Addicted to relationships with women(sex)

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MasterAngler wrote:

I am 31 I just have a really high sex drive.

I am also 31 and have the same insane sex drive. Your best solution is to masturbate to neutralize the urge. You can find the right balance in terms of how often and when during the day that works best for you.

That is the safest and most stress-free solution, brother.

[NomadicExpatParticipant 1785]

ghost wrote:

I am also 31 and have the same insane sex drive. Your best solution is to masturbate to neutralize the urge. You can find the right balance in terms of how often and when during the day that works best for you.

That is the safest and most stress-free solution, brother.

Great insight there, figuring out balance. I still struggle with this, as I will binge on VR porn because of the oxytocin and endorphin surge it gives me.

I can stay on the edge for hours because I am in complete control; which means my brain just keeps releasing those pleasure inducing chemicals into the bloodstream until it goes bankrupt. Then I crash, HARD.

Carnage wrote:

Is really the sex you are after, or the validation that comes after getting some tail?

That’s a question I did to myself, why did I needed sex soo much?

This is a PERFECT question address when you have some quality alone time for quiet reflection. Be perfectly honest with yourself.

I almost fell for the 19 year old (almost agreed to get in a relations~~~) solely for VALIDATION, as Carnage pointed out.

It wasnt just her tight body that got my brain running in circles, but the VALIDATION for both myself and those around me that Im still desireable to girls with high Sexual Market Value (SMV).

A sexy girl that admires you is essentially an audit on your SMV, lets you know where you stand.

Why did I care about my SMV? My rational brain knows Im not chasing tail anymore. So why care?

Deep down, part of it was simple REVENGE. my ex-wife divorce raped me and attempted to monkey-branch to something better, and failed. Shes now a fat heiffer who hit the wall and is still trying to come back.

A simple, base part of me just wants to really rub it in her face. I would LOVE IT for her and the hive to see that Im not only doing much better without her, but that Ive now Upgraded to a much newer, sporty model with a tiiiight body and a harem of young friends. That if I simply chose too, I could surround myself with sexy, hot young 18-24 year old college girls half her age while she cries herself to sleep at night, AND IT IS ALL BECAUSE OF HER HYPERGAMOUS, MONKEY-BRANCHING, SELF INFLICTED CHOICES.

But when I really contemplate on it, I see that there is no virtue in this. It is petty, base and quite frankly very womanly for me to want to “shame war” via social media and status.

There is still always the allure, however, to be the Man in the advertisements; the Silver Fox who has his life under control while sexy youthful girls pine for his attention.

But then the reality always sets in. That charicature is surrounded by parasites who WILL use the modern social constructs to take him down at his prime and wrecklessly devour the resources.

Disregard desires for social validation. It is expensive to purchase, short lived and frankly everyone forgets in five minutes anyways.

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NomadicExpat wrote:

I can stay on the edge for hours because I am in complete control; which means my brain just keeps releasing those pleasure inducing chemicals into the bloodstream until it goes bankrupt. Then I crash, HARD.

It takes dicipline like anything else. It’s not easy for me but I am my own tyrant when it comes to most things.

[DirtBikeManParticipant 535]

You either learn the hard way, or you learn the easy way. You just need more negative reinforcement. What is it going to take, paying child support, an std, hell maybe the sex is worth all that in your mind. Be smart, be cautious, don’t f~~~ your life up beyond repair. Getting a nut is just not worth it. But you will.

The most important thing you can do is ask yourself, what do I really want out of life. Really think about it, and always be true to yourself. Then Do it.

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