Advice requested

[Anonymous 5]

I’ve found, through horrific experience,,,,, in the relationship massive-losers game,
that nothing trumps the “White Knight” card to win the worst most dysfunctional, irresponsible jackpot in the game.

Any woman with a victim story, will be telling the same victim story about you !,,,,to the next guy.

Be thankful you stuck your fingers into it and not your c~~~.

She only refrained from intercourse on the first night because she didn’t want you to think (know) she was easy.
In other words, she sees you as a beta provider.
If she saw you as a sexually attractive bad boy, she’d still be s~~~ting out your jizz now, and not expecting a relationship at all.

She’s already manipulating you in ways you can’t imagine.

[SurlymonocleParticipant 38]

I concur with everyone that tells you to run.  While you think you like her and are treating her “right;” she thinks you are a “creepy” “stalker” that doesn’t understand what she wants, if you fail to give her enough cash.  Seriously, this “lady” is a red flag made out of all of the red flags…and well, there are also some stolen red flags that point out the red flags…At 20 years old, you have a whole heap of better options!

[T_x_i_x_mParticipant 1]

It is actually possible to get what you want out of this, you just have to be man enough to do it.  You can tell her that you just want to hang out and f~~~, nothing more.  She will probably go along.  If you think that she has bigger plans, you are probably right.  That doesn’t mean you have to fall into them.  Just send her on your way when you are done with her.  There is nothing wrong with doing so after telling her that’s all you want.  This is coming from someone who has done this successfully.  You may question the ethics of going forward with it knowing she secretly wants more.  There is nothing unethical about it.  You will be helping her by allowing her to be emotionally dishonest and get burned for it.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Alphanick2.0 wrote:

*Sigh* Well okay. I’ll leave her. Should I try to let her down gently?

Alphanick2.0 wrote:

She’s a virus. You ever get one of those colds that just won’t go away? She is one of those colds.

Yeah I got one of those hounding me every couple of months too. As much as I want to nail her over the toilet with hair dangling in the water, I’m not gonna. She’s got baby rabies, man, and I can smell it from across the internet.

/audio/leykis-stumps-a-single-mother/

If you go near that s~~~….. you’ll be back. And it won’t be to gloat.

NO. SINGLE. MOTHERS.

On my birthday last year, a friend dragged me to a strip joint. And I f~~~ing can’t stand night clubs and bar atmospheres. Before our asses hit the seats, they’re chatting us up and swarming up to us . Maybe it was the good shoes or something….. but we’re both tall and don’t look like convicts. Anyway, they were really nice! Friendly too! TOO friendly. It made it hard to tell them to get lost. I just walked in! Give us some f~~~ing room to breathe and at least wait 5 minutes until we have a drink in our hands.

So I “let them down gently”. My friend says, Keymaster, just tell them no, or scram. And I say “Well she was NICE. I’m not gonna be a dick about it….”

He says “WHY NOT????? If you came on that strong in the same way to her outside this establishment, she would tell you “no”, you’re a creep, and have no consideration for you. They don’t let you down easy. No matter how nice, or polite you are. THIS IS THE PLACE FOR YOU TO DO THAT TO THEM. Say NO. Go away. Scram. Goodbye. When I want it, I’ll tell YOU — and not the other way around. This is a buyer’s market. Women don’t get to sell in here.”

An excellent point.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 42]

[lonestar77Participant 406]

There’s not much I can add that our brothers haven’t already said other than:

“DUMP HER AND DUMP HER FAST!”

 

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me

[….Participant 305]

Don’t worry about letting her down gently…she would do the same thing to you in a heartbeat if she felt like it…it’s not like you’re not being mean about it…just break it off….a couple of tubs of Ben & Jerry’s and she’ll be fine.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

Alphanick2.0 wrote:

Should I try to let her down gently?

If the roles where reversed, would she let you down gently?

NOPE!

Don’t care about her feelings, because she never cared about yours.

[Robert HallamParticipant 696]

Well this aint going to last long anyway.  So I wouldn’t worry too much.  What did you say.  Two days after she broke up with another guy.  This bitch is a hoe.  F~~~ her and get the hell away from her, but make sure she’s clean before the f~~~.

[Anonymous 2]

T_x_i_x_m wrote:

It is actually possible to get what you want out of this, you just have to be man enough to do it.

Carefull with statements like that!

T_x_i_x_m wrote:

There is nothing wrong with doing so after telling her that’s all you want.

I do agree with the actual point though. Problem is her hidden agenda, which you don’t want. Get snipped before you start f~~~ing degraded goods.

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