Advice from everyone on here if you start liking someone

[Big BossParticipant 4496]

Jim01 wrote:

Needs some advice…..

I’ll give a brief history of the last few months; I hate my job with a passion.

there is a woman at work who I have started to get along with and I can feel those first pangs of starting to like her.

what is the best way to proceed? I can’t cut contact as I work with her but is there a way anyone else on here would deal with this?

I don’t want to start dating or put myself through the mangina wringer as my dating past has been very blue pilled and if I got roped into a relationship I’d probably end up a loser again so I’m just not going there.

General rule is if you don’t know how to handle women, are usually the one getting playing in a relationship, you don’t want to get involved in drama, don’t want to loose a great job, then don’t get yourself in a mess by dating where you work. Work is work. If it didn’t suck ass, they wouldn’t generally pay you to do it.

Now, IF you want to have a monogamous relationship with her… you need keep cool about committing till she shows she wants a monogamous relationship first. Bitches are tricks. They will try to mind f~~~ with you. Let her get a taste of the D for a couple of weeks and let HER advance the relationship and you simply reciprocate as a cool bro along for the ride she’s offering.

Always remember, never want it more than her if you want to keep her. Seriously, because they get offered dicks so fast and so often, your generally wasting your time 85% of the time because she’s sucking a few of them at once even though they are not attached to you.

Plus most of the time with women, after 7-8 years, they get tired and find reasons to be whores. They have no sense of real loyalty so always have your hand not far from the eject button and NEVER put the ball and chain on. Your s~~~ under your name all the time.

[RennieParticipant]

You have to recognize when it’s starting and knock it down before it gets dug in.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Jim01 wrote:

To be honest it won’t

I am looking for a short term fix to a long term problem – I hate what I do but I am trapped at the moment through not having any idea what I want to do instead(and this place is paying off my mortgage)

A pal sent me this mere hours ago, and it seems to fit your situation.

In Buddhism, pursuing happiness is not just a moving away from one thing—the acquisition of external objects—but moving toward another, dharma practice. It’s extricating yourself from the actual sources of dukkha [delusion], which are internal, and moving toward greater freedom, greater mental well-being, greater balance, greater meaning.

—B. Alan Wallace, “What is True Happiness?”

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Jim01Participant 6678]

RoyDal wrote:

Jim01 wrote:

To be honest it won’t

I am looking for a short term fix to a long term problem – I hate what I do but I am trapped at the moment through not having any idea what I want to do instead(and this place is paying off my mortgage)

A pal sent me this mere hours ago, and it seems to fit your situation.

In Buddhism, pursuing happiness is not just a moving away from one thing—the acquisition of external objects—but moving toward another, dharma practice. It’s extricating yourself from the actual sources of dukkha [delusion], which are internal, and moving toward greater freedom, greater mental well-being, greater balance, greater meaning.

—B. Alan Wallace, “What is True Happiness?”

I think some serious soul searching is needed….

[Jim01Participant 6678]

and thanks for the advice everyone

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