh boy… brings back memories 😉 yea we all fall from time to time. You got to understand that we are fighting our very nature. Its in our genes man. Do you have any idea how mentally prepared you must be to combat almost 200.000 years of evolution of humankind? Rome was not build in a day. Red pill is not swallowed in a day. I too have urges sometimes. We are young. F~~~ that is what we are programed to do. Do you think I dont have blue pills moments? We all do. Just stick to it. Be disciplined. But as others have already mentioned it. It is good to relive s~~~ hole that is plantation. It reminds you why you choose to take that path. There are always obstacles. Keep your focus. Dont loose your cool. You will be alright. It is again going to suck for couple of months but time heals all wounds. And yea. Break all contacts. ALL OF THEM. That is what I did. And guess what. She tried to call. Didnt answer. F~~~ her and all alike. A lion does not need approval my friend.

Always going big, Yeah you know the kid, Call me haymaker.

[NeroParticipant 1466]

Dude, you are a young man, full of hormones. I was the same at your age. Constantly looking for “the one.” There is no f~~~ing “the one.” There are just many that bring different variables of AWALT. Bank on that s~~~! I can tell you looking back, that I’ve had four major loves in my life. I have been in contact with all four of them within the past year. I’m divorcing my current one. They all loved me. All of them. They are still fond of me now. We all get along like riding an old bike. But here’s the kicker, all three of my old flames were not ready for me at the time I was into them. There was nothing I could have done to prevent that. They all regretted it in the end. One even said she came looking for me when she felt ready for marriage, but I was already married. It broke her heart. But, f~~~ it!! They are AWALT. Don’t f~~~ing get obsessed with these girls man. They are not ready for commitment. They will just fk your head up.

[hollowtipsParticipant 681]

A girl will say or do anything to lure a man into commitment and parting with his resources. And I mean ANYTHING. If you let your heart and dick control you and not your mind you’re asking to get f~~~ed.

[AnthonyParticipant 2281]

Just remember, whenever you’re falling into a blue pill trance, come back to this thread if you’re ever having a oneites moment.

Even if every woman looked like this:

They’ll always end up like this:

Knowing this always keeps my oneites moments in check.

Once you have a Fleshlight real vaginas become worthless.

[Learn2L8Participant 86]

I have had a girl come up to me and follow me around a nightclub, and act attracted, but teasy, then I find out she’s just avoiding her boyfriend by hanging around me. Once I realized the boyfriend, I would avoid her and she would still find me and follow me.

They do that s~~~ man, hang in there.

[FreedomParticipant 295]

The_Young, I feel your pain. I have been there too. It can cut deep.

Most likely she either:

1) Had a boyfriend the whole time, and went on this escapade to find potential trade-ups, or to make him jealous.

2) Didn’t have a boyfriend, decided after-the-fact that she wasn’t interested in you, and dropped the “with my boyfriend” statement in an attempt to turn you down gently.

Either way, you can expect that even if she DID hook up with you, she would pull the same antics later on.

Your hormones (and the media) create an expectation for you…of a lasting loving companion. The reality never lives up to that. What your desire promises is not real, and what is real is something you probably won’t desire once you have it.

Best ways to cope:

1) When alone, talk to yourself positively, out loud. List off each good thing in your life and reflect on just how good that really is. Do this every day. It is a proven anti-depression technique.

2) Meditate. Seriously. It helps.

3) Hang out with your real friends. If you don’t have any, start hitting up local meditation centers, or whatever floats your boat, and make some real friends.

You can have a happy and fulfilling life without dealing with a fickle woman’s s~~~.

It is wise to fear dangerous commitments.

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