Addicted to relationships with women(sex)

[MasterAnglerParticipant 42]

I am addicted to having relationships with women I went 8 months with out having one but had a f~~~ buddy that I could hit up every 3-4 months so I wouldn’t go crazy. That ended I had two horrible and I mean horrible gfs after that. It all breaks down to my need for sex it’s driving me insane. I know it’s horrible I know these women will just screw me over but it’s like a moth to a flame.I have my rational brain and then my sex drive. How can I stop this?

[Anonymous 18]

MasterAngler wrote:

How can I stop this?

Read/listen to the book ‘The Chimp Paradox’.

It may not turn the light bulb on for you but it is important to know that we all are walking dual-personalities. The cognitive, higher functioning executive human and the primitive chimp that is emotional and reacts before it evaluates.

Mating/sex is one of THE strongest pathway and it’s not enough to throw words like ‘awalt’, ‘false rape’, ‘STD/pregnancy’.

The chimp simply will not listen.

What you ought to do is accept that the chimp is far stronger than the rational human being. That is where human regret stems for. The aftermath of chimp’s irrational emotional thinking that the human is left to deal with.

Bargain with your chimp. But the more you try to suppress its needs to have sex, the more irritable it becomes.

Read the book. There is an audiobook version as well.

Understand, reflect and perhaps you can find something meaningful.

Best wishes.

[nonameParticipant 746]

MasterAngler wrote:

I am addicted to having relationships with women I went 8 months with out having one but had a f~~~ buddy that I could hit up every 3-4 months so I wouldn’t go crazy. That ended I had two horrible and I mean horrible gfs after that. It all breaks down to my need for sex it’s driving me insane. I know it’s horrible I know these women will just screw me over but it’s like a moth to a flame.I have my rational brain and then my sex drive. How can I stop this?

Brother look into taoism, they have lots of practices to use that need (energy) for other more spiritual or creative purposes (taoist yoga comes to mind).
If your need is not to impress others or validate your self then there is a way.

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. - Aristotle
Warrior asked Fear, “How can I defeat you?” Fear replied, “If you don’t do what I say, I have no power.”

[ghostParticipant]

You need to get C~~~ off your mind.

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

I hear it gets better with age. I’m 29 now and I still have strong urges for it. I laid a 21 year old about 2 weeks ago who one night standed me…which 1) I expected and 2) I’m admittedly relieved about. I hope the urges die out in my 30s as I hear they do. Thankfully I’m working a job that works me all day, every day now…so I have no time for women.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22508]

Find porn you like and learn how to enjoy masturbation. Or get a sex doll. Seriously. Once the urge passes you go about your business. That is all it is, a physical urge for release.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Anonymous 43]

Time honored method, works 100000% of the time

ready…take notes, I want you to tape this up somewhere convenient

Next time you are feeling like putting your doinkus in a vajunkus
go to the kitchen
select a low cabinet door and open it
squat down to your knees and put your junk near the edge of the cabinet, lean back a bit, it helps
then slam the door as hard as you can on your doinkus and your ballzes

Still feel like f~~~ing a vajunkus?
Do it again.

[xanthineParticipant 4903]

Honestly dude, look into getting a sex doll. I know there is a lot of stigma around sex dolls, and a lot of people are weirded out by the idea…but it pretty much offers all the advantages of having a woman with none of the disadvantages.

I was kinda like you, i was pretty much addicted to women for most of my life. I’ve dated and f~~~ed a lot of women, way more than the average dude. But for that very same reason, I’ve also experienced a lot of bulls~~~ which is one of the main reasons i ended up here. I finally got to a point where i had enough and decided it wasn’t worth it anymore…but of course your rational brain can’t exactly override a massive sex drive which is borderline addiction.

After awhile i finally broke down and bought one. It was weird at first, and i felt like a real loser for buying one, but i got over that quick and trust me its f~~~ing awesome. The best part is my desire to do anything with real women is almost nonexistent now. Literally the only thing they have ever had that i wanted is sex, but i honestly prefer the doll to most real women now, which means i have precisely zero reasons to even have anything to do with them.

That is a truly great feeling…they no longer have any power over me at all, and no influence of whether I’m happy or not. You can’t put a price on that…

[Anonymous 43]

you want to risk disease, unwanted pregnancy, false rape accusations and the s~~~ vortex just to be with a woman?

Why? What benefit is there?
Power over another human being? Warm body? squishy boobs?

ooohhhh aaahaaahaahaa ooooooo aaaaaa oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo?

and then ya got a wet spot on the bed

I could never get over the wet sucking sound…lol the doinkus is a piston in a cylinder filled with goo sluuuuurp splooooogh sluuuurrrp sploooooge if shes a loose fit, ya get the c~~~ farts, pfffft pffffft pffffft

prolly the reason why men do temporarily deaf during sex, so ya don’t hear the suction sounds

nasty s~~~ there, pumping out girl goo and previous chad goo until you release spooge.

lol I used to give my exc~~~ a towel to clean up, then we would change the sheets because the goo was everywhere…making the bed with a towel jammed between her legs

put that image in your head amigo…lol so fukn sexy

Oh god I just remembered, my junk smelled like a burning tire for a day afterwards. Yuk

[Anonymous 3]

It’s not a matter of how, it’s you. Everything you do, you choose to, nobody is pointing a gun to your head and forcing you to do something. You don’t need women. If you don’t eat, you die. If you don’t breathe, you die. If you don’t have sex, nothing happens to you, and on top of that, you can masturbate any time you want. You know all of this already.

Your question is like people asking, man how do I get fit? Everybody knows, in this day and age, you stop eating crap and you work out, everybody knows that. But no, they would rather just keep buying and surrounding themselves with chips and soda, sit on their asses and munch all day, then wonder how come they are fat as hell, come and tell me that they can’t stop eating chips, which is all bulls~~~, yes you can, you just choose not to.

So just start doing it. Discipline and willpower over everything.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

MasterAngler wrote:

How can I stop this?

How old are you? Just curious.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[NomadicExpatParticipant 1785]

Brother, I completely empathise with your situation, your post could have been written by me word for word a few years ago.

I still struggle with this on a daily basis, but now that Im in my mid 30s Im finally starting to succeed. I just blew off a hot 19 year old about a week ago, something I would have had NO willpower to do only a few years ago.

Read redpill knowlege daily, constantly check back with this website, FAP like theres no tomorrow and invest in products that will satiate your sexual desires (sex dolls, fleshlight, VR porn).

Spend plenty of time alone and sober. Contemplate what goes on in your head when meeting an attractive girl, then analyze the fantasy vs. The reality you know to be true.

Search for deeper knowledge and meaning of your existence, beyond getting laid and getting paid.

Ive been reading Marcus Aurelius’s Meditations, it does well to temper the desires in a Mans soul.

Also, just disregard the “bruh your a mangina pussy for still wanting sex, I TOLD YOU the dangers blah blah blah”

As others have stated, your fighting a DEEPLY embedded program in your brain, the very one that has ensured the survival of our species. The arrogant attitudes that are amplified by redpill rage dont acknowlege this.

I know you KNOW not to engage with the female parasites. But your automated, ‘fight or flight’ physiological response when triggered by t~~~ n’ ass is near insatiable.

Right now, your probably feeling like Morpheus, tied to a chair, fighting these DEEPLY embedded urges:

Break free Brother, we are here to help. Never forget what brought you here.

[NomadicExpatParticipant 1785]

ghost wrote:

You need to get C~~~ off your mind.

Love you like a Brother, Gambit, enjoy your posts and respect your insights. But single sentence comments that equate to “get over it” to new members seeking help do more to push away than bring into the fold.

Thats like going to an AA meeting and saying “just stop drinking you idiots”….

They already tried that and cannot on their own. He is seeking help. Lets light the path.

[MaddladParticipant 765]

Im 44 and i still struggle with this as well mate. I’m a martial artist whos done heaps with meditation and other mental programs such as CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy) and i still struggle. I just love f~~~ing hot women. I hate the rest of their bulls~~~, but i do love f~~~ing the hot young (18+) ones, so i understand. Maybe a hooker will get you what you need once in a while? At least you know she’s only there for because you’re paying her. Just try different things and see what works for you.

[Anonymous 5]

Don’t hurt yourself by trying to take women off your mind.

Take me for example, I’m a young man. Can I dare say that I will never have sex? Of course not, why?

Because I was born to have sex. Thinking about women is natural, nothing wrong with it. I tried, and tried to take women off my mind, but I can’t. I love bad bitches, that’s my f~~~ing problem lol.

But, will I marry them? Hell to the f~~~ing no!!!

Monk mode is NOT for everyone. Each of us are going our own way. It doesn’t matter what anybody says.

Do what you want, be thyself, and rejoice.

[ghostParticipant]

NomadicExpat wrote:

They already tried that and cannot on their own. He is seeking help. Lets light the path.

Thank you for your kind words brother. I will try and do better going forward.

Your response was well thought out and delivered. Thanks for setting a good example.

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

Well I’m in my late 30s. I reckon I could easily manage multiple f~~~s even at my age…abstinence is hard (no pun intended).

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Well think this way…

Maybe all men are rapists, maybe you are, maybe women are in the right.

Or maybe they made us think that way?

Why you need sex soo much?

The I can’t live without sex bulls~~~ in not you, is not your nature, that’s not what we are.

Is really the sex you are after, or the validation that comes after getting some tail?

That’s a question I did to myself, why did I needed sex soo much?

Think about it and tell me what doesn’t match.

We are men, we fight, we hunt, we kill, we built things, we grow stuff, if all we ever did and ever really wanted was to f~~~, nothing of this wold have been built. NOTHING.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[ghostParticipant]

Carnage wrote:

Is really the sex you are after, or the validation that comes after getting some tail?

That’s a question I did to myself, why did I needed sex soo much?

Think about it and tell me what doesn’t match.

We are men, we fight, we hunt, we kill, we built things, we grow stuff, if all we ever did and ever really wanted was to f~~~, nothing of this wold have been built. NOTHING.

You can be very logical sometimes.

[MasterAnglerParticipant 42]

I am 31 I just have a really high sex drive. I am all too the familiar with the crazy horrible s~~~ that women do. Smacking it just doesn’t cut it anymore.

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