Adapting To Changes

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

There’s one thing that is annoying about having a romantic relationship with a woman: dealing the changes. Her mood changes, her goals change, her outlook on life changes, her eating habits change, etc. She might be hot in bed for a couple of years, but then she finds a religion and turns into a nun—and she expects you to turn into a monk as well.

Maybe you met her in college, and she was really fun to be around. She was wild and free and shaking her butt at parties. Now she’s in her 30s and she regrets being that way. She wants to have a new reputation: a wife and a sweet soccer mom.

A few years go by, and she hates staying home, and babysitting kids all day. She wants to climb the corporate ladder and break the glass ceiling. She’s too busy to have fun with you or too tired to give you a hand job when you’re in bed. She’s back at college while the kids are in school. Then she gets a job. She has no time to spend with the kids or go out with you. She wants to have the reputation of being a career woman because being a housewife is BORING. You’re expected to hire a babysitter or watch the kids while she is studying for her exams or working.

If she gets fat, and gets a stupid, short haircut, she expects you, and all men, to find her attractive and compliment her. You must go along with this charade or else she won’t be happy. And if you get caught looking at young, slim, attractive women, you’re in trouble.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Great post!

All “benefits” of having a woman in your life in a nutshell.

You become her slave.

All women I was ever with were like that.

They turn your easy and trouble-free life into a To-Do list that never ends.

And nothing you do is ever good enough, high enough, tall enough… She is never satisfied.

If you want to throw your life away, then get married.

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[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Her “changes” all build on having the man as a slave – to command him around – “Do this, do that…” – So she can do what she wants. And reduce her effort to an absolute minimum. And then complain for everything “she still has to do”.

And if you drop out and get sick once you get thrown out like some useless piece of furniture or broken appliance.

Women also never fix material things in life, same as they never fix relationships.

Once the man is “broken”, just toss him out and get a new one.

No gratefulness, no mercy. You are just “expected” to function.

Time for all men to wake up to the modern woman’s mentality.

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[MorpheusParticipant 2177]

FunInTheSun wrote:

There’s one thing that is annoying about having a romantic relationship with a woman: dealing the changes. Her mood changes, her goals change, her outlook on life changes, her eating habits change, etc. She might be hot in bed for a couple of years, but then she finds a religion and turns into a nun—and she expects you to turn into a monk as well.

And on other days, you are also replaced.

[Diamond DogParticipant 142]

Gargamel wrote:

And if you drop out and get sick once you get thrown out like some useless piece of furniture or broken appliance.

They always bitch about being regarded as sex objects but yet have no problem using a man as her personal ATM.

FunInTheSun wrote:

If she gets fat, and gets a stupid, short haircut, she expects you, and all men, to find her attractive and compliment her. You must go along with this charade or else she won’t be happy. And if you get caught looking at young, slim, attractive women, you’re in trouble.

“Were you looking at that woman over there?”

“Um no my dear you’re much more beautiful.”

“Are you fat shaming me?!

“No I wouldn’t dream of it!”

Don't be a "provider" unless you are providing for yourself.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

FunInTheSun wrote:

There’s one thing that is annoying about having a romantic relationship with a woman

“ONE” What? all your other fingers and toes have been cut off and you can’t count past “one”? There is a hell of a lot more than “one”. Actually multiply “one” by about a million and you start to get there.

[WPLParticipant 2390]

Here’s another one… if you ever share a bank account with her, you’ll most likely have to deal with “changes” to that too. As in, she’ll wait until your paycheck gets direct-deposited, and she’ll “change” your account balance before you even have a chance to see your money. Do NOT open a joint account with a woman. If you absolutely MUST keep one for joint expenses, then you both need to deposit pre-agreed amounts in it regularly and maintain a separate account for the rest of your money. Men: you’re trading hours of your life that you’ll NEVER regain, for cash. At least make sure YOU have some of that cash left to enjoy!

[experiencedParticipant]

Ratio of women saying….”People change” before vs. after marriage.
Roughly: 0 to 10,000,000………….
Women pull that line all too quickly to have not known it earlier.
Should be a mandatory part of marriage vows:
“Blah blah blah, ’til death do us part, but people change.”

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Just MikeParticipant 393]

The only constant thing about a woman you can count on without uncertainty is that they never seem to know what the f~~~ they’re doing. Moodiness, change and flippancy *is* a constant to them, all in the name of s~~~-testing.

Society: I refuse your stick and carrot. If you try to beat or shame me you'd better take me down first time. If I want smoke blown up my ass I'll buy a cigar and a length of hose.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

WPL wrote:

Here’s another one… if you ever share a bank account with her, you’ll most likely have to deal with “changes” to that too. As in, she’ll wait until your paycheck gets direct-deposited, and she’ll “change” your account balance before you even have a chance to see your money. Do NOT open a joint account with a woman. If you absolutely MUST keep one for joint expenses, then you both need to deposit pre-agreed amounts in it regularly and maintain a separate account for the rest of your money. Men: you’re trading hours of your life that you’ll NEVER regain, for cash. At least make sure YOU have some of that cash left to enjoy!

Never open a joint account with a woman. The first one to the bank gets all the money. This usually happens while the blue pill simp is at work. I have seen it 100 times.

[Anonymous 42]

Change? That’s all you’re left with when they’re done with you! And chump change at that!

[narwhalParticipant]

FunInTheSun wrote:

here’s one thing that is annoying about having a romantic relationship with a woman: dealing the changes. Her mood changes, her goals change, her outlook on life changes, her eating habits change, etc. She might be hot in bed for a couple of years, but then she finds a religion and turns into a nun—and she expects you to turn into a monk as well.

Yes, absolutely. However, I’ve found a silver lining to this, with the ex. As you describing she was always wanting change, never happy. It could be job, the dog, the house, her friends, whatever, she always wanted it different.

While I was in the marriage, a part of me thought that it was a reflection of dissatisfaction of me. To some extent, she would blame it on me at times. We still have kids together, and therefore I still see what goes with her from a distance. And the changes still keep rolling through. It most definitely was NOT me.

Ok. Then do it.

[GrumpyParticipant]

I dont deal well with “change”, for the most part.
Especially change for the sake of change, vice a substantive benefit for myself due to a change.
Having said that, I am highly adaptive.
It’s just that how I adapt to any particular “change” may not be the desired result of those pushing for the change.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

experienced wrote:

Should be a mandatory part of marriage vows:
“Blah blah blah, ’til death do us part, but people change.”

Marriage vows are meaningless to people. A marriage contract should have all sorts of disclaimers about women changing into some sort of annoying, unattractive creatures. But if that was the case, no men would get suckered into signing that contract!

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[Billy&The CloneasaurusParticipant]

This is absolutely spot on. The woman you are with now is NOT the one you will be with in a few years. She’s fun to be with NOW, loves your hobbies NOW and is generally satisfied with how you live together NOW.

Wait awhile.

She will have a “sudden reckoning” at some point, for no reason, out of the blue. Once this occurs you are now with an entirely different person…and these changes are not for the better. You no longer fit into her world view anymore. You didn’t do anything wrong, you’re the same exact person you were this whole time. She has changed now though, and is unsatisfied.

The charade keeps up awhile, because things are deeply entrenched, until you discover she’s been riding the c~~~ carousel behind your back. Then you lose everything, and are discarded as a broken man.

The answer, is no.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

narwhal wrote:

And the changes still keep rolling through. It most definitely was NOT me.

If my ex went more than about 3 years without some MAJOR life change she started to go crazy (crazier).

Let’s see if I can do this. In a 14 year span since we started dating:

Year 2 – moved halfway across country and start new business
Year 3 – get married
Year 4 – sell business, move back home
Year 4 – start new business
Year 5 – adopt child, buy house, sell business
Year 7 – Child #2
Year 9 – go back to work because she’s bored
Year 10 – buy new house
Year 13 – separated
Year 15 – Divorced

Also Year 14 – new boyfriend, moves in with him
Year 16 Moves again to new house with boyfriend
Year 18 – boyfriend out, quits job, now wants job back

Makes me tired just typing it out.

Order the good wine

[OldBillParticipant]

Billy&The Cloneasaurus wrote:

The woman you are with now is NOT the one you will be with in a few years.

Bingo! Give the man a cigar.

The woman you see now is the bait.

The woman she’ll become later is the hook.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

FunInTheSun wrote:

There’s one thing that is annoying about having a romantic relationship with a woman: dealing the changes.

There is More Than One thing annoying about having a romantic relationship with a woman.

Luckily, there is a simple solution to it all… which will NOT require you to adapt your ways.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

OldBill wrote:

Billy&The Cloneasaurus wrote:

The woman you are with now is NOT the one you will be with in a few years.

Bingo! Give the man a cigar.

The woman you see now is the bait.

The woman she’ll become later is the hook.

And the divorce court is the filet knife she’ll use to slice you from asshole to chin and rip out all of your insides.

Order the good wine

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

Women are never satisfied and never take responsibility of their childish behavior. They are incapable of rational thought.

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