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On the eve of my first week off the plantation I’ve learned a few things.
– Being rid of the Selfish One, the narcissist, the liar is long over due. I hate to even say the word “regret”, but I do wish I’d have left a long, long, long, long time ago. Or better yet never met her.
– A few men have come out of the woodwork to be supportive and not the ones I thought would step up. It goes to show, you never know someone until the s~~~ hits the fan.
– The Selfish One refuses to discuss divorce. She believes we will get back together. She’s tried guilt trips, rage, crying. NOPE. Not having it.
– I have a lot of work to do logistically and it is driving me nuts. I have a lot of s~~~ to sell. I want to rid myself of “stuff” and simplify and focus.
– My daughter and I are doing just fine. She has visited a few times already and is spending her first night here tonight. My son is off at school – so he’s insulated from this Bulls~~~.
– Almost like the MGTOW God’s were looking out for me, today a guy I know but not well went ape s~~~ when I told him I was separated. He was incredibly supportive and told me I’d done the right thing and if I needed anything ever to call him. He’s not far behind me and has a plan to get off the plantation soon. This was a pleasant development and someone I can trust and confide in going forward and I will be there for him as well.
– Skanks are already on the scent. I was at the gym with a buddy and a girl he is friends with came up to chat. She started drilling me with questions and “are you married” was the first one and within 3 minutes she blurts out, “Do you want to go on a date with me?”. My buddy stepped in and said ,”Christ – he’s been moved out 96 hours – give him some time”. She is a libtard skank and I want nothing to do with her or frankly any Godamn skanks. I was taken aback by her forwardness.
– Finally. I know I’m going to be thrive being off the plantation, but I am not fooling myself. The battle is ahead. The Selfish One is going to go bats~~~ crazy and there is a calm before the storm, but I know its coming and I know its going to be horrible.
So right now I’m trying to keep my head in the game at work. Getting settled in my new place. Scheduling an appt with the lawyer to find out what the hell I’m going to do if the Selfish One will not mediate b/c I’m trying to do this without litigation.
Have a great week, Men. I’ll be fixing bayonet here.
Anonymous7Enjoy your peace and happy hunting in your upcoming battle.
My hat’s off to you CombatRoll: talking to a lawyer, hitting the gym, getting a new place, surrounding yourself with good supporting people. You’re doing it right.
I’ll be fixing bayonet here.
Badass.
A wise MGTOW once said, “Marriage is the place where men’s dreams and goals go to die.” I know you have a tough battle ahead but hope you make your escape with minimal damage. Welcome to the other side.
Keep perfect records. Let the crazy chick walk into her own endless circle of crazy. You are doing fantastic.
Anonymous43cut her off like a gangrenous toe.
burn the stump to cauterize, save the rest of the body from the rot.
Anonymous43oh one woman at a time, end it with selfish, then move on to someone else later if you want. at the end of the assraping you will get a certificate of merit, err I mean a document called the final decree with respect to disillusionment of marriage or some such s~~~. official stamps, notarized, signed by your judge f~~~wit
you are then free to co mingle and cavort with another c~~~.
I was at the gym with a buddy and a girl he is friends with came up to chat. She started drilling me with questions and “are you married” was the first one and within 3 minutes she blurts out, “Do you want to go on a date with me?”. My buddy stepped in and said ,”Christ – he’s been moved out 96 hours – give him some time”.
I bet she wanted you to pay for her ‘date’.
If women ran the world = It would become the shithole you are seeing.
The Selfish One is going to go bats~~~ crazy and there is a calm before the storm,
I will go on the run of the mill prediction on this one . 6 months till she goes nuclear . Get s~~~ wrapped up fast .
Don’t get pulled into her game of tears and s~~~ . F~~~ her emotions they are just an act of a spoilt child .
DO NOT GO PUSSY AND START FEALING SORRY FOR HER .
Play the game . Would you like me to . If you need me to . Let her think she and her delusion of been in control is still operational . A false sense of security as you will .
You have 6 months soldier to complete this black ops mission .
This message will self destruct in ten seconds .
THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .
She started drilling me with questions and “are you married” was the first one and within 3 minutes she blurts out, “Do you want to go on a date with me?”.
They’re getting desperate out there. Expect more of this, and worse.
– Skanks are already on the scent
They’re like sharks that smell blood in the water.
"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."
– Skanks are already on the scent
They’re like sharks that smell blood in the water.
I wore house pants, a holy T-shirt, & water shoes to go mail letters at the post office. Stopped at the desk to get stamps, noticed a woman was ogling me from the P.O. boxes. She had a smile on her face so big I thought her teeth would break. They MUST BE getting desperate !!
Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)
On the eve of my first week off the plantation I’ve learned a few things.
– Being rid of the Selfish One, the narcissist, the liar is long over due. I hate to even say the word “regret”, but I do wish I’d have left a long, long, long, long time ago. Or better yet never met her.
– A few men have come out of the woodwork to be supportive and not the ones I thought would step up. It goes to show, you never know someone until the s~~~ hits the fan.
– The Selfish One refuses to discuss divorce. She believes we will get back together. She’s tried guilt trips, rage, crying. NOPE. Not having it.
– I have a lot of work to do logistically and it is driving me nuts. I have a lot of s~~~ to sell. I want to rid myself of “stuff” and simplify and focus.
– My daughter and I are doing just fine. She has visited a few times already and is spending her first night here tonight. My son is off at school – so he’s insulated from this Bulls~~~.
– Almost like the MGTOW God’s were looking out for me, today a guy I know but not well went ape s~~~ when I told him I was separated. He was incredibly supportive and told me I’d done the right thing and if I needed anything ever to call him. He’s not far behind me and has a plan to get off the plantation soon. This was a pleasant development and someone I can trust and confide in going forward and I will be there for him as well.
– Skanks are already on the scent. I was at the gym with a buddy and a girl he is friends with came up to chat. She started drilling me with questions and “are you married” was the first one and within 3 minutes she blurts out, “Do you want to go on a date with me?”. My buddy stepped in and said ,”Christ – he’s been moved out 96 hours – give him some time”. She is a libtard skank and I want nothing to do with her or frankly any Godamn skanks. I was taken aback by her forwardness.
– Finally. I know I’m going to be thrive being off the plantation, but I am not fooling myself. The battle is ahead. The Selfish One is going to go bats~~~ crazy and there is a calm before the storm, but I know its coming and I know its going to be horrible.
So right now I’m trying to keep my head in the game at work. Getting settled in my new place. Scheduling an appt with the lawyer to find out what the hell I’m going to do if the Selfish One will not mediate b/c I’m trying to do this without litigation.
Have a great week, Men. I’ll be fixing bayonet here.
It is “the calm before the storm.” Expect and prepare for the worst. Do not Concede ! You’ll prevail
Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)
Congratulations on leaving man. Good for you! I too have recently left the plantation, I’m experiencing a lot of the same things right now it’s funny. I haven’t really had time to post about it but will soon
Ha, ha, ha….skanks…
The fastest a woman has ever asked me if I am interested in getting married again is 15 minutes…
I mean I met her and she grilled me about what I do etc and she popped up with the whole marriage idea inside 15 minutes…..and she did that because I said I was waiting for a woman to arrive for lunch and she was overdue so this one picked up the pace.
This is how skanky they are now! LOL!
Congratulations on leaving man. Good for you! I too have recently left the plantation, I’m experiencing a lot of the same things right now it’s funny. I haven’t really had time to post about it but will soon
Best of luck as you endure the same s~~~storm that is the battle for freedom. I’d like to hear how things are going for you, post up when you can.
The Selfish One is going to go bats~~~ crazy and there is a calm before the storm,
Don’t get pulled into her game of tears and s~~~ . F~~~ her emotions they are just an act of a spoilt child .
DO NOT GO PUSSY AND START FEALING SORRY FOR HER .
Play the game . Would you like me to . If you need me to . Let her think she and her delusion of been in control is still operational . A false sense of security as you will .
I’m having difficulty not spitting venom at her every time I see her. When she turns on the waterworks I just have to remember how she lied, stole and treated me like a POS and it isn’t hard to stoke the white hot fire of hate inside me.
I do need to try and play the game as you say, but it is difficult to even look at her without spitting in her face.
Keep on walking, don’t look back.
NGE
I do need to try and play the game as you say, but it is difficult to even look at her without spitting in her face.
Do not spit in her face, it just gives her ammunition and drains your energy onto her.
Your INDIFFERENCE is their kryptonite. Stop giving a s~~~ about her completely, both physically and emotionally.
Anyway communication, real open communication, is not wanted or even required in a relationship. Women cannot handle fully open and honest communication, plus most perceive it as a weakness on the part of a man. All that is required is catering to her whims, and even then nothing is certain. There is no way to be sure of having a successful relationshit with a woman. MGTaoist
On mobile so can’t quote.
In response to hdvrod’s comment on indifference. I totally agree – it’s a woman’s kryptonite.
I tried to do this to get back at her. Didn’t work.
But once I made myself #1 all these good things started happening.
I look back at it now and honestly DGAF about her.- AuthorPosts
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