“I’m thankful for those that were intimidated by my wild heart because it taught me that I have two choices in life—to either live within the boundaries of their comfort level, or to say f*ck it, and be my own self—wild and all.”
This ridiculous hamster wheel delusional thinking never fails to amaze me.
So many insecure people have been taught that if other people don’t want anything to do with them, it is therefore the fault of the other person for being “afraid” or “phobic”. It’s such a strange, self-serving slant which allows for those who can’t grasp the simplest concepts of life, to congratulate themselves for their utter failure.
Her statement, when broken down is confounding:
“I am a completely undesirable person, due to my own actions. You don’t like me, therefore you are an asshole. You must be SCARED OF ME”.
First of all, she’s not being her own, independent “wild self”. Her entire article is a pathetically lonely, attention grabbing exercise. There is nothing “Wild” or “Independent” about proclaiming how insecure you are, and then throwing in a pound of guilt in an effort to make others responsible for her own self-inflicted misery. Someone who was “wild” and secure within the boundaries of their OWN life would have absolutely no need to publicly write an article about it. She’d be too busy being wild and accomplishing all of the “amazing” things which she’s doing.
Why on earth would anyone remotely like a person who’s first introduction to you is already laden with a passive-aggressive guilt trip?
I’ll never understand the mentality of those who throw the “phobia” tag around. Avoiding something which is entirely unpleasant does not constitute fear.
Say I’m driving along in a brand new car which I’ve just purchased, and there is a fork in the road. One road is smooth pavement which will get me to my destination. The other road is a pothole laden, muddy, washboard s~~~-pile dirt road.
I do not choose to go down the smooth pavement road because I am afraid of the muddy, pock-marked alternative; I am quite capable of navigating the washboard dirt road. However, there is no point in engaging in the exercise unless I purposely want to inflict problems upon myself. I go down the smooth pavement road because I have no desire to purposely damage my car, and possibly myself. Time is a very valuable commodity, and in the same way that women have no trouble throwing other people’s money around, they don’t have any trouble in trying to secure other people’s time in order to pamper themselves, while investing neither the former or latter on their own behalf.
In the same way that electricity behaves, I will take the path of least resistance unless there is something to be gained by taking the alternative route. I am not going to engage in a f~~~ing “Character Building” exercise with my life just because some half-baked, stupid bitch can’t grasp the most basic concepts of survival.
Avoiding something does not automatically constitute “FEAR” or “INTIMIDATION”. Casual avoidance is usually borne of simple logic.
If I am going to go out of my way to stop what I am doing, impede my travels on the glorious journey that is life, and do it all simply to halt and modify my life in some way to assist you: you had better goddamned recognize that it is “Charity” on my behalf: It’s not your god-given right.
Antares 4 years, 7 months ago.
