Advice for a young man who has nothing to lose and nothing?

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Having nothing to lose & nothing ….

Seems like a very good starting place to me.

I’ve done it 3 times. In another world that’s called total freedom ☺

[Dez82Participant 107]

FreeGhost, the other users gave you a lot of good suggestions. I have really little to add.

If you do, stop forgiving all those female behaviors that blue pill world has taught you to be “cool” or “fascinating” or other similar bulls~~~s: if you feel women are rude to you or just annoying then tell them to f~~~ off, even better, give them the cold shoulders and walk away: they would mean problems to you, nothing else.
Start thinking that they are the ones who must gain your approval, not the opposite. Stop caring for a woman and to run for her littlest call for help, unless it’s crystal clear in your heart and mind that she deserves your aid: a single dark spot in the crystal (if she doesn’t care for you until she needs your help for example) and then let her drown in her problems.

Sometimes I too wonder to know a valid companion for the rest of my life and to start a family. It’s sad to know that this probably will remain a dream but try to cheer up by looking at the s~~~ you’ve avoided like your past crush that has become a land whale, your friends married or paired with hags, all those nasty bitches that you could have been ended married to during your blue pills days, the rage against men in divorce courts and so on. Meanwhile, as others said, focus on your improvement: body, spirit, knowledge. Eventually a good woman will come and then you’ll have solid basis basis to correctly examine her before making the great step, clean of all “and they lived happily ever after” bulls~~~s that media taught you. If she won’t you’ll still have your enhanced life to enjoy.

[olderwiserParticipant 65]

You have such veterans here to advice you. Stealthy MGTOW, Soldier Medic and others. Listen to them and come back and read again and again until thinking MGTOW way becomes your second nature, let neuroplasticity do the job for you.

– First, stop watching mainstream media and its ways to convince you that you need a women to be happy. No one makes you happy but yourself.
– Read, read and read, understand humans, from earlier times to now, at least understand and try to relate to humans on common levels from earlier times i.e social hierarchical structures, daily struggles etc. I’m talking about throughout history.
– If you don’t have money, get a job, anything will do for now until you can move on to a better endeavour.
– If the urge gets strong, yes rent it and pay her to leave, that’s what they are for.
– Avoid being pulled into a group think, think for’youself under light of reason and logic.
– Find a passion other than women, trust me, 5-10 second of orgasm is not the best experience you can have, sure it’s enjoyable but once it’s over deep down you know there’s something better.
– If you grew up in a relatively normal household (with proper male / female role models) look into your childhood for what you really liked as a kid, I loved building things and being around different people, so now I engineers systems, socialise and travel, never feel like I’m working, always feel I’m on holiday.
– Eat healthy, trust me we humans a lot of the time eat more than we need to and then eat s~~~ food. Educate yourself on what is good for you, I’d rather stay hungry for few hours than eat shut food that is going to later cloud your judgement.
– Never let a women’s beauty dictate what you were going to say, always say what’s on your mind, it’s the hardest thing as a young adult but once you overcome it, the other side is very sweet, although be careful, this power will bring women to you more than you might want, silence can be the best reply a lot of the times.
– Cultivate your life around you, your work and hobbies. Try to meet as many people as possible (Meet a lot of women, you do’t have to sleep with them, meet in public setting, you’re training your mind to understand / cope with their manipulative ways, you’ll become a Jedi at handling it, I can see a crazy women from a mile off and always find a way to distract them enough to stay platonic) to lose any social anxiety that you may have, then keep the ones that you see worthy and see might compliment your red-pill lifestyle, the rest will not know what him them as they live their life of illusion in the Matrix.
– Try to understand human brain and its ability to perceive things in different way. Use this to your advantage. Neuroplasticity.
– There will be days you will feel down, learn more about yourself and your body, it’s simply possible you just need to rub one out. It’s just your body’s way to dealing with stress / keeping the pipes clean.
– Volunteer and mentor others and you will never feel alone. When you have helped someone and been there in a difficult time, people will remember it, but only do it to people who have proved their worth to you.

I believe that if, you’ve had a lifestyle cultivated around your values you will bring the right people in your life and they will stay, especially men. Even a homeless guy got hundreds of people at his funeral. “You will die alone” is a tactic for femc~~~ said to get men back to plantation. Don’t fall for it, get a dog and if you want children, go the surrogacy route.

My 2 pennies.

Life consists of two days, one for you one against you. So when it's for you don't be proud or reckless, and when it's against you be patient, for both days are test for you.

[WolveParticipant 191]

Anonymous wrote:

FreeGhost wrote:

I express my gratitude to the older gentlemen on this site that have helped me tremendously to see further though the deceptive lies of females, yet I am struggling to find purpose without attempting to find a woman. I’ve witnessed first hand that searching for an American woman is like digging your own grave at 30, so what other avenues do I have? I will admit, that I am decently happy now in my late 20’s, yet I know that statistics are greatly against me in my quest to find a decent woman. Anyways, thanks for all the support on here men, your efforts are more meaningful than you may be aware of. Thanks in advance.

This is short rough and ready without any window dressing.1 If you are itching for a f~~~, get a rental pussy and pay for it. No muss no fuss and no obligation.2 If you want something more steady, make sure its on your terms, if not certain refer to number 13 If you want something with more emotional content refer to number 4.4 Get married and say goodbye to option 1 & 2 , your money and you sanity.

I agree with your points besides number 3 I think find some brothers and hang out with them for fun would be a better solution (keep sex and emotions apart)

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

olderwiser wrote:

Find a passion other than women, trust me, 5-10 second of orgasm is not the best experience you can have, sure it’s enjoyable but once it’s over deep down you know there’s something better.

Great quote and when feeling horny or deciding with a girl definitely rub one out first, you’ll be amazed how more logically you’ll be thinking afterwards, you be like “meh.” Trust me on this!!!!

[megatoad69Participant 449]

Geez Deep, I must practice drinking beer like your avatar!
This forum has enabled me to talk and walk with more confidence, happiness is not found in a woman, it is already within you.
When you meet a girl, it’s like being born, and then for the rest of your life you are slowly dying, except in a relationship, in quick time, you may as well already be dead, because YOUR life is over, you’ve become a slave.
And don’t listen to some of these guys when they poo-poo cats, I am sitting here and I have 5 cats within 1 metre of me, 2 are on my lap, that’s some warm pussy dude!
It’s OK a MGTOW can be a cat man, I just love animals, and I like cats, I would like a dog, but I have enough cats already.

Meow, meow, purrrrr, er sorry, too much influence. English OK then………

The thought of getting into a relations~~~, feels to me now like as if I voluntarily walked into prison and stabbed a guard, they own me now from that point on.
So now, I come home from work early in the morning, nobody is bitching at me because me pulling my shoelaces undone made too much noise, instead I am greeted by a bunch of cats that don’t bitch at me and think of me as a king.

Look within for happiness, and animals can help with that, they are a good way to prevent you from wallowing too deep within the dark areas of your mind whilst being by yourself.

You can't reason with unreasonable, there; women, figured out, there is nothing to reason.

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

I come here everyday to read and get my red pill doze ,believe me mgtow style is the best, in this system we as men got everything to loses if we get married it will be worses you will end up alone and an slave of a woman and a system,and all for what??for a vagina???i work i can get vagina anytime i want, i just dont kowtow to any women

[OgreParticipant 5863]

FreeGhost. Here’s an exercise for you to try. It can last as long as you want. Live off 10 percent of your current salary that’s left after rent and utilities. That’s the most that your wife will “let” you have access to. Now, it may sound crazy but she will manage, after having her own goals in life to quit working and stay home with that little rugrat to carry on your genes that you so desire, hemorrhage money to the point where that’s the highest amount that you could hope to sequester from her grasp. Now if you’re still playing spend 80 percent of your time not at work taking care of an elderly neighbor who can’t do s~~~ for themselves, since you won’t be having sex with said neighbor it’s just like a wife. After a certain amount of time decide how long you could put up with this set up if:

A: It’s OK, I mean it feels good to have somebody who needs you and the sex was going to dry up after the kid anyway.
B: The person who you do everything for is unappreciative or just grumpy all the time.
C: The person that is helpless without you is combative, physically or verbally abusive, or threatening toward you.
D: The person who would cease to exist makes false allegations about you to the police or the courts to try to kick you out of your home and their life while getting half of everything you own.

Obviously INTPs like you and I have a decreasing threshold for each of the terms that I just put above. If you can convince yourself that you could live with those terms and under that constant threat until the day you die then start looking for your NAWALT Unicorn and marry her. I just hope you aren’t searching to re-find this forum some time in your forties.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[FreeGhostSpectator 318]

ogre – excellent points as the overwhelming majority of points prior

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