Alimony is mental torture

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

My time to have my divorced finalised is drawing nearer and it’s making me shaky in the knees. I now believe I know what my lawyer means when I’m told “We have to talk”. I have to face the music. The thought of having to possibly pay alimony is really bothering me. For any guy that has to pay alimony, it’s certainly a really really hard MF’ing red pill to swallow every month.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Why the f~~~ aren’t women expected to f~~~ing work?

I’d tell the f~~~ing lawyers and judge and ex to blow (via postcard) after I charged $100,000 in gold on credit cards and left the country forever for Vietnam.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2729]

Agreed. Tough one. Just proves all women are whores. Just have to either pay up front or in arrears on a monthly payment plan.

Brace yourself for the ex shacking up with some Chad and not getting re-married so she can continue to drain you.

My ex did that and even told me that she had no plans to marry the guy and “smile every time I go to the mailbox to get your check.”

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[Anonymous 54]

Alimony?
Nothin to it!
20 years worth.hah

They want the money. They may need the money.
But what they really want is to punish you.
So..can you get revenge by liveing well anyways?

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Do you have kids?
If you do.
Are they grown up?

No, yes.

GET THE F~~~ OUT.

Take your s~~~ and desapear.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[PuniShredderParticipant 2268]

I’m telling you right now I wouldn’t pay s~~~. Any man who pays alimony is a lot nicer of a guy than me. I don’t know why but I just have a feeling that in my case the c~~~ would end up having some sort of an “accident“…

Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

[Silver FoxParticipant 2766]

1. Do you have a current passport?
2. Are you all caught up on your taxes?
3. Do you have liquid assets? (or can you acquire some?)
4. Have you researched foreign nations, laws, customs, society rules, etc?
5. Have you prepared yourself to do what is necessary?

"Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife." --Apostle Paul

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

I’ve looked into all of the above because I don’t think I could find peace if I had to pay alimony. Child support is already bad enough, but at least it doesn’t carry the alimony title with it. Although, like Hitman has said, CS is just a back door to have her get her hands on ‘alimony’ anyhow. I kind of agree with that, although at least you know it’s over when the kids hit 18.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

If both spouses work, why is there alimony? I was afraid of this during my last marriage, so I lowered my income to be less than my ex-bitch. Since I can live on a lot less, it wasn’t a problem. Thus, there was no chance for alimony. Though, if I had kids, it would had been tough to live on what I paid myself.

I often wondered since I planned for a possible divorce, was I doomed for failure? I was terrified of losing my s~~~ due do some BS alimony court order. I do not know how any court finds this s~~~ fair.

[Branched offParticipant 10929]

I am sorry for you. This sounds like terrible torture. It is terribly unfair so it must hurt. If you can’t flee the country then can you pay for a clean break -a lump sum in lieu of alimony? This will involve paying more but then she has no come back ever. This is what I did to avoid alimony. It hurt but it hurt once and I had o perpetual drain on my resources afterwards.

The western world is so deranged…

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[BeerParticipant 11832]

ForeverDone wrote:

If both spouses work, why is there alimony? I was afraid of this during my last marriage, so I lowered my income to be less than my ex-bitch. Since I can live on a lot less, it wasn’t a problem. Thus, there was no chance for alimony. Though, if I had kids, it would had been tough to live on what I paid myself.

I often wondered since I planned for a possible divorce, was I doomed for failure? I was terrified of losing my s~~~ due do some BS alimony court order. I do not know how any court finds this s~~~ fair.

Because equality. Oh wait…isn’t this the opposite of equality?

I agree, it is complete bulls~~~. The way I look at marriage these days, especially since people are marrying later in life, if my higher income affords you an increase in standard of living, that is a perk of the marriage for you, just like me getting blowjobs and dinner would be a perk of the marriage for me. Ok, ok…it was a joke, we all know blowjobs stop after the wedding and most women these days suck at cooking. But regardless…if the marriage ends and I’m not getting dinner and blowjobs from you anymore…why should I still have to inflate your standard of living beyond what you could afford yourself? It is complete and absolute bulls~~~. Its not like Princess is getting married and having kids by 20 and doesn’t have time for education or career these days…and in fact…most moms are working these days so are the kids really hurting their careers all that much? Its not like many women are planning to take 20 years off work these days to raise kids just to find themselves divorced at 30 with multiple kids and never having really been in the work force.

[narwhalParticipant]

In past decades where women were essentially dependent on their husband for lively hood, it somewhat made sense that when a woman was deprived of that income due to divorce, she would be compensated. It makes no sense in this world of equality.

The reality is that anyone who enters marriage knows that there is a strong chance that divorce, and therefore lose of your spouses income is a real probability. Therefore, any decision to lower your income potential while married is solely the individual’s decision. You can’t claim that he made you quit your job since he has no authority to do so.

Ok. Then do it.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

narwhal wrote:

In past decades where women were essentially dependent on their husband for lively hood, it somewhat made sense that when a woman was deprived of that income due to divorce, she would be compensated. It makes no sense in this world of equality.

The reality is that anyone who enters marriage knows that there is a strong chance that divorce, and therefore lose of your spouses income is a real probability. Therefore, any decision to lower your income potential while married is solely the individual’s decision. You can’t claim that he made you quit your job since he has no authority to do so.

It was also customary way back when for the wife’s family to give a dowry to the husband. This ensured that it wasn’t all coming out of the guy’s pocket when divorce came around, and it always does nowadays. In the past guys went in not having a clue that the world would turn into this gynocentric system to milk guys out of their money, give it to dumb broads, who then just pump the money all back into the market, by buying useless crap for themselves.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

narwhal wrote:

Therefore, any decision to lower your income potential while married is solely the individual’s decision. You can’t claim that he made you quit your job since he has no authority to do so.

Funny though…that they CAN quit their job, and their isn’t s~~~ you can do about it. Support them or get yourself divorce raped…take your pick.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Child Support money that goes into the hands of the mom can then later wind up anywhere, in the hands of a fur coat sales person, in the hands of an art dealer, in the hands of Chad, but never in the hands of the kids, funny ain’t it?

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Billy&The CloneasaurusParticipant]

It IS mental torture. I get paid next week…over half goes to her (they call it child support, which is alimony by another name).

She’s having a great time living rent free at Chad’s. She also makes more than me, in a made up govt job (glorified welfare).

Walk the f~~~ away.

Scratch that. RUN.

The answer, is no.

[BarnstormerParticipant 190]

Point Of No Return wrote:

CS is just a back door to have her get her hands on ‘alimony’ anyhow. I kind of agree with that, although at least you know it’s over when the kids hit 18.

18 I wish. I had to pay until age 23 in my f~~~ed up state because kid was a full time student. She still can try to pursue alimony on top of that. It is unclear what the term and amount would look like. Since divorce 9.5 years ago, I have paid $258K in CS, and she raped me for another $250K in lost equity in the marital house. I did not flame out though. I avoided prison, suicide, and going homeless. It has been a struggle, but the best money I ever spent to regain my sovereignty and freedom. She is responsible for blowing up the marriage and family with her cheating. I do not miss the c~~~ and I am thankful for where I am in life.

Brother, at least alimony is tax deductible, where CS is not. Don’t loose site of your goals. F~~~ her.

If you're going through hell, keep going.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Barnstormer wrote:

Point Of No Return wrote:

CS is just a back door to have her get her hands on ‘alimony’ anyhow. I kind of agree with that, although at least you know it’s over when the kids hit 18.

18 I wish. I had to pay until age 23 in my f~~~ed up state because kid was a full time student. She still can try to pursue alimony on top of that. It is unclear what the term and amount would look like. Since divorce 9.5 years ago, I have paid $258K in CS, and she raped me for another $250K in lost equity in the marital house. I did not flame out though. I avoided prison, suicide, and going homeless. It has been a struggle, but the best money I ever spent to regain my sovereignty and freedom. She is responsible for blowing up the marriage and family with her cheating. I do not miss the c~~~ and I am thankful for where I am in life.

Brother, at least alimony is tax deductible, where CS is not. Don’t loose site of your goals. F~~~ her.

I needed to read something like this, thanks Barnstormer. Had a fit of red pill rage today and it was not pretty. … 9½ years post-divorce… I have no clue where I’ll be when I hit that marker. I can only hope to come close to saying the things you have said about being thankful for where you are in life, once I hit that point in the post-divorce timeline.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Billy&The Cloneasaurus wrote:

It IS mental torture. I get paid next week…over half goes to her (they call it child support, which is alimony by another name).

She’s having a great time living rent free at Chad’s. She also makes more than me, in a made up govt job (glorified welfare).

Walk the f~~~ away.

Scratch that. RUN.

Mine also took the ‘glorified welfare’ route… bloody c~~~s.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[AttonParticipant]

I am pretty sure that if you move from state to state. It would require her to re register the alimony from state to state. This would very quickly destroy her financial capacity, the reality is alimony isn’t child support it can be successfully dodged.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

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