After a Divorce, Your Ex is Not the Person You Use to Know

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

LOL. A good read with some Scotch.. You’ll get a kick.. I did.

http://blog.chron.com/loveandrelationships/2012/09/after-a-divorce-your-ex-is-not-the-person-you-use-to-know/

[joetechParticipant]

It’s when the divorce begins that you realize the person you’re divorcing is not the person you married. Sometimes you realize that the person you are divorcing is the person you always feared she truly was.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

joetech wrote:

It’s when the divorce begins that you realize the person you’re divorcing is not the person you married. Sometimes you realize that the person you are divorcing is the person you always feared she truly was.

So true brother. So true. Scorned women always want to get back at you. Of course, they are always innocent and never did anything. It was all that mean guy. She’s a perfect loyal peach. A peach that expired ten years ago and is as hard as the pit inside.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

In a divorce you see the bitch the way she ALWAYS was before you married her…

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

Personally, my Ex has exhibited disappointing traits such as

“Lets be amicable” followed up by a Legal Glasgow Kiss
Show no concern with following child contact arrangements in the orders
Enrol the children in expensive private schools against orders
Insult my family, especially my terminally ill mother
Lie about everything.. and I mean EVERYTHING- it is almost like it is impossible to tell anything as it is.
Extreme parental alienation where my son tried to kill me (suspect her mother put this to him)
Riding Rooster Roundabaout revving to 5 RPM
Dragging me through 18 months of litigation re child contact to back out in the last 2 weeks

Post divorce was much more “High Conflict” than the marriage.
Never again!

Although, it is interesting that her Rooster Roundabout pals have never stayed around for even a few years and the Ex has definitely hit the wall (redhead at 45 y.o.)

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Gargamel wrote:

In a divorce you see the bitch the way she ALWAYS was before you married her…

True that.

If she can flip that easily, you can bet “I do” was a complete scam. So it’s more like your girlfriend/wife was not the person she presented herself as.

Women marry hoping he will change – and he doesn’t.
Man marry hoping she will NOT change – and she does.

I heard that many years ago, and then I went to the last wedding I will ever attend ( 2006 ), where the BRIDE stood up and said “weddings happen in churches for a reason…..”.

“AISLE . . . . ALTAR . . . .HYMN”.

“Aisle. Altar. Hymn.”.

“I’ll alter him”.

…. and everyone laughed. Except me. If my bride stood up on our weeding day in front of everyone and said that, I would run so fast, there would be tumbleweeds.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[bladeParticipant]

The true woman that always was but you refused to see . Now i can see what i used to be . MGTOW

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Keymaster wrote:

True that.

If she can flip that easily, you can bet “I do” was a complete scam. So it’s more like your girlfriend/wife was not the person she presented herself as.

And one more MGTOW lesson to be gained from that – for our lurkers and blue pillers:

Watch how she treats other people when you are not around. And how she treats people with “lesser perceived value”… Women are arrogant, full of disdain and with high noses.

And the way she treats a sales clerk or a bus driver is the way you will be treated once she has you nailed down.

Put a recording device in her purse, car or house…

Then you’ll see what kind of bitch she is when she doesn’t have to put on her “wallet acquisition” deception mask “for you”…

And watch what she says about her ex. You will be the next. Women never change, and they are always “in the right”

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

My sig says it all.

A wife who complains that you don’t spend enough time with your child, now does her best to keep you from the child. The only thing she knows that she wants, is what is the worst for you.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

[Anonymous 1]

I’m not sure if most of you read the article.

The ‘kick’ ForeverDone is referring to is the point the article makes that the ex-wife is often lost, and can’t handle that the ex-husband has cut her off, moved on, and is often with another broad.

Some choice quotes:

The hurt isn’t always correlated with the divorce, but rather being under the influence of another woman who wants the ex all to herself

I have heard the ex-wife more than once complain that her ex-husband is no longer the man she once knew under the influence of the new woman.

Suck it up, ladies!

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Anonymous wrote:

The ‘kick’ ForeverDone is referring to is the point the article makes that the ex-wife is often lost, and can’t handle that the ex-husband has cut her off, moved on, and is often with another broad.

And you have to “discuss it all with a lawyer”…

As if divorces were peaceful in nature…

Delusional…

Both exes should protect the other parent from the new person in their life. Talking to your new partner about how bad your ex was makes you look bad. After all, we attract what we put out there. If you got someone crazy, what vibes were you putting out?

Cycle repeat…

All c~~~s are crazy. You get crazy no matter what vibes you put out. And all children are lost with single mothers… 85 percent of male prison inmates are sons of (mostly vile) single mums…

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Keymaster wrote:

Gargamel wrote:

In a divorce you see the bitch the way she ALWAYS was before you married her…

True that.

If she can flip that easily, you can bet “I do” was a complete scam. So it’s more like your girlfriend/wife was not the person she presented herself as.

Women marry hoping he will change – and he doesn’t.
Man marry hoping she will NOT change – and she does.

I heard that many years ago, and then I went to the last wedding I will ever attend ( 2006 ), where the BRIDE stood up and said “weddings happen in churches for a reason…..”.

“AISLE . . . . ALTAR . . . .HYMN”.

“Aisle. Altar. Hymn.”.

“I’ll alter him”.

…. and everyone laughed. Except me. If my bride stood up on our weeding day in front of everyone and said that, I would run so fast, there would be tumbleweeds.

Amen brother. So true…

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Gargamel wrote:

Keymaster wrote:

True that.

If she can flip that easily, you can bet “I do” was a complete scam. So it’s more like your girlfriend/wife was not the person she presented herself as.

And one more MGTOW lesson to be gained from that – for our lurkers and blue pillers:

Watch how she treats other people when you are not around. And how she treats people with “lesser perceived value”… Women are arrogant, full of disdain and with high noses.

And the way she treats a sales clerk or a bus driver is the way you will be treated once she has you nailed down.

Put a recording device in her purse, car or house…

Then you’ll see what kind of bitch she is when she doesn’t have to put on her “wallet acquisition” deception mask “for you”…

And watch what she says about her ex. You will be the next. Women never change, and they are always “in the right”

Yea, experienced that from time to time too. Amazing how they all have the same programming.

Another one I recently heard… “My parents treated me like a princess, why should I expect any different from my spouse.”

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Anonymous wrote:

I’m not sure if most of you read the article.

The ‘kick’ ForeverDone is referring to is the point the article makes that the ex-wife is often lost, and can’t handle that the ex-husband has cut her off, moved on, and is often with another broad.

Some choice quotes:

The hurt isn’t always correlated with the divorce, but rather being under the influence of another woman who wants the ex all to herself

I have heard the ex-wife more than once complain that her ex-husband is no longer the man she once knew under the influence of the new woman.

Suck it up, ladies!

Karma is a bitch… Shoulda coulda woulda, but didn’t. Poor poor girl. 🙁 NOT!!!

[markParticipant 451]

I am sorry but I really dislike when people make excuses for their bad judgement, and that applies to both men and women:

“You can always trust Melanie to be Melanie”

After I turned 18 every mistake I made is mine. Is on me. And if I look back (and I dare all of you to do the same) every failed relationship I had is because I failed, or I didn’t care, about the tell-tale signs.

The important thing, you see, is to own your mistakes and learn from them. I once let a crazy into my apartment, so I you be expecting her to make a mess (which she did), call my neighbors (which she did) and eventually find where I work and send a letter to my boss that almost cost me my job (which she did). “You can always trust Melanie to be Melanie”.

Once you own your mistakes you can grow. Now I have an extremely short fuse with women, because I know that small things lead to big problems. For instance, a woman who cries to win an argument is trouble. The first time someone does this, she is out.

Please don’t change, so either you are not looking carefully, don’t care, or didn’t care to know that person at all.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

joetech wrote:

It’s when the divorce begins that you realize the person you’re divorcing is not the person you married. Sometimes you realize that the person you are divorcing is the person you always feared she truly was.

I’m pretty sure that in most cases, the woman your are divorcing is nearly exactly the person you married. It is just that women are experts at being two-faced, and you are only now seeing the real person that they truly are.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

mark wrote:

I am sorry but I really dislike when people make excuses for their bad judgement, and that applies to both men and women:
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“You can always trust Melanie to be Melanie”

After I turned 18 every mistake I made is mine. Is on me. And if I look back (and I dare all of you to do the same) every failed relationship I had is because I failed, or I didn’t care, about the tell-tale signs.

The important thing, you see, is to own your mistakes and learn from them. I once let a crazy into my apartment, so I you be expecting her to make a mess (which she did), call my neighbors (which she did) and eventually find where I work and send a letter to my boss that almost cost me my job (which she did). “You can always trust Melanie to be Melanie”.

Once you own your mistakes you can grow. Now I have an extremely short fuse with women, because I know that small things lead to big problems. For instance, a woman who cries to win an argument is trouble. The first time someone does this, she is out.

Please don’t change, so either you are not looking carefully, don’t care, or didn’t care to know that person at all.

No doubt. However, you forget to mention the different masks a woman wears. The initial one she’s wearing may last for many years, then she changes. If you’re already married to her, you’re up s~~~s creek.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Ranger One wrote:

joetech wrote:

It’s when the divorce begins that you realize the person you’re divorcing is not the person you married. Sometimes you realize that the person you are divorcing is the person you always feared she truly was.

I’m pretty sure that in most cases, the woman your are divorcing is nearly exactly the person you married. It is just that women are experts at being two-faced, and you are only now seeing the real person that they truly are.

So true.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Hell, after the marriage she’s not the person you knew.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

FrostByte wrote:

Hell, after the marriage she’s not the person you knew.

I do find it interesting that some people consider it an amicable marriage if the woman files for divorce, and the man agrees to her demands. However, when the man files or fights for his rights after she filed, it’s a bitter divorce and she’s the innocent lonesome dove.

Strange… No?

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