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Anonymous9Guys I almost lost it here the past few months. Been dealing with a chick, and she almost succeeded in sucking me into here little s~~~ storm. I had met her off a site, and as much as I’ve posted before about not dealing with chicks online, she somehow reaches out to me on a return from a work related conference that I attended. In doing so, I was a bit surprised. Shocked actually. Because once I cut ties with a girl, it’s usually over with and we don’t have much dealings from that point on.
So the unexpected call pretty much got me going. I figured she must be horny, and needs some dick, and I was of the same mind-state thinking it could be an easy f~~~. I was right. She invited me over on a weekday, and you know what was so strange about this encounter? She introduces me to her f~~~ing daughter almost ten minutes into our conversation. Well, before I proceed guys, this is the same bitch I posted a thread about where she stormed out of my house over the cheap bottle of vodka which didn’t fit her palette. I mean, I should have took heed then, and never contacted her, but I didn’t listen to my conscious and went along with my dick just going for an easy lay.
So back to the night. After introducing me to her daughter, the little brat is 15 mind you, and seems to have the same emotional instability as her mom. I pay no mind. Which was my mistake. I drank a bottle and a half of red. Another mistake. Then I go and f~~~ her throughout the night.
That’s not the right behavior from a guy like me. Knowing she displayed those crazy signs over the wrong type of liquor, I should have known this wouldn’t end well. No matter how many times I’m able to f~~~ her. The drive is 45 minutes, and for the past month I’ve been going over there at least twice a week having sex with her. All while her daughter is on the next room. Small house at that.
One night while f~~~ing on an air mattress that she bought off Amazon, she gets a text in the middle of our session. I’m on top, and look over at the phone and see her daughters name. This is the honest truth guys, and I should have bailed then. But her daughter starts the text with, Could you all keep it down please.”
WTF?
Something else about I don’t want to hear him f~~~ing you, and she goes on this rant about being so furious, and she ends up going back and forth with her mom on the cell texting about whose house it is, and how disrespectful the text message was.
I’m laying there completely blown away.
So the mom even has the nerve to ask if I want to continue?
F~~~ no.
That’s just one of the roller coasters I’ve been on for the past few weeks, and I haven’t even checked back into the site because I’ve been doing s~~~ that isn’t really fitting for a MGTOW.
I mean, I just found out about the password change required to log back in.
Another red flag. She has an issue with the close relationship that I have with my mom. I don’t give a f~~~ what a bitch says in that regard, but I will never put a women before my mom. I just refuse to do it. She has a bastard child, and I don’t complain about any of that.
It’s completely off limits.
I even helped hook up her digital cable receiver one night, and she was so f~~~ing bossy man. Even wanted me to change the light bulb. I’m not some beta sucker who is going to fall into the trap of provider; especially for chick who knowingly has dealt with plenty of guys, and now thinks she’s found the right one so she’ll trap him by any means. She’s mentioned having a baby, and when she recently got her period I was so relieved. I’ve been stressed out about the possibility of her becoming pregnant, and the s~~~ has just been moving way too fast for only a month of seeing each other on a weekly basis.
I can’t deal with this s~~~ anymore. I left her house this morning, and she can’t even handle her liquor at that. Had a bottle of Smirnoff last night, and she passes out after the first f~~~.
She was laying in bed f~~~ing CRYING after we had sex. Saying it was too much, and all this other s~~~.
She keeps talking about marriage, and if she gets pregnant she’s not going to work the two jobs she has. She refuses to work like a dog or some s~~~ because it’s the man’s responsibility to take care of her.
I’m done with this bogus charade that I’m currently going through. Here I am claiming to be MGTOW, and I almost lost all of my autonomy by getting her pregnant, and falling into this beta role – which also includes her wanting me to be a step father to a 15 year old daughter who doesn’t even like me.
I took them out to eat one weekend, and the daughter sits there and eats the tortilla chips like candy. The mom orders steak and shrimp. I’m looking at them smiling – but in my head I’m thinking to myself you’re f~~~ing up big time here.
Last night she fills up my car with gas, and buys me a carton of cigs. Cool right?
Hell no. That’s one of her ploys to keep me in her little s~~~ storm as I mentioned before. I told her to take the carton back, but she refused.
I know this was a long story, but this is what I’ve been going through for the past month.
There’s more craziness to her personality, but I have to break free. Worst thing is I told her she could come to Thanksgiving dinner.
I have to do something fast here.
Aaahhhhh wtf did you do? WHAT DID YOU DO?
OUT NOW …. RIGHT NOW …. NOT ANOTHER F~~~ING WORD WITH HER.
I’m so f~~~ing serious about that.
She’s nuts and you f~~~ed her. We say time and time again …. DON’T PUT DICK IN CRAZY …. AND THEY ALL ARE.
Book a vacation away ….. she’s gonna come do crazy after your ass.
I feel so sick for you man ….. gotta go puke a bit.
@gllahone84, I am with ILiveAgain on this one (this happens often). Bail out! Bail out and do not leave a forwarding address. Don’t worry, the crazy will track you down — mine did. Bail! Hit the silk!
Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?
Pull the rip cord and get the hell out of that deal… and welcome back to MGTOW.
Anonymous9I f~~~ed her brains out a few nights.
That’s what it boils down to.
I put my dick in crazy, but what would be even worse is if she ended up pregnant man. Everything right now is no strings attached no matter how resentful she becomes.
But if I ended up being tied with her for 18 years all because I was dumb enough to cum in her – I deserve all the headaches and stress that comes my way.
Other than that, I’m still free and nothing stands in the way of that.
She has no man, a 15 year old brat, and she still receives support from a family member who says he’ll cut off her monthly check in about 7 years.
Sheesh.
She’s spoiled rotten. Used to getting her way, and I almost f~~~ed up bad, and I mean real bad.
I’ve seen many men fall victim to pussy.
Crazy can come stab you and boil your bunny …. then get pussy pass.
In her mind now …. you owe her. She gave you her golden …. legally protected vagina …. and you didn’t marry her….
THAT IS ILLEGAL in her mind.
You might not have strings ….. but she has some chains.
I hope you’re right ….. I pray so.
You know what you need to do man, you need to bail, and fast.
The amount of red flags you have walked past, is almost amazing, you have been playing Russian roulette with a triple loaded gun, and somehow survived this far, you have counted your luck several times, now it’s time to take whatever chips you got, and leave the casino, before you end up in their backyard, digging your own grave.
Situation is FUBAR, fall back and regroup.
We only dream this bondage. Wake up and let it go. - Vivekananda
Let’s see. Single mother. Controlling, territorial nature, becoming deeply emotional AFTER sex, talking about marriage and becoming pregnant again, and she is not planning on working after that. Meaning you would be the one providing, likely without any rewards.
This is a five alarm fire. Don’t walk. RUN! Get out! Don’t look back! And do it now, before Christmas, because the child support laws state you could be on the hook for paying for the daughter if you give her gift.
Right now is a perfect time to leave. It is before Thanksgiving. So, going now will be the least painful for everyone involved.
And I fully agree with ILiveAgain. Go on a very long vacation, where she cannot find you. This woman is both crazy and desperate. As a MGTOW, you don’t want either.
Jesus H. Titty F~~~ing Christ… you don’t do anything by halves, do you? When you f~~~ up, you F~~~ UP.
All the others have already told you what to do and I’ll join that chorus.
You need to end this and end it immediately. It doesn’t matter how you do it. Quite frankly, it’s too late to discuss the nuts & bolts of any escape attempt. You need to end it now. Go ghost, don’t respond to any texts, calls, or emails, and leave the area for a few weeks on a “vacation”. Hell, I’d even think seriously about moving if I were you.
I hope everything works out well, you poor stupid bastard.
Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.
Anonymous9Damn OldBill, as if you haven’t made some bad judgments in life.
But you bounced back right? Was it permanent?
It’ll work out because she lives in another city, and I’m not married to her. No kids in the picture. I’m not too much worried about a Fatal Attraction scenario – you know boiled bunny, and stab wounds, but I’m just putting s~~~ together at how I managed to get out of this s~~~ without looking like Fire Marshall Bill even though I ran through a raging inferno.
I can’t keep playing with fire like that.
I’m just man enough to admit my mistakes, and to come back stronger is the sign of resilience.
That’s life.
By sharing this story I knew what most responses would be, but coming back into the lifestyle without any real blemishes is the win for me.
I don’t approve of your fk ups but I fight to my last breath your right to make them ?
Anonymous9Lol.
No doubt man.
It’s been really crazy for the past couple of weeks. All because I’ve been f~~~ing with someone crazy.
Basic life lessons that I ignored for a time period.
Almost on the verge of collapse? No, you did. That’s for damn sure.
Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.
Anonymous18Here’s the thing brother. Regardless of what we tell you, your dick is closer to you. And you like how it makes you feel a few million times more than what any of us would or could ever say.
I get that.
I can relate to you, in a small way. Perhaps more so to my old blue pill days. You can’t pull out what may seem like a sour deal but something keeps you bound to her. She may say/do things to induce some guilt. Doesn’t matter. In the long run its a lose-lose proposition. That is you lose your life as you know it but may end up in jail when the 15-year old accuses you of groping her. Either willingly or when her mother asks her to do so on her behalf. She is crazy enough from the sounds of it to pull anything.
I had met her off a site
I read in a reputable journal (Nature, I think) that online dating is God-send for sociopaths. They are good at manipulating and charming victims way before they even meet them. And they have tons of victims to choose from. A click away. She sure sounds like one of them.
the little brat is 15 mind you,
Brat would be your best case scenario. A little nightmare is more suitable. This Apple hasn’t fallen far from the tree either. And when mommy f~~~s you (and a handful of other men) next to her room, the teenager isn’t really high-strung on moral behavior. Read- false rape allegations.
Even wanted me to change the light bulb. I’m not some beta sucker who is going to fall into the trap of provider
Something tells me you changed that light bulb.
She’s mentioned having a baby, and when she recently got her period I was so relieved. I’ve been stressed out about the possibility of her becoming pregnant, and the s~~~ has just been moving way too fast for only a month of seeing each other on a weekly basis.
I wouldn’t feel one iota of sorry for you brother. You were too easy of a prey for her. And she deserves every single credit for trapping a man for 18 years in making her life easier. She 1. You -100.
which also includes her wanting me to be a step father to a 15 year old daughter who doesn’t even like me.
See what you are doing here. You are rationalizing. It shouldn’t even be any possibility for you to be with a single mother. Let alone thinking of being a potential step father to a teenager.
I f~~~ed her brains out a few nights.
You sure did. And so did every other guy who is not there raising her 15 year old.
Damn OldBill, as if you haven’t made some bad judgments in life.
I’ve made some huge mistakes, brother, but I’ve never made a huge mistake twice.
But you bounced back right? Was it permanent?
Yes, I did bounce back and the only permanent effect was the lessons I learned.
You now need to ask yourself whether you’ll bounce back and – most importantly – learn from this huge mistake.
It’ll work out because she lives in another city, and I’m not married to her.
Distance will help and no current legal hooks in you will help even more.
No kids in the picture.
No kids? What about the 15-year-old texting her mother because you were making too much noise pounding her ass into an air mattress?
I’m not too much worried about a Fatal Attraction scenario…
She’s nuttier than squirrel s~~~ and you’ll be damned lucky if there isn’t any blow back once she realizes you’ve escaped. She could come at you as a private person or – keep your fingers crossed – through the cops. Once the cops get involved it won’t matter that she’s insane and you’re innocent of anything except utter stupidity. You’ll be in their files for the rest of your life.
I can’t keep playing with fire like that.
Understatement of the year.
I’m just man enough to admit my mistakes, and to come back stronger is the sign of resilience.
Better than admitting your mistakes is learning from your mistakes.
That’s life.
Not quite. “That’s life on autopilot” is more accurate. You stopped thinking and are now paying the price.
I’ve written about how I stopped thinking several years back. Like you, I “woke” up and was shaken to the core. Unlike you, I was physically out of that relationship within an afternoon and wholly out of it after a mid-morning sit down. Hopefully you can escape as easily too.
Good luck.
Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.
Anonymous42I’ve seen many men fall victim to pussy.
You and me both! Just recently a very pretty “married” woman was flirting with me, she knew all the soft spots and how to make a guy want to dick her on the spot! She even did the touchy feely thing after I ignored her supple advances, long story short, even after 18 years of denying each and every piece of ass to cume my way, she got into my psyche like a snake gets into a pile of cord wood.
The conversation came up about vacations, and she told me her husband takes her nowhere, never tells her he loves her, and never cuddles with her. She was starving for affection and hinted that to me, well, stupid me invited her on a cruise, she accepted…
It was like I fell into my old habits as she looked so f~~~ing tempting! I felt sick for a couple of days after being stimulated by her allure. I’m “NOT” going anywhere with her! I feel like the Terminator having to do a forced shut-down and reboot.
The attraction was mutual, I’m sure of that! I’ll add her to the long list of women I could have, but didn’t (I hope).
I know where you’re coming from when it comes to being stupid! The Important thing is to regain balance of intellect over desire and emotion.
You can turn it off as fast as they can turn it on. The trick is to turn it off before it becomes something totally regrettable! Anyone can walk away from a dog faced woman without any effort, but a fit and beautiful woman can chink any armor no matter how many years of reinforcement has been added layer upon layer.
We’ll never be totally bulletproof, and that’s why we RUN!
Anonymous9I appreciate all the feedback, and words of wisdom.
That’s what I needed by coming on here and putting it out there.
You can have your own thoughts, but sharing them and getting some tough love in return really makes a difference.
Aye iLearn you nailed that s~~~ man.
I f~~~ed around and changed the light bulb too.
Hey, I like a tight piece of ass now and then, who doesn’t. But what’ll it cost, man, what’ll it COST?!
Vasectomy. Gentlemen, I can not say this often enough. Get yourself a vasectomy. It is your only real defense against being trapped into fatherhood. I swear to everything shiny and chrome that I would rather get HIV right now than get a single mother pregnant. At least HIV is treatable.
Get those vasectomies, gentlemen… and if you simply must have sex, f~~~ prostitutes. You can pick the size, shape, color and flavor you want and when you’re done, you put your money down and you’re out. If you think of the sex urge as a medical condition, you just go to see a specialist to get it handled. But if you’re just chasing pussy to prove to yourself that you can catch it, maybe you need to work on your self esteem and think about what it really means to go your own way,
Sex is a dangerous game these days and sex with single mothers is the most dangerous kind. Get that vasectomy and at least you’ve got a fighting chance.
But you bounced back right? Was it permanent?
I am with OldBill on this. Some people do bounce back from a bodyslam, some people end up in traction. And it isn’t worth finding out which will happen to you.
It’ll work out because she lives in another city, and I’m not married to her.
Distance means s~~~ in this game. If she knows where you are, in a general location. Then, she is only a single phone call from screwing up your life, at any given time.
Get out, and run while you still can. Disappear for a little while you can.
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