Advice to a Friend with the "perfect marriage" – Did I Make a Mistake?

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

Well, a mere 3 years ago, I would have given the same “advice” to anyone who have asked me for it. So, it was fully possible that I could make the same mistake you did. So, I will not burden you with guilt or any other related s~~~, because it is not the point, and it is irrelevant to the acceptance of your decision.

The point is: In this s~~~ test that the cheating is, he failed. And by failed, I mean that he curled up to a ball, cucked up and let her wife have a train rammed in her, jizz and all, and took the blame for what SHE did, to keep his misery going.
It is better for the kids? I don’t think so. With the amount of the fights that can (and possible will) break out, their sanity will be in SHAMBLES, because their parents will be constantly on the nerves of each other, and every single time that they fight, the cheating will be there, and will be hurled at each other’s face, all the time.
So, better to have two houses, but at peace, than one that is in constant s~~~storm.

The way to pass on her s~~~ test, would be to kick her to the curb, with her clothes and s~~~, and to never let her come back again, even trying to find a job in another state or even another country, and take the kids with him. Women don’t respect reason, they respect strength. It does not mean aggression, it means that you are not willing to put up with her s~~~, no matter what happens, and whatever that she does, there will be consequences, so she better think twice, maybe three times, or as much as she needs in order to NOT make a stupid move and end up on the street.

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[narwhalParticipant]

Verus wrote:

A lot of maybes, and now I shoulder some responsibility for whatever happens.

You absolutely do not. You gave advice, what you thought was best. You didn’t take his choice away from him. You should feel no guilt whatsoever.

This I think is essential to MGTOW. Sovereignty. Not just your own, but recognizing that every man also has their own sovereignty. Women do to, and absolutely need to own their own choices.

Ok. Then do it.

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

Also, enduring in this case is not an option. The kids are now a currency in the c~~~’s hands, to be used as a bribe for any time that the guy threatens to leave. She is now in full control. She won the war, and he is now conquered by her, all because she just spreaded her legs and let another man jizz inside of her gash, and instead of your friend leaving their cheating whore ass, he stayed.

Off course, going on a “pussy rampage” is not an answer for him, but, instead he should have worked to become independent from the alimony, just paying the child support and possibly not getting so poor in the future. And count among his blessings that now he has so much less money, that he cannot be bothered by women, effectively going his own way, even if in a very indirect way.

She didn’t do that in a whim. She planned that cheating, she did that with someone she knows, and she will keep doing it, untill SHE decides that it is time to end her marriage and begs for Chad to keep ramming her, now that she have a house for him to move into.

Women are not property, gents. They are a loan, and they will stay with you as long as it is in her best interests to do so. When you lose your utility, they will dump you so fast, that plasma will start to form around your sorry ass when it is falling back to reality.

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[505vikingoParticipant 521]

Verus,

You were there for you buddy. This means much. Worst case scenario he could have committed suicide, etc. without your support. I was similar to you and valued the importance of a traditional nuclear family ex. Mom/Dad together prior to splitting up with my kid’s mom. You did your best during a tough time for him. Thank you for being a true friend and not trying to hook up with his wife or something else slimey. You did good Brother. We live and learn.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

When guys cheat, its the guys fault.

When women cheat, they tell the guy its the guys fault.

See the problem here?

No accountability on the female for negative things, whatsoever. Dump it all on the guy.

The more a woman sees a guy as merely an overt resource, the more its easier for them to blame everything negative in their lives on him. Hes the provider, if shes not getting everything she “needs” and at the levels she demands, when she wants it, its all his problem because HE is not providing it for her.

She never has to worry about this because she is not expected, by anyone, him, the kids, the courts, the femtocracy, she is not expected to ever provide anything. Bringing nothing to the table and being acountable for nothing, is perfectly fine and normal for women and affirmed at every level of society.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Dark Kenshi wrote:

Also, enduring in this case is not an option. The kids are now a currency in the c~~~’s hands, to be used as a bribe for any time that the guy threatens to leave. She is now in full control. She won the war, and he is now conquered by her, all because she just spreaded her legs and let another man jizz inside of her gash, and instead of your friend leaving their cheating whore ass, he stayed.

Off course, going on a “pussy rampage” is not an answer for him, but, instead he should have worked to become independent from the alimony, just paying the child support and possibly not getting so poor in the future. And count among his blessings that now he has so much less money, that he cannot be bothered by women, effectively going his own way, even if in a very indirect way.

She didn’t do that in a whim. She planned that cheating, she did that with someone she knows, and she will keep doing it, untill SHE decides that it is time to end her marriage and begs for Chad to keep ramming her, now that she have a house for him to move into.

Women are not property, gents. They are a loan, and they will stay with you as long as it is in her best interests to do so. When you lose your utility, they will dump you so fast, that plasma will start to form around your sorry ass when it is falling back to reality.

She’s not yours, it’s just your turn.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

And don’t be surprised if you discover it’s also ten other people’s turn.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[TheSpiceParticipant 2644]

Verus wrote:

As I said, at the time I was not red pill. My thinking was very different back then. I still believed a lot of stuff I don’t believe anymore.

I must have missed this part. Now I understand a little better why you did what you did. You didn’t know any better, so don’t beat yourself up.

In my blue pill days I may have done the same.

"I've been thinking about what it would be like if we got back together."
"You know it's too late for that."

[Beast05Participant 46]

narwhal wrote:

I hate divorce. I think it’s devastating to families. Terribly destructive. I regret that my kids had to go through that. I also hating cheating. I hate many of the things to that usually happen in marriage. I hate that people use other people’s behavior as an excuse for their own s~~~ty and destructive choices.

Agree wholeheartedly. I never regret having my kids, but I tell them, even at a young age, to hire a surrogate if they want to have children. Being a father to young men is amazing, and I love it. The small amount of money I have to pay each month (terminating in about a decade) is well worth being free from that shrew of a woman. Cheated, no responsibility taken, and a family destroyed. My sons have already started asking why I ended it and filed. I’ll wait a few more years, but it will be an interesting conversation for sure.

[BubParticipant 1405]

“One chance. Per chick. Per lifetime. No exceptions.”

Just rolling down the road

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